Paano mo mahuhuli na may KABIT si Mister?

[Scubadoobidoo]

Ill share if the price is right 

[mhy_pie03]

^Wow may pera pa palang pinauusapan dito?

[Scubadoobidoo]

Syempre hangin nalang yata ang libre ngayon 

[crishie_12]

@girltalker2 nag sasama na kami sis..ewan ko ba ilang beses ko na natry makipag hiwalay pero di ko kaya eh.mahal ko talaga sya.

[Girltalker2]

^ understand.  2 things lang puede mangyari - magbago sya (na ideally is what we are wishing for) or mapagod ka.  lahat naman may hangganan, and I believe na nasa sa atin din kung ready na tayo, how much we want to stay or leave, how much we want to take control of our lives or not.

pray narin that you may be enlightened and given the strength to do what is right. 

[Scubadoobidoo]

Yung mahirap sa kabit is that sometimes guys fall in love with them....lahat naman nagiging t****. Pag ganun for sure iwan si missis. If you love your husband or your marriage then you have to fight for it.

[Michipot]

^ yes guys fall in love with their kabit pero it's a shallow kind of love.. and they can fall out of love rin..  hubby stopped their relationship at nagising sa katotohanan na walang mangyayari sa relationship nila.. if they went on , magsasawa rin naman sila sa isat isa at mahihirapan sa patago na relationship.. mawawala rin yung kilig moments and "inlove" stage nila.  he now invests time and effort para maibalik yung trust ko and he realized that the best gift he can give to his children is to love their mom

Para di off topic.. here's what i can share..

Follow your instincts! I learned from our ME seminar na, yung kutob pala ay grasya ng Diyos sa mga kababaihan kaya we should use it to safeguard our families, friends and loved ones.

 Ako nagkainstinct noon pero I didn't listen to it.. deny ako sa kutob ko kasi di ko maisip na magagwa nya..  He has been cold, laging mainit ulo kahit konting bagay lang, may pin ang phone, walang sexy time (pero mas gusto ko kasi wala at that time because of my hormonal change siguro), OT sa work, walang gift nung Vday.. o diba ang daming signs pero di ko yan pinansin..Nagfocus kasi ako sa baby ko tsaka mapride rin ako noon...pero in the end.. sya mismo ang umamin and they ended their relationship on the day na inamin niya.

[Scubadoobidoo]

Tama follow your instincts but you have to back it up with evidence parin otherwise pointless. If you really want to know pasundan mo nalang 

[Girltalker2]

^^ sis michipot, would you know nag ME seminar din kami?  pero some things are really not meant to be.  sabi ko nga lahat ng hindi favor sakin nangyari na such that wala nang puedeng mas worse pa na puede mangyari.

ang about mistresses, sometimes they are lucky such that the guy falls for them and leaves his family. it happens.  in my case, super malas ko lang na hindi ako iniwan. di ba? what could be worse - his ideal world to maintain a wife, a mistress and other women. neknek nya!

[crishie_12]

Yes sis totoo yun naiin love sila.sa case ko super nainlove si bf ko dun sa girl.Naawa kasi siya dun sa girl.Kasi yung asawa pala nung girl is nambubugbug din and babaero.alam mu yun ng plan sila to have a family.na iiwan ni girl yung asawa niya and yung baby niya.that time ako na yung ng mamakaawa sa knila..Tapos anjan makikitaan ko si bf ng mga pictures nila nung girl sa motel...mga ganon..hanggang ngyon nakatago pa nga sakin yung mga pictures nila.(sabi ng mga friends ko ipost ko daw sa fb para makita ng asawa).Pero nung nag sawa na ako humabol.nag entertain na ako ng manliligaw kasi napagod na ako..Dun Parang nagising si bf.Binalikan niya ako.Tas dun nagising na si girl..Mas mahal niya daw family niya kesa sa bf ko. Na ms masahol pa bf ko kesa sa asawa niya.

Pero mga sis grabe pag mamakaawa ko dun sa girl.ngayon lang din ako naniniwala na kahit ayaw ng lalake pag si kabit gusto pa gagawa siya ng paraan para makasingit..kasi ganon ginawa ng girl samin..
Imagine si girl active sa church nila huh..

Pero nayon nasa point na ako ng let god and let go...parang pag my nakikita ako na something or may nababasa ako sa phone nia hinahayaan ko na lang..wag lang as in na katulad before na ramdam ko na serious sya dun sa girl...

[Miss D-em]

Walang pero pero pakulong na lang, asawa mo na yung eh. Make him suffer.

[Scubadoobidoo]

Walang pero pero pakulong na lang, asawa mo na yung eh. Make him suffer.

Easier said than done. 

[Englemamma]

Ill share if the price is right 

Soliciting money to share information in a public forum is ridiculous. You sound like you're decent so please act or post comments like one. Otherwise I suggest you leave this thread alone.

[Miss D-em]

^ i can sis scubadoobidoo wala pa naman kaming anak, kaysa naman ako magdusa dun sa babaeng kaya niyang anakan. i will and i can stand by myself without him. But siguro kung may baby kami ibang usapan na yun.

[kirsten10]

proven ways: 1. check his celphone at the most unexpected time. example. umuwi ka ng mas maaga, at least an hour earlier than your usual time. surprise him and check his phone immediately. make sure na wala syang chance to delete messages or call register. 2. pag sinasama ang celphone sa cr, alam na. or pag super tagal sa cr, nasa labas un official phone, for all u know may extra phone pala, katukin mo na at mag inspect. 3. pag matagal magpark ng sasakyan or tagal pumasok sa bahay, basta if he find ways na sya lang mag isa sa isang area sa house, sundan na, or again surprise him "anong meron"? 4. i-tracker! reliable ang mga apps to track the location of a phone number

[lisse]

Sabi ni mommy, nahuli niya dad namin na may querida because hindi na buo ang sweldo every payday. Minsan, alibi is hindi ba daw binibigay. Tapos a pattern starts. This payday, complete. The next hindi. Pero wala ka naman makikita or mapapansin na pinaglaanan niya ng money. Basta it all started with that and dun na siya naghinala.

[Scubadoobidoo]

^ i can sis scubadoobidoo wala pa naman kaming anak, kaysa naman ako magdusa dun sa babaeng kaya niyang anakan. i will and i can stand by myself without him. But siguro kung may baby kami ibang usapan na yun.

Have you ever had someone jailed? I have several times. And it was for qualified theft lang ha. Even with connections its such a pain in the ass.  And yung pinakulong ko walang pera. Sobrang hassle hindi pa umabot sa arraignment. If i were you id just leave his sorry ass and go on with your life. Guys like that hindi worth it. 

[Girltalker2]

^ Because the justice system in our country is terribly skewed.  Not worth pursuing any case, kaya best to stay out of trouble and just avoid dealing with any contracts in the country or whatsoever, isama mo na dyan ang marriage contract made in the Phils.

[chubby_kim]

maraming nagbago sa kanya, even sa making love nyo mejo aggressive than before or mas less na and worst wala na talaga like samin, tapos mas late umuuwi, pag off nya umaalis pa rin, phone nya d mo makita pag nakita may password, malakas mag pabango, credit card bills d na sa bahay ang bagsak sa opis na, pag nasa bahay d mapakali, mas maporma pa ang bihis kaysa sau. and like my hub din, mas tahimik sya sa pag nasa bahay, less talk ika nga para d madulas, saka nahalata ko rin sya nun minsan tahimik sya tapos nakatingin lang sakin, mas kinabahan ako.

nahuli ko sya kasi alam nya d ako nag check ng wallet, ayun andun lahat evidences saka may pic pa sya sa wallet ng girl. 2nd girl nahuli ko sa kanya, sa resto, sabi nya OT sya sa work pero mali nya nag off sya ng cp nya d nya nabasa na aalis ako and punta sa resto na yun. 3rd girl sa email nya nakalimutan nya ako gumawa nun at d nya binago password.

pero yung magagaling na hub, yung sanay mas nakakatakot, yung kilala ko grabe, perfect hub and father sa family nya pero maloko pa rin. si wife, walang problema, super feeling in love pa rin ang dating nila and yet si hub nya nakakarami pa rin sa labas.

[SirChief]

proven ways: 1. check his celphone at the most unexpected time. example. umuwi ka ng mas maaga, at least an hour earlier than your usual time. surprise him and check his phone immediately. make sure na wala syang chance to delete messages or call register. 2. pag sinasama ang celphone sa cr, alam na. or pag super tagal sa cr, nasa labas un official phone, for all u know may extra phone pala, katukin mo na at mag inspect. 3. pag matagal magpark ng sasakyan or tagal pumasok sa bahay, basta if he find ways na sya lang mag isa sa isang area sa house, sundan na, or again surprise him "anong meron"? 4. i-tracker! reliable ang mga apps to track the location of a phone number

SMS pro in android devices has the capabilities to make a contact private (private messages) eh pano kung si hubby eh flexi ang time hehe....  medyo kulang pa ang mga tips na yan...