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[mznogood149]

hehe...tama ka nga po trust lang po talaga siguro. sa part ko kasi wala masyadong bawal...doon lang sa kanya halos lahat bawal. kaya siguro ganoon siya mag isip kasi nagagawa ko mga gusto ko..siya limited lang...bwahaha...

@jtansanco: thanks po ah

@sacred cow: salamat din po sayo ^_^

[Katniss12]

Guys, is it a BIG turn-on ba kapag nag u-unload kayo ng Cum sa face ng partner nyo?  How about unloading on her mouth open without swallowing?  Sabi kasi ni Hubby, nakaka-L daw yun napapa-nood nya sa porn.  Deadma lang ako, kasi ewan ko kung nagpaparinig sya para i-try namin or what...  Pero at the back of my mind, parang ayaw ko kasi parang sobra messy... LOL.

[mznogood149]

pa ulit ulit nalang na ginagawa. anong ibig sabihin nun? hindi na naman nagpaparamdam . bakit kaya natitiis ng mga lalaki na hindi magparamdam sa mga gf nila?

[jtansanco]

^ Kung di nagpaparamdam sa gf, ibig sabihin may ibang pinagkakaabalahan. Most likely, a different prospect.

^^ Baka sexual fantasy yan ng bf mo? Nagpaparinig pa siya e di tanungan mo ng derecho. Ako, personally, ayoko yun e. If I put myself in the girl's shoes, would I want to have cum all over my face or stuff cum inside my mouth? HELL NO. Pero kayo yung couple e so pag-usapan niyo yan.. If willing ka naman to satisfy your partner, why not di ba?

[mznogood149]

ganoon pala yon. my nagsabi din sa akin na isang guy na baka my nakitang iba kaya ganoon . paiyak.iyak pa siya! hmmp

[jtansanco]

^ Can I assume that you're the one who broke up with him? And sinasabi niya "marami" siyang ex na friend sa fb? I guess he's not the serious/long-term type then.. If ikaw nakipagbreak, then hindi talaga siya makaka-move on because iniisip niya reason kung bakit kayo nagbreak and all. Plus, wala pa ata siyang girlfriend at the moment so tendency is try to reconnect with the last girl na naging close niya which is you.

[preciosa]

Bakit karamihan sa mga guys mas malakas ang loob pagdating sa kamunduhan...? Bakit mas malakas loob nila sa indecent proposal? Ganon ba talaga kadali yun para sa kanila...? Basta s*x ganon ba talaga mga guys...? Bakit kaya...? Tapos bakit din ganon bakit karamihan sa kanila manhid sa feelings ng partner nila bakit palagi nalang nila sinasabi na "lalake kasi ako" lalake ako ok lang yun
Sorry ha hindi ko naman nilalahat eh pero karamihan naman talaga ganyan eh

[crazycoolchic19]

^^ ako nakipag break sa kanya, complicated kase wer both have family kase...nagtatampo sya na may kasamang inis at galit bakit hinde ko sya maaccept sa fb , and sabi nya marami daw akong x na nasa fb ko bakit sya hinde ko daw magawang i accept. Iniinvite nya ako for a coffee.sabi nya sakin hes still a friend kahit matagal na kaming off.

[jtansanco]

^ In short, he's not over you. If you want him of your life, then LIE. Tell him you have a boyfriend. Imbento ka ng character niya like he doesn't want to let you add your exes and etc. Also, why don't you just make your account private to the public so that he can stop stalking your FB? And stop replying to any of his texts. Make a decision. If you want him out, CUT ALL TIES FOR GOOD. It's all in your hands how you want things to be.

^^ Madali lang problema mo. You're in the wrong crowd. Ganyan yung mga lalake na nahahanap mo sa clubs/bars and these are the types of guys na immature and/or walang patutunguhan sa buhay. If you don't like these guys, don't hangout with them. Lumipat ka nalang ng crowd.

[preciosa]

^lol no ofcourse i don't hang out with them... Hindi porque naitanong ko lang ganun na mga klase ng friends ko... Wala naman akong sinabing ako madami ditong ganyan eh... Magpost ka lang sa thread about s*x maya maya may mga guytalkers na mg p-pm na ng kung ano ano... Sorry kung may na offend ako... Peace men!

[jtansanco]

^ Ohhh... So you're talking about online... HAHA. That's normal actually.

Anywhere online, meron ganyan e. Go to GT, Pex, Tagged, OkCupid, Craigslist, and other sites na kahit wholesome, may mga guys na magmemessage sayo asking about sex. Kaya nga sometimes, natatawa nalang ako kasi part ng profile ng girl is "I'm not interested to have sex". These guys can do it because it's the Internet. Their identity will forever be unknown. Honestly, I tried that before but I feel low doing it which is why I use my name as my username to avoid the temptation to do those kinds of stuff. Haha

[oshiawase]

QUESTION: How do you deal with "FEELER" guys?

Kasi, there is this guy who's in the same class as mine. He is kind of popular sa girls not exactly because of his looks (for me hindi siya ganoon ka gwapo pero dala kasi niya kasi he looks so groomed and neat/mabango) but because he is smart/studious. Anyway, so wala siyang girlfriend and he is friends with everyone although awkward siya minsan to talk to.

Anyway, we are okay. Not too close but we're okay. But lately, a friend, who has a crush on him, confided to me that she suspects that the guy knows about her feelings and that she would often catch him looking at her randomly. The thing is, I EXPERIENCE THE SAME THING. I would often catch him looking at me. And now I am paranoid because I don't want him to think I "like" him. Another friend also noticed the same thing. It is as if the guy is "on the hunt" on who are the girls that "like" him.

This is so weird. Ever since I noticed the stares, I would talk to him less frequently.

Can you explain his behavior?

[jtansanco]

^ Is this high school puppy love? Haha. It's just the classroom setting. He's being a typical guy with a wandering eye na tumitingin sa girls in the class. Better naman yun compared sa pagtingin sa guys no.. Anyway, you seem kinda affected because of the "wandering eye" which means you might have a slight crush on him. If wala naman, don't let it affect you. Deadma ka lang. Instead of thinking, "what if he sees me looking at him?", why not think --> What does he or other guys stare at me?

Ganyan din ako dati sa isang class ko nung college. I kept having eye contact with a girl but wala rin naman nangyari if you no one takes it to the next level.

[oshiawase]

^ no, in fact, this is grad school setting na! And I might have a crush on him pero super slight lang. Kasi di ko talaga type ang studious guys coz I consider myself one na eh so boring mag kacrush sa studious guy. In fact, he is too soft-spoken I would always tease my friend who has a crush on him that the guy is prolly gay.

anyway, ayon. Guys, do you really do that? I mean, do you really "survey" the area to see which girl actually likes you?

[jtansanco]

^ If gay siya, then maybe he's looking at you because you're a "threat" in the classroom. Hahaha.

Anyway, normal lang sa guys tumingin sa class. If you see us looking at you numerous times, then just think of it as a compliment since we find you the attractive one compared to others in the class.

[x-y]

Thanks for the answer.. How about this one..

What if you went out of town with friends (girls and guys) for 3 days and 2 nights for a tour... Do you give time to update your gf or at least send a goodnight/good morning message when you're miles away? I am asking this kase I am not sure if I should get paranoid or stop being a "negastar"... Nakakainis kase when he doesn't text... Like for example, the other day... nung 10 am lang niya ako tinext... Yun na yun buong araw. I wanna know kung ako ba yun may problem or siya.

[stylishmomy]

^this is from another woman's point of view sis. I'd really be pissed and paranoid. The mere fact that he's away with other people, then he should be updating me on his whereabouts, kahit summarize nya at the end of his day.

[oshiawase]

^ If gay siya, then maybe he's looking at you because you're a "threat" in the classroom. Hahaha.

Anyway, normal lang sa guys tumingin sa class. If you see us looking at you numerous times, then just think of it as a compliment since we find you the attractive one compared to others in the class.

Lol malabo yata. May mas maganda naman sa classroom eh and he is friends with her pa. Creepy lang minsan pag naglock gazes namin. XD

[x-y]

@stylishmomy: that's my point din sis... pero i'm trying to show him na i am not clingy... pero it worries me e. especially there would be girls there... syempre inuman yun tapos kasama niya pa yun pinsan niyang babaero. hayyy. he told me na di siya makakapagtext ng madalas kase alam niya na may history ako na lagi ko siyang tinetext kung kamusta na lakad niya and all... pero i didnt expect naman na as in twice lang yata nagtext per day dun sa buong tour niya. nakakapikon kase.

[jtansanco]

^^ In the first place, why do you also look at him? Haha. Sige, I want to dare you. The next time you locked gazes, keep looking at him. Dapat siya yung unang umiwas. But if he just stared at you, then maybe he's giving you the flirty eyes nga. Experiment lang.

Thanks for the answer.. How about this one..

What if you went out of town with friends (girls and guys) for 3 days and 2 nights for a tour... Do you give time to update your gf or at least send a goodnight/good morning message when you're miles away? I am asking this kase I am not sure if I should get paranoid or stop being a "negastar"... Nakakainis kase when he doesn't text... Like for example, the other day... nung 10 am lang niya ako tinext... Yun na yun buong araw. I wanna know kung ako ba yun may problem or siya.

Ummmm... C'mon, give the guy a break. You guys are bf/gf. You have 365 days in a year to be together so what's 3 days of touring with his friends? What's the worst thing that can happen? May mabuntis siya sa tour. What's the best thing that can happen? He got tempted but rejected it because he loves you. You'll never know. Let him enjoy and do your thing as well when he's gone. TRUST the boyfriend, that's all I'm saying. Makikita mo naman siguro sa pictures if he tried to be "close" with girls e. Relax lang.