sexless marriage

[yn061515]

^ when I was pregnant, we stopped having sex from 5months till 2 months PP.
Super wala akong gana nun at super dry din down under. This is not the case for all though.

[lonely_dad]

less sex is 100% better than no sex at all 

[ficklemind]

 nung pregnant ako, gusto ko lagi 😄 lakas ng urge ko, naloloka hubby ko sakin, siya yung natatakot at ingat na ingat for our baby.
1st tri - 2x a week nung 2nd tri once a week na lang, 3rd tri - once in 2 weeks na lang then we stopped when I was around 34 weeks, hinde na kaya talaga mentally ni hubby lol, takot mastress si baby at mapaanak  ako bigla.
after giving birth via NSD , ayaw ko pa, in my mind puro pain naiisip ko,
si hubby naman takot masundan agad ang baby, Ayaw niya matulad sa kanila ng kuya niya na 11 months lang age gap.
so sexless kami now,  But I still make sure hubby is getting something & satisfied haha, there are other ways naman 

[lonely_dad]

mahirap lang kasi baka magka balat si baby 

[simang]

^^relate ako sayo sis ficklemind! Buti na lang very easy lang pregnancy ko kaya may go signal din kami sa OB. We were active until the day i gave birth, in fact my waterbag broke a few minutes after intercourse, tapos active labor na agad kasunod and baby out na 3 hours after. Kaya pag may nagtatanong saken kung pano mapabilis ang dilation at mapadali ang labor, i tell them to have intercourse lol (as long as comfortable pa). Post partum naman siguro first 2 weeks lang ako nawalan ng gana, it was more of physical pain. 2 weeks pp game na ko but syempre di pa pwede penetration. We were cleared around 6 weeks pp by OB tas ayun back to regular na ulit.

[Shadow Angel]

Nakakainggit naman kayo. Nakakamiss ang days na active kami. Sis simang hindi ba mo na feel un pain/pressure sa V natin during more than 35 weeks. Ako talaga bukod sa walang gana hirap kasi ang bilis ko ma dry talaga ayaw gumamit ni hubby ng jelly kasi feeling nya baka maka affect sa baby. Besides ang gusto nya un feel ko talaga ayaw nya un hindi ko feel parang hindi nya maenjoy pag alam nya pinagbibigyan konlang sya. Naka 5x lang kami contact sa entire ng pregnancy ko. Kaya babawi na lang paglabas ni baby.

[simang]

^wala naman akong ganung feeling sis. 38 weeks ako nanganak and that time comfy pa rin ako during intercourse, pero syempre crossed out na missionary.

[Shadow Angel]

^ang swerte mo ako nag start na sa period na may pain sabagay kabuwanan ko na.

[blushberry]

I feel so sad whenever I read something like this.  I thought my husband and I were not doing it because we were both so busy with work and that we both lost interest in doing it.  I never thought my husband would be cheating left and right, paying ugly women left and right (i'm not that bitter pero iba talaga look ng mga girlaloosh niya)...

Kasi naman, this has been mentioned time and again at church that a guy needs sex every single day or they will find it elsewhere.  Guys can really lie about this, saying wala lang gana pero pag walang gana it means may ibang girls gumagawa into sa kanila.  They come really cheap so you won't notice.

[drinveilside]

Hard to imagine that this is happening i mean after giving birth it is okay but after a year or 2 and it rarely happens, you probably need to work on your body and your smell use your charm it always works.

My wife and i weve been married for 13 years and 17 years as a couple and we have 3 kids and believe me if i can do it everyday i will.

I actually want to ask for your advice because there are times that my wife would say no, i only get the chance every weekend so sometimes its lucky enough for me if my wife would be okay even if i try to please her the best way can sometimes she would say that are you doing this for sex. I feel so weak we are just in our mid 30's and though sometimes she tells me it hurts i would understand but if there was even one time that we argue just because she doesnt want it and doesnt feel it.

she told me that if i want sex i should just pay someone, there are no third parties involve. Sometimes i feel so offended because she is trying to lose weight and one weekends she is taking Zumba classes one in the morning one at night and sometimes she would even stay up late because of gaming and would often sleep afterwards.

Honestly as a guy its a necessity and i hope that i never had this issue because i always make sure that she also satisfied but i guess there are days that you girls dont have it.

My wife has gained weight and i still find her sexy so better have your husband checked.

[futboler_dati]

Reduced sex kami ngayon dahil 20weeks na preggy si wifey. Kapag weekends lang napagbibigyan.

[kvandenhaak]

Pwedeng wala yan sa mas enjoy ang foreplay kesa sa actual.

[iam_me]

bakit ba dumadating sa sexless marriage?

wag naman sana ma experience to, 3 days nga lang wala ang init na sa ulo e 

[jieunae]

Paano kung ikaw yun babae tapos ikaw yun tinatanggihan.Lagi na lang may reason na busog daw siya or pagod.Napag usapan na namin pero lumalabas napaka hungry ko sa sex.1x lang kami nagsesex a month tapos ill work myself on him para mag "o" ako.Tapos ok na di na siya mag eeffort para siya naman.Parang nagsex lang kami para masatisfy yun urge ko.Napapahiya na ko sa sarili ko kasi lagi na lang ako nag iinitiate tapos tatanggihan ka lagi.Minsan sasabihin nya mamaya pero never nangyari.Minsan para kang t**** naghihintay sa sex.Wala naman siyang sakit and work from home siya.Hindi ko alam kung valid grounds ba to para maghiwalay.Or problema ba talaga to or pinapalaki ko lang.
Basta ang hirap lang.

[naizlabonita]

I feel so sad whenever I read something like this.  I thought my husband and I were not doing it because we were both so busy with work and that we both lost interest in doing it.  I never thought my husband would be cheating left and right, paying ugly women left and right (i'm not that bitter pero iba talaga look ng mga girlaloosh niya)...

Kasi naman, this has been mentioned time and again at church that a guy needs sex every single day or they will find it elsewhere.  Guys can really lie about this, saying wala lang gana pero pag walang gana it means may ibang girls gumagawa into sa kanila.  They come really cheap so you won't notice.

I agree with this. Totoo sobrang taas kaya ng testosterone level nila and sex will be the last thing in every man's mind. I also thought na okay lang na hindi kame masiyado nag sesex sabi nya he can go without sex kahit matagal. Twice a month lang kame nagkikita nung hindi pa kame nagsasama and then nung nabuntis ako mas nabawasan pa..ako pa yung nag aaya and I get rejected at times. Yun pala he is paying other girls to pleasure him. He is going into these massage spas with extra service to fulfill his sexual urges. It's sad. I know hindi lang siya yung ganito..marami pa diyan..kaya don't ever think na it's normal na wala kayong sex. It's not! 

[futboler_dati]

nakakalungkot naman yung story ng ibang girls dito... napapahiya na... sana maresolve na ang mga problema nyo sa sex and intimacy.

[kvandenhaak]

Simpleng logic lang naman kasi, men will always be interested in sex. If he is not interested in doing it with you, he is doing it somewhere else with someone else.

[drinveilside]

Paano kung ikaw yun babae tapos ikaw yun tinatanggihan.Lagi na lang may reason na busog daw siya or pagod.Napag usapan na namin pero lumalabas napaka hungry ko sa sex.1x lang kami nagsesex a month tapos ill work myself on him para mag "o" ako.Tapos ok na di na siya mag eeffort para siya naman.Parang nagsex lang kami para masatisfy yun urge ko.Napapahiya na ko sa sarili ko kasi lagi na lang ako nag iinitiate tapos tatanggihan ka lagi.Minsan sasabihin nya mamaya pero never nangyari.Minsan para kang t**** naghihintay sa sex.Wala naman siyang sakit and work from home siya.Hindi ko alam kung valid grounds ba to para maghiwalay.Or problema ba talaga to or pinapalaki ko lang.
Basta ang hirap lang.

its either your husband doesnt have the same urge or he has another one..

ako nga once or 3 times a month lang minsan nga once a month lang sa misis ko nagagalit pa yun kasi hindi naman daw sya ma L .

magbayad nalang daw ako ng pokpok sorry for the term pero laging ganyan ang usapan namin pag ayaw nya at gusto ko twice a week lang ako may chance kung tutuusin i even have to work for it. like wait for her until she is done using our pc which sometimes ends at 2am and then i have to massage her pa ... and its always me doing the work

[yourboyToy]

shout out sa mga "abandonadong" spouses lalaki man o babae! hindi kayo nag-iisa (obviously, haha). i feel you.

Tigang Spouses of the World, Unite!

[lonely_dad]

shout out sa mga "abandonadong" spouses lalaki man o babae! hindi kayo nag-iisa (obviously, haha). i feel you.

Tigang Spouses of the World, Unite!

di pala ako nag iisa