Guys' Hygiene

[iyhan18]

Just want to seek help and opinion from you girls and guys. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Okay naman siya but may smell lang siya. I'm not sure if he knows that, and I'm pretty sure that his friends are aware of this. Kasi kahit hindi ka malapit sa kanya maaamoy mo talaga.

Now, I want him to smell nice. I'm not sure of what to do. If I will tell him about it, how? I was thinking of giving him deo na nga and perfume. Haha. Please help. TIA!

[jtansanco]

Guys who smell bad.. Parang yung friend ko na super baho while playing basketball. Haha.

Anyway, I really have no clue how you can tell a guy/girl na mabaho siya kahit indirectly. For sure, kahit anong mangyari, masasaktan din yan.

Maybe he loves eating spices? He only takes a bath once a day? Hair ba siya? I don't know about deodorant and perfume.. Maybe you can ask him if he uses those stuff first.

[iyhan18]

^If I ask him that baka masaktan na rin yun. Haha. Kahit wala siyang ginagawa, may smell talaga eh. What more pag nasa gym siya. Hehe. Nahihilo na nga ako sa smell niya 

[madmaxz]

kung indiano yan or taga middle east medyo mahihirapan ka pabanguhin yan hehe! sa kinakain din kasi nila.. regaluhan mo ng body spray na deo para medyo ok kesa deodorant sa under arms, sabihin mo nakuha mo kung saan na free.

[jtansanco]

Wala talaga ako maisip e. If tingin niya hindi siya mabaho, hindi siya gagawa ng paraan para ayusin yung amoy niya.

Ang masasabi ko lang... Accept his imperfections. HAHA (semi-joking with a little seriousness in it)

[x-y]

Lol. Give him a perfume bottle pero ang nasa loob deodorant. Hahahah!!

[rich_loner]

Paanong mabaho? May anghit ba? Maasim ang amoy? Amoy arabo? Amoy utot (hahahaha)?

Kung may anghit o maasim ang amoy... kulang sa paligo.

Kung amoy arabo o utot nasa kinakain niya...

Kung dahil sa pawis... ligo pa rin siguro...

Drink lots of water... at sabihin mo sa kanya na may amoy siya pero sabihin mo rin kung ano dapat niyang gawin...

Hope that helps...

[caramelli]

sis iyhan, malapit naman na ang valentines.. pwede mo sya regaluhan ng deo. joke lang! cologne or perfume nalang siguro kasi parang nakakahiya naman kung deo. pag cologne hindi nya mahahalatang iniisip mong may amoy sya. peace sis!

pero seriously, kung naaamoy mo sya kahit medyo malayo sya sayo eh problema nga yan. hindi naman kaya damit lang nya yung may amoy? sure ka bang BO yun? wala akong maisip na way para sabihin sa kanya without hurting his feelings lalo na sabi mo you've been seeing him for a few months palang. may kaibigan akong ganyan dati eh, buong barkada namin alam na may anghit sya pero wala ring makapagsabi sa kanya.

[sacred cow]

get him a set of perfume tsaka body wash/deo for vday, if he asks tell him that you'd want him to smell
nice everyday...he should get the point

[jtansanco]

I think you can get him perfume/cologne and tell him this particular brand is your favorite manly scent and you want him to smell like this.

[Miss Charcoal]

Sis, describe mo yung amoy para malaman natin kong ano pwede ayusin.
Kung magbibigay ka naman ng perfume, baka hindi mag mask yung perfume scent sa amoy niya at lalong bumaho ang kalabasan. Lol.

[caramelli]

^ay oo, true yan. kasi yung barkada ko dati, parang mas sumama amoy dahil sa versace nyang perfume.

[Miss Charcoal]

^Naalala ko yun kasi may kilala akong ulyanin at matanda na. Ayaw niya maligo kaya ang ginagawa niya kinuskos daw yung soap sa balat ng walang tubig o kaya naliligo sa pabango. Hahaha. After ilang minutes okay pa ang amoy pero pag pinawisan na, sobrang nakakaduwal na yung amoy.

[nikki09]

Ginagawa ko sa long time bf is sinasabihan ko right away, wala ng paliguy-ligoy pa. Since mutual naman yung feelings namin sa isa't isa hindi naman na kami naiilang sabihin yung mga ganyang mga bagay bagay.

Like for example, may naamoy akong mabaho sa kanya tapos I start sniffing him, then he'll ask kung mabaho ba yung damit niya and I'll just say 'parang' sabay amoy ulit tapos sasabihin ko 'oo nga damit mo ata yung mabaho, yuck di marunong maglaba' then he'll start smelling his clothes hanggang sa maamoy nya na mabaho nga. Then come yung laba day ayun todo text at tawag sa akin na nilabhan nya ng maayos mga damit nya tapos kapag natuyo na mga damit susuotin nya ulit tapos magpapa-impress sa akin kasi mabango na 

Kanina nga nag conditioner pa ang mokong kasi the other day kahit morning pa lang amoy pawis na hair niya, ayun ang bango at soft ng hair kanina hehe

Well basta wag mo lang sasabihin publicly, ika nga yung pabulong lang or pag may moment na kayong dalawa lang para naman hindi siya mapahiya

[stacies83221]

^I totally agree with your approach sis. Ako, i tell him directly pero naghahanap ako ng timing.. though never in public as not to hurt the ego.
They way I see, either way, discreetly/subtly or jokingly, they will get hurt or might even misinterpret your intentions. I did tell someone before that they stink and they need to shower and may pahabol na, " hey i know it is offending, but is the truth. At least you are aware of it and can do something about it". I think the "concerned person" aspect somewhat cushions the blow.

[popi]

Kung hygiene problem, pag-isipan mo mabuti kung matatanggap mo na ganyan na talaga sya, kasi mahirap na mabago yan.  Parang habit na yan eh

Pero kung wrong choice of perfume / soap / wash / etc lang naman, tell him directly na.  Kung sensitive sya masyado and he takes offense, isip ka ulit, mahirap pakisamahan ang balat sibuyas 

[Girltalker2]

Just want to seek help and opinion from you girls and guys. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Okay naman siya but may smell lang siya. I'm not sure if he knows that, and I'm pretty sure that his friends are aware of this. Kasi kahit hindi ka malapit sa kanya maaamoy mo talaga.

Now, I want him to smell nice. I'm not sure of what to do. If I will tell him about it, how? I was thinking of giving him deo na nga and perfume. Haha. Please help. TIA!

Since nasa "dating" palang kayo, if I am in your shoes, ayaw ko na sa kanya. 

Kidding aside, nasa sa iyo iyan kung matitiis mo.  Naniniwala ako na mahirap baguhin ang tao kung ganun talaga sila. It will take so much for a girl na mahal na mahal na mahal siguro sya to accept him. How can you be close to him kung may amoy?  More so, how to make love?   

[freelancer_babe]

yet another minor annoyance...

pero ganun din, sana di ako mainlove sa ganitong klaseng guy. so i won't have to deal with it.

siguro @iyhan18 type mo yung guy. you have to tell him about this. I go with your suggestion of gifting - indirect yan. Pag di pa rin na-gets, maybe try telling him directly na. Best to do this is when your are comfortable with each other and are serious into the relationship.

[hilbillywillie]

Guytalker here.  If you have a common guy friend whom you are both close to, course your thoughts through this guy friend.  If that still doesn't work, then tell him directly but tactfully, perhaps in the form of slight teasing or joking.  Hope this helps.

[Chinito]

Hahah!

Sus walang madaling paraan para masabi mo sa kanya yon, masasaktan at masasaktan pa rin siya. ang pag isipan mo eh kung pano mo ipaparating sa kanya lightly. bakit di mo subukan na mag crack ng casual jokes.

Hal:

1. Brod. Happy new year!
2. O kaya sabihin mo " Buy ka naman ng chicharon pero wag ka na mag abala sa suka. sayo pa lang solve nako e. "  .
3. O kaya diretsohin mo na. sabihin mo " Paminsan minsan Ligo ligo din ha.. .

But always remember timing is everything... plan the execution..