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[jtansanco]

^ Where/How did he get your number? Don't tell me sa club... LOL.

Anyway, if he really likes you, he can text you the next day. But be careful though because if player yan, he might play the game where he'll let you wait a number of days (maybe 3 days) and then magtetext siya. In my case, kung gusto ko, tetext ko na agad.

[jtansanco]

I know alam ko naman na yung sagot na dahil nga may iba siya pero its like everything went to trash. Is it really easy for you guys to do that? And do you guys really change BIG time because of those kind of temptations? Don't you ever think of what you had with your long-time girlfriend?

Sorry, didn't realize I skipped this. Can't believe there's a guy like that who'd do that. 7 years is not a joke. I'm guessing he had an affair for years already? If a girl of his type gives her body to him just like that, then that's one of the ultimate temptations which guys will more likely lose. But can't believe at his age, he'd do that.

Question though, you can just PM me if ever. In those 7 years, you guys did have sex right? Regularly or not that often? I'm guessing he based it on that aspect of his life.

[gc2429]

if bf is not texting the gf, what could be the possible reasons? I'm getting tired of his excuses and I just wanna find out if these "excuses" are somewhat common in men..

hi.  I'm a guy.  Unless he had a car accident or already dead and you were not aware, a guy who is supposed to be maintaining a relationship with a gal does not have an excuse other than a valid reason.  And the valid reason would be "no longer interested".  Let me tell you something -- if a guy is passionate about a gal, nothing, I mean there is no way a gal would feel ignored or neglected.

[gc2429]

What do men really want in bed?

When in the kitchen, be the best cook you can be.  When in bed, be the best whore you can be.

[cute_pompom]

If you invite your fiancee to an out of town vacation, do you expect her to share a room and sleep with you? 

[cute_pompom]

How to know if boyfriend finds his girlfriend a great kisser?

[jtansanco]

^ Why not? Not sure about how it is here but a guy and a girl sharing the same room/bed is just normal for me. And it's going to be cheaper if you stay in one room. If girl is not comfortable, the least the guy can do is get a twin bedroom.

^^ Either guy will compliment the girl's lips or he'd keep on kissing her since he can't get enough of her lips.

[yajale_22]

hi.  I'm a guy.  Unless he had a car accident or already dead and you were not aware, a guy who is supposed to be maintaining a relationship with a gal does not have an excuse other than a valid reason.  And the valid reason would be "no longer interested".  Let me tell you something -- if a guy is passionate about a gal, nothing, I mean there is no way a gal would feel ignored or neglected.

Thanks bro. Its very clear to me now na hindi talaga ako nag oover react kagaya ng pinapalabas nya pag nakukumpronta ko about this matter. He also told me na matagal daw kase syang binata kaya mas sanay daw sya na kasama lagi yung mga barkada nya kaya baka nahihirapan daw sya mag adjust sa relationship namen, sabi ko sa sarili ko (eh di sana di ka nag gf, or better yet syotain mo na lang yang mga friends mo..hehe) and he also said na sinusulit nya daw yung vacation nya dito sa pinas, balik abroad na sya this feb. Nagsorry sya sa lahat daw ng pagkukulang nya saken. After I heard these statements, lumayo na yung loob ko, gusto ko mag isip so I stopped texting him, ayun biglang nagbago, maya't maya na kung magtext, tipong lahat ng ginagawa or gagawin pa lang pati kung sino ang kasama naka report na saken..Why change all of a sudden? ganun ba talaga pag naramdaman na ng guy yung coldness ng girl, dun lang narerealize yung mga bagay na dapat nuon pa ginawa? does this mean na he's willing to change to make me stay?

[jtansanco]

^ There's a chance he MIGHT change after noticing how valuable you can be. But this seems to be an LDR in the making.. Not a fan of this..

[yajale_22]

yup LDR po talaga kame TS...naisipan kong pasukin to nuon kase ayoko pa talaga ng "serious relationship" 7 yrs akong single before him, natakot ako sa type ng relationship na laging magkasama kaya feeling ko di pa ko ready but I really like him kaya naisip ko since malayo naman kame sa isa't isa ok na to muna saken, kahit until now ok pa rin saken yung ganitong set up kase both of us have our set of priorities..gusto ko muna matapos lahat...in fairness naman sa kanya, very vocal sya sa mga plans nya for our future..and sweet and caring naman sya pag magkasama kame..I just don't really understand yung hindi sya magpaparamdam pag di kame magkasama, isang text lang naman will do..but I can see that he's trying sana di pa too late, baka tuluyan na ko ma fall out of love..anyways thanks for your answers, appreciate it

[mitcha15]

When in the kitchen, be the best cook you can be.  When in bed, be the best whore you can be.

  from a girl's point of view... Gusto Ko ang sagot mo! tee hee!! this is true and this will benefit both parties.

[schumine]

Why do guys hate to commit when they initiated the relationship to begin with?

[jtansanco]

Why do guys hate to commit when they initiated the relationship to begin with?

Fear of change. They know they can't do things they do before when already committed.

[schumine]

tsk..

Bakit hindi kayo makuntento? -.-

[jtansanco]

^ Greed is good? Di naman lahat ng guys ganon. Some guys do appreciate the little things in life.

[schumine]

nakaka stress..

[bubbles_sandy]

what are the signs that your guy is losing interest in you?

[jtansanco]

^ You can compare the before/after experiences. Some signs include....
- Less text/conversation with him
- Less date nights
- Less sex (if you guys do it regularly)
- Doesn't compliment you much anymore
- Less effort to be with you if you ask him out
- In short, mafifeel mong hindi na siya madalas magparamdam compared sa days nung courting or inlove kayo sa isa't isa.

[angelzero]

i have a friend who has a "non-bf" for 6-7 years. meaning, they hang out a lot, the guy is close with my friend's family and barkada. kumbaga they do all couple stuff except sex. question: do you consider the guy a hero or a loser? (i know they're not bf-gf cuz i've asked both parties). i want your thoughts on this, from a guy's POV.

[jtansanco]

^ Actually, that's something I really want to have. A girl hangout buddy but thing is, whenever I ask them out, they say it's a date so wala nangyayari. He's not a loser for sure but I guess it's rare that they have a true friendship kind of set up. Question is, are they both single? Meaning, they're not in a relationship with someone else? And, are they both straight?

How I wish I can find someone like that.. Us guys can't invite another guy out because that'll look so wrong..

Kung girl and girl, pwede.
Kung girl and guy, they say dating/couple na.
Kung guy and guy, gay stuff na.