Still Childless

[mrsonthego]

^bakit nya gusto ipa ampon?

[jeune]

 I went to a Mother's Day lunch with my friend's daughter in her school today and while everyone was eating and a guy was singing for the moms I felt a lump in my throat and my eyes watered. I asked myself why am I even there knowing that it will just give me heartache--momentarily. But I realized it also gave me joy that my friend's daughter was happy to see me which she didn't know I was coming. Her youngest is my godchild and seeing her grow up from the time she was born until now is something I will cherish forever.

Praying without ceasing!

[lisse]

Your god-daughter is so lucky to have you.
I'm with you in praying!

[lalaloopsy]

^bakit nya gusto ipa ampon?

di nya raw kayang buhayin kasi yung nakabuntis sa kanya iniwan sya sa ere dahil may ibang family yung guy.  I only met the girl through a blog/social site as well and became her friend.  Yun nakapunta na sya sa house at nag sleep over dati.

[yena^_^]

^sis pd mong papuntahin ang friend mo sa Grace to be Born ni Bo Sanchez para they can help her with the pregnancy and delivery and they can also assist her para sa adoption. Search mo lang yung Grace to be Born.

[lalaloopsy]

^sis pd mong papuntahin ang friend mo sa Grace to be Born ni Bo Sanchez para they can help her with the pregnancy and delivery and they can also assist her para sa adoption. Search mo lang yung Grace to be Born.

Uber thanks sis..  kasi for the past few months ako kinukulit nya maghanap..  tapos magulo kasi situation nya.  Taga Bacolod sya at la relatives dito at nakikitira sa tita ng ex bf nya kasama ex nya pero syempre dahil buntis nga at ex na lang nya e minsan napagsasalitaan na sya at pag wala pera lagi na kami nagpapadala kesyo ala raw makain. Kami pa ngaagbibigay pang ultrasound at nung inubo sya kami pa nagpadala.  Buti mabait si hubby pero sabi nya hanggang kelan kasi weekly nanghihingi na sya kahit pangkain lang daw. Pati nga pangload nya saakin inaasa.  Very thankful again for the info sis.

[crzysxycl]

Kami rin wala pang baby.. Yung mga kasabay namin ikinasal, mga sumunod kinasal at yung mga kakakasal lang, preggy na or nakapanganak na. Ang tagal kong hindi nag facebook, hindi ko kasi alam kung anong mararamdaman ko kapag nakakakita ako ng mga posts na buntis si ganito, nanganak si ganyan.. I mean, I am happy for them, really.. pero hindi ko maiwasang maramdaman na I am left behind.. Yung feeling na napag iiwanan na kami kasi lahat sila buo na family nila. Ang masakit pa, yung mga tao sa paligid namin lalo na sa side ni hubby yung mga madalas manghusga. Kaya minsan ayaw ko na rin mag attend ng mga parties or reunions kasi alam ko kami nanaman ang mapapansin, kesyo wala pa rin daw bang laman ang tyan ko, sumayaw na raw kami sa obando, or minsan sasabihin pa "ang hina nyo naman!", dun ako pikon na pikon. We are praying sooo hard na sana this year magka baby na rin kami.

[princeza08]

sis crzysxycl: i feel for u sis, i felt the same way too. keep the faith & stay strong!

[crzysxycl]

^salamat sis. nareceive nyo na ba yung blessing nyo? mag 3 yrs na kasi kaming trying.

[princeza08]

wala pa din sis. but we never loose hope. :-)

[chinnie]

Keep the faith mga sis... God hears our prayers, it may not be today but in His perfect time.

I've been also in your situation, i understand what you are going through... I am now 12 weeks pregnant and we waited for almost 9 years. Kung kailan hindi na namin inaasahan, saka binigay ni God ang aming ultimate wish. Truly, its an answered prayer. Every morning when i wake up, naiiyak pa rin ako sa happiness sa napakagandang blessing na dumating sa amin.

God is good all the time!

[chedz.03]

^Super like sis! Thanks for sharing the good news. Have a healthy pregnancy!:)

[roxykarlo]

Sis crzysxycl, have you visited your OB na?

[crzysxycl]

Aja sis princeza08.

Sis chinnie, wow.. Talagang in His perfect time. Ang sarap siguro ng feeling sis na yung super tagal mong wish ay natupad na. Sana kami rin ng other sisses dito. take care sis!

Roxykarlo, yup sis nakavisit na ako sa OB.. From 2012-2013, lahat ng results ng lab and ultrasounds ko ok naman then just last month, may nakitang cyst sa ovaries ko. Ito na yung pinakamatinding challenge sa buhay ko pero alam ko naman na hindi Nya ibibigay kung alam Nyang hindi ko kaya..

[crzysxycl]

^sis, ok lang sa hubby mo mag adopt kayo? ang bata nyo pa sis, parang mas dapat mag worry yung mga mid 30s na ang age.

[cescilay]

Huwag mawalan ng pagasa mga sis! My mother gave birth to her first born, my older brother, 10 years after pa. Then a year and a half after she had me. Almost everyone, including the doctors, has been saying that me and my brother are miracles since my mom's uterus is retroverted and infantile.

Keep the faith!

[dudzrea]

 :)YES and AMEN sa lahat ng CHILDLESS wag mawalan ng pag asa miracle babies come to us

[oigwin]

Ang masakit pa, yung mga tao sa paligid namin lalo na sa side ni hubby yung mga madalas manghusga. Kaya minsan ayaw ko na rin mag attend ng mga parties or reunions kasi alam ko kami nanaman ang mapapansin, kesyo wala pa rin daw bang laman ang tyan ko, sumayaw na raw kami sa obando, or minsan sasabihin pa "ang hina nyo naman!", dun ako pikon na pikon. We are praying sooo hard na sana this year magka baby na rin kami.

Wow, I have the same things said to me by his relatives. It took a lot for me to not say "hindi po ako sasayaw sa Obando dahil atheist po ako." They're very conservative Catholics, and replying with something like that will ruin my ties with them. 

[bluish_mommy]

^speaking of obando.... may isha-share lang ako na story... i have a christian friend couple (sagradong born again ito ah), na ilang beses nakuhan sa pagbubuntis. from abroad, umuwi sila dito sa pilipinas, at isa sa mga isinama nila sa itinerary nila ang pagsayaw sa obando.. When I learned that they are going there, tinanong ko sya sabi ko "di ba Born Again kayo?" eto lang sagot nya sa akin "yes... but we'll do everything magka-anak lang kami"

after few months, when they went back to abroad, I learned that the wife got pregnant already, and this time, kapit na kapit ang bata... after she gave birth, they went back here in the Phils para magpabinyag, and isa ako sa mga ninangs =)

[crzysxycl]

^kinilabutan ako sa story mo sis. Talagang miracles do come true.