Do Guys Lie About Their Virginity?

[mikoarai]

Hi Guys, I need your opinion regarding the matter below:

So I'm kind of seeing this guy and we are not yet in the stage for physical stuff but then he confessed to me that he is a virgin and I was just speechless and in disbelief. It's not like na turn-off ako or something but more on doubts clouding my mind. Sabi rin naman ng guy friends niya virgin pa daw talaga yung guy but I just think it's impossible for him.

I don't want to be so stereotypical pero guwapo naman itong si boy, good family back ground, nag babasketball, he goes to well-known school - a typical guy that every girl would want so parang impossible lang. Plus we are both young pa! He had a long term gf pero wala daw nangyari sa kanila since she respected her and he was younger at that time, pero now parang sa akin atat na atat, which makes me think na talaga bang nag sasabi ba siya ng totoo or pa image niya lang un?

Kasi mas matuturnoff ako kung gimik niya lang yun to prove that he doesn't play around type of guy to get my attention.

[sacred cow]

I think he's telling the truth, sa sinabi mo pa lang na atat na atat...that's one sign that he is a virgin.
More often than not, guys lie na hindi na sila virgin kesa sa aaming virgin.

[Lady Czarina]

^agree! magyayabang pa ang guys at how young they are when they lost their virginity..

[mikoarai]

^^sacred crow: Thanks sa reply! siguro nga pero nakakagulat lang talaga lol pero another thing that is bothering me is that nung sa ex niya nagawa niyang mag hintay but I feel like pag dating nga sa akin atat na atat so does that mean he is not serious with me? Well, he doesn't obviously force me naman

^Lady Czarina: true but still parang impossible lang kasi especially sa panahon na ngayon haha

[entwife]

Maybe he is one of the rare guys. Haha.

[jaymejorrol]

yup. some guys lie on their virginity. pero i think dapat medyo iwasan mo muna yung ganong topic since hindi ka pa nga ready.

i-divert mo sa iba yung topic nyo. then observe. kapag pilit nya ino-open yung ganong topic, alam mo na ang pakay nya. and ano naman kung virgin sya? ano ang gusto niya palabasin? na ibibigay niya lang virginity niya sa taong mahal niya? haha.. sa tingin ko babae dapat ang nagsasalita ng ganun. mas mahalaga ang virginity nyo kaysa sa amin.

if he really wants to get your attention, then you should talk about your interests, unless gusto mo rin talaga yung ganoong usapan.

kung talagang gusto ka niya, maghihintay siya na ikaw ang mag open-up ng ganoong usapan. hindi yung siya yung nangungulit. iba na yun.

trust me.. kasi ginawa ko na din ito sa gf ko before hahaha! pero at least pinalitan ko ng loyalty ang kagagawan ko and my tiwala naman kami sa isa't isa. ayon tumagal kami ng 4 years

[sacred cow]

^^sacred crow: Thanks sa reply! siguro nga pero nakakagulat lang talaga lol pero another thing that is bothering me is that nung sa ex niya nagawa niyang mag hintay but I feel like pag dating nga sa akin atat na atat so does that mean he is not serious with me? Well, he doesn't obviously force me naman

^Lady Czarina: true but still parang impossible lang kasi especially sa panahon na ngayon haha

baka naisip niya na hindi na nga siya naka-score dun sa ex niya tapos pati sayo wala pa, and maybe he wants
to lose his v-card na. I don't believe waiting to have sex is a good measure kung seryoso ang isang tao, malay mo walang no choice
kasi ayaw din naman makipagsex nung ex niya

[mikoarai]

^^entwife: haha probably  even with all the looks he is super shy type of guy rin kasi lol

^sacred crow: thanks sa reply! Hmm...me too rin naman ayaw ko rin imeasure yung sincerity niya with only that naman pero I can't help it but to be worried rin but I guess I just need to trust him. 

[sacred cow]

^sacred crow: thanks sa reply! Hmm...me too rin naman ayaw ko rin imeasure yung sincerity niya with only that naman pero I can't help it but to be worried rin but I guess I just need to trust him. 

the poor guy just wants to get laid...I guess that's just normal...pagbigyan mo na kasi

[mikoarai]

^sacred crow: LOL well too late na kasi I'm already far away from him Long distance kasi kami, that's why sabi rin ng mga friends ko baka gusto niya lang talaga ng something na assurance before I leave him but so far we are okay naman. Thanks anyways!

[jaymejorrol]

^mikoarai darating din naman kayo sa point na ganun eh. marami pang bagay na dapat unahin rather dun, and i think that sex is not an assurance. maganda yung medyo paghintayin mo sya. dun mo makikita patience nya and kung love ba talaga ang habol nya or sex lang. wag mo po madaliin yung pagkakakilala mo sa kanya, it will took years to know  a person.

[mikoarai]

^jaymejorrol: thanks sa advice well I already told him naman na we should do it in a right place and time and he agreed so we are okay naman and we don't always talk about that stuff rin haha hindi naman siya ganun always. It's true that we need to get to know each other better first 

[jaymejorrol]

^exactly! tama yan.. mabuti naman nagkasundo kayo about that..

[Ant0ni0_01]

Guys will lie about anything if it means getting into your pants. I once lied about being gay because I wasnt into this girl I was out with and wanted to get it on with her hot friend instead. I also lied about having a twin so I could get it on with two different girls in the same circle of friends.

[ant0ni0_02]

Girl : Are you a Virgin?
Me: Why does that turn you on?
Girl: yeah it's cute.
Me: I'm a virgin. Please be gentle.

[jaymejorrol]

^ yeah me too.. i did this once.. for a purpose.. you know..

[jaemi33]

Natatawa nalang ako sa mga sagot but thanks sa mga replies haha It doesn't really matter to me anymore naman haha for me if it will happen, it will happen nalang