Unfortunately, many young Catholics find this too cumbersome and are attracted to sects that have a more fundamental approach to Christianity (which, in itself, is also a double-edged sword.)
I guess it's not enough to say "to each his own". There also has to be something to be said against fence-sitting.
When I was in Manila, I took things for granted. I didn't like going to Sunday mass kasi nakakatamad, at if ever makapunta I always viewed it as a chore.
In the Philippines, I think di ako naiiba sa nakararami and it is sad. Parang ang hirap magpunta sa church, minsan makapunta ka man, tapos na ang mass at lahat, ni di mo maalala what the gospel was all about. Ang tanging maalala mo ay yung magandang dress nakita mo sa harap mo, yung batang naglalaro sa aisle, yung family na nasa tabi mo or yung weird couple na nakita mo, etc.
When I went abroad, I found God somehow. BF ko kasi devout Catholic. And mga Catholics outside ng pinas feeling ko mas namnam nila ang faith nila. They come on time sa mass service, konti lang distractions - like yung mga pasok/labas ng mga tao sa middle ng mass rarely do you see that - mga Pinoy lang ang gawa nyan (papasok during Homily na) tapos tatayo nalang sa gilid. Catholics here come early. So gawa ko, one way para makapag concentrate sa mass is to stay near the front and this means going early too, at least 15min before. You also don't see masses held in malls or chapels situated near establishments na maraming distractions.
In terms of pagbihis or attire in church. Makikita mo na mas nagp-prepare sila dito. Hindi magarbo ang suot but more of alam mong nagbihis kahit simple lang. When I was new here, minsan naka flip flops lang ako at shorts pa. Here, it is a no no. Kaso syempre, kadalasan once in a while I see pa may nga naka shorts, kita cleavage, tsinelas, cargo pants for guys - at kadalasan mga Pinoy iyan.
My BF once told me when I missed my Sunday service - isang oras lang sa isang linggo, and you have 6 days and 23 hours to yourself, di mo pa maibigay? Then when I just attended the mass regularly, lagi ko iniisip gaano ako kamahal ng Diyos and therefore it is just right for me to go at i-prove sa kanya na I love Him din by celebrating mass on a weekly basis and during holidays of obligation. (Of course di lang naman natatapos dyan ang pananampalataya natin at meron pang iba tayong obligasyon sa kapwa - but in this aspect, I think Importante for Catholics na pumunta sa Sunday mass) Isip ko pa - He has done so much for me, like being blessed with so many things pero ano ba naman yung bisitahin ko sya weekly?
So ang tanong satin mga hindi devout Catholics e - Catholic ka ba talaga? And do you love Him for you not to go to mass?
By the way, ano pala ang CCF?