Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2)

[anon]

Question. possible ba sa guys na mainlove sa girl in just a matter of week sasabihin na mahal na mahal niyo yung girl and gf na agad at the same moment my dinedate kang girl over a year na. Or douchebag lang talaga hehe

Pwede naman ma in love in a week; question is will the douchebag stay in love for long...or baka easy-come, easy-go type of love yung kanya?

[sacred cow]

Question. possible ba sa guys na mainlove sa girl in just a matter of week sasabihin na mahal na mahal niyo yung girl and gf na agad at the same moment my dinedate kang girl over a year na. Or douchebag lang talaga hehe

possible pero more often than not infatuation lang yun, at kung in one week sinasabi na niya agad sa girl na mahal niya ito
kahit hindi pa niya alam kung may nararamdaman din yung girl para sa kanya, ay hindi niya alam ang ginagawa niya.
feeling yung ganitong guy kasi ineexpect niya porket magsabi siyang "i love you" sa babae e instantly maiinlove din babae sakanya...
pathetic.
 

[it_girl]

I see.. deceptive love siguro pag ganun kabilis

[sacred cow]

I see.. deceptive love siguro pag ganun kabilis

more like stupid love...

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Hmmm...this made me pause and think. You're equating "selos" with "caring". Makes me think to "fake" it next time and act more seloso. Should I?

Well gusto ko ng  tama/appropriate na selos/possessiveness. 

[bliss15]

Why do you guys tend to be less romantic over time?
Don't you guys develop deeper feelings the longer you are with a person?  I know ganun kaming mga babae.

[sacred cow]

Why do you guys tend to be less romantic over time?
Don't you guys develop deeper feelings the longer you are with a person?  I know ganun kaming mga babae.

probably means that the whole sweetness/romantic facade was just a farce when he was still courting you and
now that you are already a couple feeling niya na niya kelangan gawin ito.

[ladysapphire]

guy send signals of likeness from 1-2 times of hanging out with a girl then pushes back after a few days or so? why?

[sacred cow]

guy send signals of likeness from 1-2 times of hanging out with a girl then pushes back after a few days or so? why?

a) lost interest, baka nakita niyang hindi kayo click or may hindi nagustuhan sa'yo
b) has better options
c) busy

there are a multitude of possible reasons, pero ganun din naman kayong mga babae...magsasabi na kunwari interested lumabas pero kapag niyaya mo
na, andaming dahilan. just don't think too much and stay open to other guys who seem interested

[junepets]

^if it's a or b.. and you are in a same group of friends..
need ba umiwas na lang.. or just... same pakikitungo towards him?

[ragnar_danneskjold]

Why do you guys tend to be less romantic over time?
Don't you guys develop deeper feelings the longer you are with a person?  I know ganun kaming mga babae.

I think may ganun din naman mga babae. I think being romantic / not over time has nothing to do with gender. It has everything to do with how you handle the guy, and that requires you to figure out the right way to love him, or how to fill his so-called love tank. If you can't, most probably you'll be living with an unhappy man. And fact is, most men don't know or don't want to communicate their needs verbally.

Good news: you can find out what he wants by letting him join GT and check out his browsing history when he's in the shower.

[sacred cow]

^if it's a or b.. and you are in a same group of friends..
need ba umiwas na lang.. or just... same pakikitungo towards him?

it would be weird kung iiwas ka, same lang dapat para hindi ka obvious na affected...

[bliss15]

All my life niloloko ako ng family ko especially my little sisters as manang (hindi mahilig sa fashion etc.)
Recently, my guy friends also refer to me as manang (too serious daw...)
I asked guy friends and sabi nila turn off daw yun sa guys.
What exactly is a manang and turn off ba talaga yun for guys?

[lesters_gal]

Question, you guys have been dating for a month na.tapos may nangyari na rin.pero wala pa kayo napag uusapan about the real status of your set up. Tapos yung guy  ang lagi nauunang magtext sa girl.pero the girl makes it sure naman na kapag nagtext si guy nagrereply sha.pati sa pag iinvite sa mga dates yung guy lagi ang nag initiate.. the girl likes the guy. But she's afraid to show her emotions sa guy kasi feeling niya baka hinde mutual yung feelings nila.the girl tries to play it cool.pero she really likes the guy... from the point of view of men.ano ang naiisip nyo about dun sa girl?

[littlekinselle]

my question lang.. If kayo may closed friend kayo na babae? tapos sabihin nanatin mejo nagkakachat kayo sa fb tapos bigla ka niya papadalhan ng picture na naked siya hahaha.. ano kaya niyo ba magpadala ng hubad na pic sa close friend nyo na girl? kasi ngyari saken ito.. natatawa na lang ako sa pinag gagawa niya.. tingin ko may tama utak ng guy friend ko na ito, hahaha I swear gusto ko sampalin ng left and right itong friend ko.. halos minumura ko na nga parang wala lang sakanya?!

[ladysapphire]

it would be weird kung iiwas ka, same lang dapat para hindi ka obvious na affected...

but if tamang acquiantance lang, pwede bang art of dedma na lang? hehe i mean yeah when he texts you 1st hindi na masyado accomodating mga replies mo? hehe syempre you know you lost your shot with the guy kaya you tend to be less interested na din.

[sacred cow]

but if tamang acquiantance lang, pwede bang art of dedma na lang? hehe i mean yeah when he texts you 1st hindi na masyado accomodating mga replies mo? hehe syempre you know you lost your shot with the guy kaya you tend to be less interested na din.

yup, basta wag lang total dedma...para di ka naman magmukhang sobrang bitter

[sacred cow]

Question, you guys have been dating for a month na.tapos may nangyari na rin.pero wala pa kayo napag uusapan about the real status of your set up. Tapos yung guy  ang lagi nauunang magtext sa girl.pero the girl makes it sure naman na kapag nagtext si guy nagrereply sha.pati sa pag iinvite sa mga dates yung guy lagi ang nag initiate.. the girl likes the guy. But she's afraid to show her emotions sa guy kasi feeling niya baka hinde mutual yung feelings nila.the girl tries to play it cool.pero she really likes the guy... from the point of view of men.ano ang naiisip nyo about dun sa girl?

a) maybe he doesn't want anything serious and enjoys what you have right now

b) maybe he also wants something more and is just waiting for you to ask him "ano ba tayo?"

if you don't want to continue being that intimate with him tapos wala naman palang patutunguhan then ask him na,
if you're happy with your set up and not sure about your feelings din...then just play it by ear and see how things go, it's
just been a month pa lang naman. tsaka you could also be the one to initiate dates and texts, why should it always be him?
at least that way makikita mo rin kung ano ka ba sa kanya at mapapakita mo rin that you want more than to be just his booty call

[sacred cow]

my question lang.. If kayo may closed friend kayo na babae? tapos sabihin nanatin mejo nagkakachat kayo sa fb tapos bigla ka niya papadalhan ng picture na naked siya hahaha.. ano kaya niyo ba magpadala ng hubad na pic sa close friend nyo na girl? kasi ngyari saken ito.. natatawa na lang ako sa pinag gagawa niya.. tingin ko may tama utak ng guy friend ko na ito, hahaha I swear gusto ko sampalin ng left and right itong friend ko.. halos minumura ko na nga parang wala lang sakanya?!

I think it's pathetic, especially kung friends lang naman kayo...ano akala niya, bigla ka na lang matuturn on dahil sa maliit na privates niya.
on the other hand, ba't parang naaaliw ka sa ginawa niya at parang hindi ka naman as galit as you ought to be, baka naman ginawa niya yun to tease
you kasi alam niyang hindi lang kayo close friends

[ladysapphire]

yup, basta wag lang total dedma...para di ka naman magmukhang sobrang bitter

but do you guys feel this pag you know alam niyo na tinanggihan niyo si girl? or you are naive about it kasi you just felt na hindi niyo siya type?