Inggit Sa Mga Facebook Friends

[annamarie88]

Inggit lang ako sa mga fb friends ng hubby ko na nagla-like sa mga posts ng wives nila.. Si hubby ko never naglike kasi sa posts ko kahit naka-tag sya, imbyerna yun. At saka mga hubbies na nagpopost about wives nila.. Bwahaha babaw 😁

[imyourangel]

Inggit ako sa classmate ko in one subject, ako gumagawa dito ng requirements (academic shift) tapos siya, bakasyon in Canada.

[oreo08]

ayoko nakakafeel ng inggit or self pity sa katawan... I have FB friends who like posting branded stuff and sometimes, I ask myself - how come she can afford that and I can't? And then there's this little voice in my head na magcocontradict and say, you can afford it but you just have priorities.

and then, papasok na isip ko yung main priority ko

so ayun, for now, flaunt your bags, and jewelry, your travels... wait til I reach my goal in 2 years. Humanda kayong ngumanga!!  haha kidding! Pero motivation na rin sya.

pero kung bad yun effect sa inyo, ihide nyo na lang yung mga posts... iwas nega. Magkasakit pa kayo nyan... not to mention stress. Mag FB para maentertain nyo sarili nyo, not to get annoyed everytime you open it

[Obachan]

Nai-inggit ako at the same time natutuwa sa mga post ng cousins ko on FB

Na-inggit - kasi at her age of 20's nae-enjoy na nya pinagpaguran nya, i am pertaining to her salary.
Hindi pina-shoulder sa kanya ng parents nya obligasyon na buhayin parents nila.
So silang dalawang mag-sisters they really enjoy their life being single.
Kaya happy ako for them pag nakikita ko mga post nila like :
travels,
salon / facial
 

[MisCalculus]

Super agree with sis Oreo08

Ako naman, i'm not really inggit, more on annoyed kasi pag may nagpopost talaga lahat na lang from pagkain to gifts to new nail polish, "new toy" which means new car, new gadgets. I mean, dapat talaga i-flaunt? napaka-petty 
Na-tatag lang ako kaya meron din sa wall ko pero for approval ko pa so pili lang sila. Pag may inggit akong nafi-feel i just close my fb and back to reality na lang ako.lol!

One time may nag-pm sa akin, highschool classmate ko na kung tutuusin di ko naman ka-close. Ang intro sa kin, kumusta? then pwde humingi ng favor? lol! Alam ko na manghihiram kaya inunahan ko na, sabi ko No, im sorry wala akong money, i'm on medication, whatever I have goes to my meds and regular check up. Nagsorry naman sya, "akala daw nya Ok ako, kasi parang ang saya ko daw at lagi daw kumakain sa labas ang family". Natawa lang ako, i told her na wag ibase ang situation ng tao sa fb posts nya, kasi sabi ko "sasama lang ang loob mo".

Some people only post the good stuff but not the bad ones... We cannot control what/how they post but we can control how we feel about them

[super bratinella]

I have a classmate in high school, she is in Japan, she have good posts sa fb sa mga activities niya and one time she took a picture of her eating in dirty kitchen nakakamay at sa may bandang tabi ng basuran sabi niya sa caption, hindi porke't nasa ibang bansa maganda buhay nagkukumahog kami para may makain kahit kaning lamig kaya wag nyo kami utangan..

Very transparent post and true..

[Evolet027]

ayoko nakakafeel ng inggit or self pity sa katawan... I have FB friends who like posting branded stuff and sometimes, I ask myself - how come she can afford that and I can't? And then there's this little voice in my head na magcocontradict and say, you can afford it but you just have priorities.

Exactly! I have officemates na mas mababa pa saken ang position and salary, but then, they can afford to get a car and ako  hindi? how come? then yung nga, pumasok sa isip ko, I can't afford to have a car because I'm busy using my money on investments, and i like to save money. Ayokong bumili ng car na may i sa sacrifice ako sa current lifestyle ko and worst ma damage ang regular percentage na sweldo ko na napupunta sa savings and investments.

People here in my office are fond of posting everything kaya open book ang life nila. Kung san kumain, kung anung bagong gadget ang binili, and I see them as nagpapatalbugan, so may pressure sa kanila di ba? Eh ako wala, so walang pressure. hahaha. and yung nga, tama din sinabi ng isang sis naten dito na kung malalaman mo kung pano na afford ang kotse, new watch. new bag, new iphone, eh maawa ka na lang at meron nga silang ganun, baon naman sa utang, and I'm not. so I 'm happy. Use FB to entertain yourself, wag ikaw ang mag entertain sa FB friends mo.

[simang]

People post the fun stuff online because seriously, who wants to see the sad details? Yung totoo, would you rather see the better side ng buhay ng tao and feel inggit, or see the otherside of the story and feel good about yourself? Even those who say they're not inggit, and convinces themselves na they have a better offline life (or says na wait til you see me be big), i don't know pero i feel like there's some crab mentality with that. If they did buy this and have that, kelangan pa ba talaga natin alamin kung anong naging consequence nun sa buhay nya (like nabaon ba sya sa utang or binenta nya ba kaluluwa nya whatever). Let people use their facebook accounts the way they want it. Pag puro nega posts sila, bad trip ka. Pag overly happy feels naman, bad trip ka pa din. So saan lulugar diba? Baka naman kasi ikaw ang malisosyo.

[sugardrop]

Pag puro nega posts sila, bad trip ka. Pag overly happy feels naman, bad trip ka pa din. So saan lulugar diba? Baka naman kasi ikaw ang malisosyo.

This.

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

Hahaha natawa ako kay sis simang may gigil, very good point nonetheless.

May mga nakakainis talaga at may kakatuwa din naman sa fb, if that certain person annoys you to the highest level eh di iunfriend mo, that simple

Ever since gumawa ako ng fb account never ko pang nachange yung profile pic ko haha, ganun ako katamad. Usually ngbabasa lang ako ng updates sa mga friends ko at nag-istalk, buti na lang poser din sya kaya madali mastalk hahaha, see may positive side din pagiging poser ng iba

[imeego]

I love your post sis simang :)

[simang]

Hahaha natawa ako kay sis simang may gigil, very good point nonetheless.

May mga nakakainis talaga at may kakatuwa din naman sa fb, if that certain person annoys you to the highest level eh di iunfriend mo, that simple

Because people just won't stop comparing themselves to others, lalo na these days that every person's life seems to be laid out there. Feeling ko kasi kung wala ka talagang pakialam, you just ignore. Wag ng ijustify pa na "ay puro utang naman yan, ay fake naman, ay naka iphone nga wala namang makain". And that is my point too, you just ignore, unfriend, hide, whatever. Kung ayaw mo makita, wag mo tingnan. Hindi naman sa sinusuportahan ko yung mga puro flood sa fb ng kung ano ano kasi hindi naman din maganda yun and I honestly don't like that too. But people should stop hating on them, we should just simple ignore.

[super bratinella]

^you have point sis, may mga tao din kasi na they justify what they have because others have more than what they have.  One way or another you may have more what others have but you just do not want to post it pero iba iba ang tao may gusto talaga post ang milestone ng buhay nila...

Pag super lagi positive vibes ang posts sasabihin masyado pa perfect ng life
Pag lagi rant sa facebook ng mga hindi magaganda nangyari sa buhay nila sasabihin hindi na kailangan post sa facebook yan
Pag super sweet sa facebook ng maglovers sabihin sa facebook lang masaya..
Pag nagaaway sa facebook sabihin dapat hindi na rin post sa facebook..
and etc...

haayyy... We are living in a very judgemental world...

[izabelle]

I guess kahit ano naman ipost mo sa Facebook e majujudge ka palagi kahit wala ka naman masamang intention.

Palaging may masasabi ang tao sayo. Both positive and negative. At the end of the day, ang importante alam mo totoo at kilala mo sarili mo.

[prettydefined]

Yung iba naman sis puro magaganda lang ang pino-post nila. Puro travels nila. Events nila. Sometimes humble bragging din ng mga bagong gamit nila. Pero sa totoo lang eh madami naman din yan mga yan problema.  Ugali na nila yan. Kaya huwag ka mainggit sis. Kase hindi mo alam ang story behind those pictures.

[josebeth]

they're always clubbing sobrang inggit sinced sobrang hechtech ng schedule ko I don't have time for myself to get unwind. but my friends they do whatever they want.

[mimiku]

Honestly, naiingit ako sa mga batchmates ko na nakapagtapos ng Law and attorneys na ngayon. Sad lang, because of financial reasons, I was not able to continue my studies.

[LGV]

Simang, nobody said it better, ikaw lang seriously!

I totally agree kasi you should know the concept of perception management. Bakit ka naman magpopost ng nega lage, possible naman yan minsan may mga rant tayo pero kung naghihirap ka sa buhay hindi din appropriate ipost pa. Honetly mas natutuwa pa nga ako sa nagpaflaunt ng mga bagay sa buhay nila whether material things that money can buy or anything they consider as a blessing. And I really hate people who doubts the person's capability of being able to afford a certain luxury kasi who cares if baon sila sa utang basta hindi sayo uutang. Or unless you know these people personally like kapit bahay mo na alam mong itlog nalang ang inuulam makapagiphone lang. But still tama din ang isang sis na if you really dont care eh just ignore and skip the post. Let them be, just be entertained nalang siguro.

Its normal to feel some kind of inggit minsan pero hindi yung literal na inggit kasi masama yun. Yung tipong very simple like what other sis said shes inggit kasi some friends can go on a party but she cant kasi bec of busy schedule. So I think she really didnt mean na inggit may kasamang asar diba. Meaning if she only has time then she can do it as well. Those simple things hindi yung inggit na bahala kayo magtravel, buy whatever you want basta ako may investment blah blah blah. Yeah thats good for those people who has priorities but the people who splurge naman in case maghirap sila bec of it as long as hindi ka maaapektuhan nun eh its better to stay quiet para happy lahat diba.

[mimiku]

^ I agree. Although kasi the thread is all about being envy and did not basically ask for being envy and angry at the same time. Pwede kasing maingit ka but in a nice way without harboring any ill feelings with the person you are envious with. Probably some people are confused lang because there is another thread about Facebook, yung mga kinaiinisan mong makita on your newsfeeds. Honestly, sometimes, I feel irritated especially those guys who feel they are so pogi lahat yata nililigawan kahit committed na. Anyway, pet peeve ko din yung guys na sobra kung makaselfie. Ok lang kung once in a while, pero yung iba as in yung everyday post ng post ng selfie, ewan ko lang kasi kapag girls naman nagpopost, I don't feel annoyed at all. Sexist lang eh. hehe. As I said, naiingit ako sa mga nakapagtapos ng Law, because somehow frustrated ako sa department na yan but it doesn't mean I hate seeing their posts. Kung baka, it's-not-them-it's-me-kinda-problem. Tama  yung ibang GTalkers dito, it's all about the concept of perception management. We need to realize not to hate on so much kasi ikaw din ang sumasama ng loob. Sa totoo lang wala namang ginagawang masama yung mga nagpopost. Hayaan niyo na lang na magyabang sila or anything, it's their wall. If you feel like annoyed all the time, you have the option naman to unfriend or unsuscribe - like ginawa ko sa mga guy friends kong selfie ng selfie.

[LGV]

Sis, natawa ko sa guys na mahilig magselfie. To be honest karamihan ng mahilig magselfie na lalaki sa friends list ko eh bading, peppermint, bisexual etc haha! Sabi din ng isang gay friend eh hindi daw gawain yun ng straight guys. Tama ka okay lang yung minsan pero pag madalas, hmmm fishy. Lol