Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2)

[ladysapphire]

^^ thanks anon. i'll keep that in mind.

question again:

why do men who are in a long term relationship tend to find someone better while still attached/involve with their girlfriend?

in making ganti, ex: nakita mo fb ni guy na may gusto sayo and status is in a relationship pero he's telling you he's not. pwede bang magtext na "hey i saw your fb, we have a lot of mutual friends pala" will he take it as a signal na busted na siya?

[sacred cow]

is it a red signal or normal lang if a guy isn't consistent in texting/calling you? like say magtetext/call kayo for 2 days straight then the 3rd day di siya nagtext then he suddenly text you before midnight na he was waiting for your text. then like last night as in todo text/call then now biglang walang paramdam. is it normal lang?

situation: new acquaintance si guy, i can say naman na may interest in both parties.

A) Guy has a life, genuinely busy and has other things going for him aside from you. Hindi ka naman niya
gf so why should he text/call you everyday just because he's interested.

B) Guy knows that being too eager and always texting you would make him look that he's already
wrapped around your finger. Busy busyhan effect to make you wonder if he really likes you or not,
thus making you look forward to when he would actually text. The fact that he texted that he was waiting
for your text means that he was gauging your interest in him, since ayaw niyang siya lagi nag iinitiate ng conversation.

I think in your case, it's more of B. If it was A, he wouldn't text you that he was waiting for your text. nagpakita siya ng kahinaan hehe

[anon]

^^ thanks anon. i'll keep that in mind.

question again:

why do men who are in a long term relationship tend to find someone better while still attached/involve with their girlfriend?

in making ganti, ex: nakita mo fb ni guy na may gusto sayo and status is in a relationship pero he's telling you he's not. pwede bang magtext na "hey i saw your fb, we have a lot of mutual friends pala" will he take it as a signal na busted na siya?

Not really someone "better", but someone "different" or "interesting-to-get-to-know-more", lady.

On the ganti thing...you can also shoot him a short FB message if you want.

[ladysapphire]

^^ sacred cow: thanks for the response. if it's more of a B, is it also fair to play the game of not texting him as well so he'll be itching to text me? haha

^^anon: ah i see. but it's still cheating right? i cant message him in FB it'll go straight to his Other folder. any other suggestions? haha

[sacred cow]

^^ sacred cow: thanks for the response. if it's more of a B, is it also fair to play the game of not texting him as well so he'll be itching to text me? haha

^^anon: ah i see. but it's still cheating right? i cant message him in FB it'll go straight to his Other folder. any other suggestions? haha

kung gusto mong isipin niya that you're not putting in effort at isipin nyang hindi ka interested, then be
my guest. if you want to talk fairness, then diba dapat minsan ikaw naman maunang magtext kung namimiss mo siya or in your words, itching to hear from him. siya 'tong nauna magtext for two straight days, what's one first text from you once in a while

[ladysapphire]

^^ noted sacred cow.

[junepets]

^^ oooh... ganun pala yun...
Up to what extent would you let the other person feel that you are also'itching to hear feom him'?

[anon]

^^anon: ah i see. but it's still cheating right? i cant message him in FB it'll go straight to his Other folder. any other suggestions? haha

he's definitely lying about his relationship status. as to the question if he's cheating, it depends what he and the other woman have done so far.

another suggestion is you can just ignore him, lady...

[ciacia18]

Nasaan ang mga matitinong lalaki sa mundo?

[sacred cow]

nakakainis yun mga lalakeng ganon sa totoo lang. karamihan ata ganon eh, kaya tayo mga babae di tuloy natin alam kung ano ba talaga intention nila sa atin.

yun kakilala kong guy ganon din. text everyday at halos every hour of the day pa. from good morning to ano gawa mo to kumain ka na ba to making kwento kung ano gawa nya to umuwi ka na ba to ano gawa mo ulit to nagdinner ka na ba to goodnight. ganon ang routine every single day. pero tumagal lang ng two weeks. after nun ni hello wala na ako natatanggap from him.

hindi ko siya gusto o ano ha, ang weird lang kasi ng mga lalake na gumagawa ng ganon bagay eh.

you answered your own question, hindi mo siya gusto, so malamang naramdaman din niya yun, anong gusto mo
ipagsiksikan niya pa rin sarili niya sa'yo? siyempre maghahanap na lang siya ng worth his time and would give
him the time of day

[sacred cow]

Nasaan ang mga matitinong lalaki sa mundo?

try mo tumingin sa mga frinendzone mo, baka meron...masyado ka lang mapili

[sacred cow]

^^ oooh... ganun pala yun...
Up to what extent would you let the other person feel that you are also'itching to hear feom him'?

huh?

[ladysapphire]

hahaha i fing the replies amusing and ang dami ko natutunan sa guy.

next question is, getting to know stage: how do keep a guy hooked on you? how do we keep the ball rolling?

[anon]

^^ oooh... ganun pala yun...
Up to what extent would you let the other person feel that you are also'itching to hear feom him'?

up to the extent that you feel comfortable with, junepets

[anon]

next question is, getting to know stage: how do keep a guy hooked on you? how do we keep the ball rolling?

speaking for myself, its a chemistry thingy. making it a Q&A conversation helps...

[junepets]

huh?

sorry nalito ko ata kayo..
what i mean is... dapat bang ipakita ng mga girls na gustung gusto rin nila ang guyz...?

[sacred cow]

sorry nalito ko ata kayo..
what i mean is... dapat bang ipakita ng mga girls na gustung gusto rin nila ang guyz...?

saktong pakita ng interest lang wag din pakipot to the max, nakakaturn off din naman sa guys kapag gustong gusto agad siya ng girl (unless it's an ONS)
tsaka minsan mapapaisip din kami kung may agenda ba si girl or kung wala bang nagkakagusto sakanya kaya parang
ngayon lang nakakuha ng male attention.

[ragnar_danneskjold]

saktong pakita ng interest lang wag din pakipot to the max, nakakaturn off din naman sa guys kapag gustong gusto agad siya ng girl (unless it's an ONS)
tsaka minsan mapapaisip din kami kung may agenda ba si girl or kung wala bang nagkakagusto sakanya kaya parang
ngayon lang nakakuha ng male attention.

ako din, turn off yung masyado madali magkagusto na girl. baka ganun lang din kadali sakanya makahanap ng iba. haha.

[sacred cow]

ako din, turn off yung masyado madali magkagusto na girl. baka ganun lang din kadali sakanya makahanap ng iba. haha.

iba kasi yung feeling na natural progression na nagustuhan ka compared sa parang gustong gusto ka kaagad,
people want what they can't have din...kaya kapag kumagat agad, you'd think there's something wrong or mapapaisip ka rin
kung gusto ka ba talaga or she just came from a breakup kaya naghahanap ng rebound. siyempre bilang tao, mapapaisip ka rin...
unless siguro kung artistahin ka at sanay na may babaeng nagkakandarapa sa'yo kahit saan ka magpunta

[it_girl]

Question. possible ba sa guys na mainlove sa girl in just a matter of week sasabihin na mahal na mahal niyo yung girl and gf na agad at the same moment my dinedate kang girl over a year na. Or douchebag lang talaga hehe