Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2)

[sacred cow]

^ it's better to touch when inside the movie house especially if you would be dating or you'd want a romantic relationship with the other person, unless
you'd want to make the relationship strictly platonic. disadvantage din kasi yung 2 hrs kayong hindi makakapag-usap at magkukulitan...ang awkward nun, and would you really want to talk about the movie afterwards instead of talking about each other's lives from the get go.
based on dating advices na rin tsaka personal experience ko, counter productive ang movie date lalo na sa first date unless comfortable na kayo sa isa't-isa (matagal na magkakilala), watching a movie sa bedroom nung guy on the other hand is a different story
 

[junepets]

guzy new thread na tayo:

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,276933.0.html

[crazycoolchic19]

How do you act inside a movie house?

Situation is you are not together but a prospect. Or like getting to know stage.

Ako kasi, prospect man yan or friend or what, gusto ko focus ako sa pinapanood. Hindi ba parang ang stiff ko naman pag ganun? haha

Nakakarelate ako ,such a turn off, kinda rude ang dating when hes making " the moves" . I told the guy..mas ok ang coffee kase makakapagusap ...., para sakin pag movie, dapat focus dun, mahirap magkwentuhan sa movie house eh , una maraming nanonood, ..nakakahiya dumayo dun para magkwentuhan

[anon]

anung puede ko gawin kay boylet para maging comfortable pag kaharap ako...kasi sa chat, ang dami naming pinaguusapan kaso pag magkaharap na kami hindi makapagsalita tsaka makatingin sa mata...ang awkward na...kaya end na lang conversation pag sa personal....

give him a few bottles of beer...

[ZouZou]

I have this guy friend, almost my best guy friend...

he's really sweet and I think he has a thing for me... one time, I leaned on his shoulder, I can feel that he wanted to kiss me on the lips, I tried to lean closer (I wanted to kiss him too ) but wala, Is he waiting for me to make the first move? When I kiss him naman sa cheek, nireready niya lips niya...

[ciacia18]

What makes a girl intimidating?

[Pink_Sugar]

Mayaman, maganda, matalino pero suplada. LOL

[dismembered]

^^ subjective! Depends sa standard ni guy. Pero usually, intimidated si guy if kung ano ang weakness nya eh dun naman ang strength ni girl.

[Red Rack 21]

^intimidated din si guy minsan kapag super achiever na si girl  career-wise.

[three8one]

How do you act inside a movie house?

Situation is you are not together but a prospect. Or like getting to know stage.

Ako kasi, prospect man yan or friend or what, gusto ko focus ako sa pinapanood. Hindi ba parang ang stiff ko naman pag ganun? haha

focus sa palabas at i enjoy lang na parang walang kasama..if talagang nasa getting to know stage kayo dun dapat kayo pumunta sa place na makakapagusap kayo at magkakaron kayo ng interaksyon ng paguusap.

 

@ cecily

try mong mag open ng topic na makakarelate kayo pareho. kung ano yung mga interest nyo para from there ma boost kung confidence nya. and maging madaldal sya.

I have this guy friend, almost my best guy friend...

he's really sweet and I think he has a thing for me... one time, I leaned on his shoulder, I can feel that he wanted to kiss me on the lips, I tried to lean closer (I wanted to kiss him too ) but wala, Is he waiting for me to make the first move? When I kiss him naman sa cheek, nireready niya lips niya...

anong problema mo dun sis? gusto mo rin naman diba?

[neenah]

i dont know if this is the right thread, but i want to ask you guys kung ano bang klaseng guy etong ikkwento ko.. i mean ano ba talaga nasa isip nya..

si guy may long time gf, until he met this girl officemate (with long time bf din)..
naging close sila and there's a time na naging M.U. sila.. after months nagpasya si girl na tapusin na kasi nagguilty na sya sa bf nya..

then si girl, nabuntis at nagpakasal na kay bf nya..
while si guy eh nagpakasal na din sa long time gf nya..

after a year, naging close uli si guy at girl dahil officemate sila..
until one day nagsabi si guy na hindi pa sya nakamove on (na akala nya nagawa nya nung nagpasakal na sila)..
everyday, palaging nakikipagchat (sa office) si guy kay girl telling his feelings and asking kung  may feelings pa si girl para sa kanya...
and sometimes telling a jokes na ang meaning ay dahil sa kanya kaya sya nagpakasal kasi iniwan nya si guy..

now ang feeling ni girl eh unfair sya kay guy..

what you think guys?

[dismembered]

^ That guy is trash.

Let's just say na in-effect lang sa kanya yung thought na "we're always left wanting those things we've never had."

Madaming what if's, could have's and should have's.. But we all should learn that in the end, we always get what we deserve.

[argento]

now ang feeling ni girl eh unfair sya kay guy..

what you think guys?

they just continued their cheating even after marriage tsk tsk.

[genaro]

Baka gusto lang nung guy maka-score.. sort'a like hitting two birds with one stone.. the girl should stay away from him.. It's definitely wrong!

[RoadrunnerXCX]

If  a girl and a guy  who used to be college buddies and got reunited thru FB  started to chat so often and  both are  married na... when they chat  naman purely asaran lang  and catching up with each others lives kasi na lost communication sila for 20 years....off ba yun para sa hubby ni girl ifever o sa wifey ni guy kaya. just asking...

[dismembered]

^ Ano ba history nila? Buddy naman kamo eh. I see nothing wrong with that.

[Girltalker2]

^^ the fact the you're asking, something is amiss.

Naniniwala ako kung kasal ka na, dapat di ka na nag e-establish or rekindle ng relationship (kahit friendships lang) where you leave your other half out of the picture. Ok lang mag asaran, but leaving out the spouse of your friend or your spouse in ALL of the conversations and making it private - makes it off. Kahit pa walang malisya. Eventually, puede magka malisya. Kung wala naman, if other people find out, parang nakakahiya na may asawa ka na or sya and Mas nakakahiya sa unassuming spouses nyo.

Yes wala kayong ginagawang masama. But is it worth the tsismis? Putting you/your spouse/relationship at risk to shame?

[dismembered]

Yes wala kayong ginagawang masama. But is it worth the tsismis? Putting you/your spouse/relationship at risk to shame?

On the other hand, If walang ginagawang masama, why invest time worrying?

Malay mo naman kasi bebentahan or aalukin lang ng networking. Sayang din ang potential buyer! lol

[simang]

If  a girl and a guy  who used to be college buddies and got reunited thru FB  started to chat so often and  both are  married na... when they chat  naman purely asaran lang  and catching up with each others lives kasi na lost communication sila for 20 years....off ba yun para sa hubby ni girl ifever o sa wifey ni guy kaya. just asking...

Think about your husband chatting with a female college buddy to catch up, purely asaran din, how would you feel?

[Girltalker2]

On the other hand, If walang ginagawang masama, why invest time worrying?

Yes you need to invest time worrying as your marriage is the one at stake.

What you don't need to waste your time on is chatting long hours with someone from the opposite gender ka pag may asawa ka na.