past experience ko kasi dati yung tipo na wala talaga siyang gagastusin at mamumulubi ka. iiyak nalang. hehe
at may friend ako call center agent, may gf siya kala mo sa sobrang mahal nila sa isat isa at nag paplano na sila ng future nila, bumili ng house and lot at ipinangalan kay gf(take note: di sila kasal) at suddenly boom!! nkipag break nga si gf. kawawa naman friend ko kasi parang wala siyang karapatan sa house and lot niya..
There is always 2 sides to a coin. Ika nga, at least 2 cuento or versions to any event.
Sa 1st cuento -- may mga bfs kasi na career nila eh spoil their gfs. Happiness nila, who are we to judge? Or, another view is to say: eh kelangan gastosan nya to get the girl, or to keep the girl.
Tapos, pag naging toxic na ang relationship: may label na si GF: bilmoko/user friendly.
So in fairness, kung may label si GF, bigyan din natin ng label si BF. (Don't look at me to provide the label/s; di ko type mabato dito.)
Now, for that other guy who swallowed line hook and sinker his GF's logic na ilagay sa name ni GF alone ang property.....Hindi bilmoko appropriate tawag kay GF.
IF I were the GF, ang tawag sa akin eh, teka, may multiple choice: wise, forward thinking, astute, practical (very), magulang, opportunista, maswerte!
At ang tawag ko naman sa ex BF ko: my ex fiancee, the sucker.
Peace! Call a spade a spade.
So these should be lessons to us all.
For girls, parang hindi ma experience ang bad rep ( huh? nakisakay lang ako sa pagkawaldas sa pera ni bf ano!) -- best to provide for your own caprichos. That is the new empowerment! that you can afford your way through this world and spend for your own beautiful life.
For the guys, hwag rubberband mentality. Yung give/stretch; tapos snap pabalik in kind or in harsh words. It is only you yourself who can protect yourself from being exploited/driven to 1-digit bank balances. It is only you yourself who knows how much you wanna spend to get what you want, or to keep what you want to enjoy. Everything has its price; so mind your return on investment. Be attentive to your spending so you do not experience buyers' remorse. Hwag kang iiyak, you are a big boy na. Charge it to experience na lang; but learn from it.
