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[ladyfoxy]

Can you really tell if a girl likes you? How?

[jtansanco]

^ That's a bit difficult because we will never know how you girls think. Our only indication is if you still keep in touch with us regularly. Thing is, we might misinterpret your kindness. We might think you already like us when in fact you only want friendship. That's what happened to me with the last girl I tried to court.

[kris_17]

^nangyari na din sakin... assuming kasi masyado... ang hirap kasi basahin ng galaw ng mga girls eh... akala ko noon okey na... wala pala pag-asa... aheheh...

[ladyfoxy]

^^ I see, that's what some of my guy friends told me din. They can never be too sure, kahit pa na halata na si girl. Lol

^ Really? I thought girls lang madalas ang assuming. Girls kasi, if they can smell na nakakahalata yung guy na gusto nila, they tend to do things na iisipin ng guy na, "ay walang gusto sakin 'to"

Q: Does "actions speak louder than words" applies to guys? I mean, mas halata ba talaga ang actions ng mga guys when they like a girl?

[Bastie]

^If the guy is serious about his feelings for you, sigurado yan halatang halata 

[cute_pompom]

If the guy did not introduce his girlfriend to his family during their 3 years that they'd been together, does it mean that he never thought of marrying her? Does it mean that he was not really serious with her?

[Bastie]

^ In my opinion, masyado na matagal ang 3 years bago ipakilala sa family ng guy ang kanyang girlfriend..
as long as talagang malinis ang intensyon at seryoso si bf sa girfriend niya.. why wait?  exciting kaya yung "yes! eto na yung araw na ipapakilala ko ang mahal ko sa family ko".. 

[jtansanco]

^^ I think 3 years is too long but the guy may have a good reason or maybe he doesn't. If he doesn't take the initiative, you can make parinig na you want to have dinner with his family or see his house or something. Say something indirect. Magegets naman niya yun but if ayaw pa rin, that means medyo red flag na yan.

Q: Does "actions speak louder than words" applies to guys? I mean, mas halata ba talaga ang actions ng mga guys when they like a girl?

Yeah, if we guys like a girl, mahahalata mo kung bakit madalas kami nasa buhay niyo. Lagi kami magpaparamdam and we'll always ask you out or give you compliments. We might even tease you in a good way.

[cute_pompom]

^^ I think 3 years is too long but the guy may have a good reason or maybe he doesn't. If he doesn't take the initiative, you can make parinig na you want to have dinner with his family or see his house or something. Say something indirect. Magegets naman niya yun but if ayaw pa rin, that means medyo red flag na yan.

Yeah, if we guys like a girl, mahahalata mo kung bakit madalas kami nasa buhay niyo. Lagi kami magpaparamdam and we'll always ask you out or give you compliments. We might even tease you in a good way.

So does it mean that he didn't think of marrying this girl if that's the case? That his feelings for her was not that strong and he was not that serious? Let's say for example that was his ex. But with his current gf, he introduced her to his entire familiy after just a few weeks of being together.

[jtansanco]

^ Not really but maybe he's still trying to earn money for settling down. But thing is, if he just focuses on earning and earning, getting married will never happen. But that's the good end, the bad end is that he might be just using the girl as a trophy or for fun. Maybe he doesn't see the girl as wife material so he never introduced the girl to his family.

[cute_pompom]

Do you guys ever get tired or what you call in the vernacular "sawa factor" in hugging and kissing with your girlfriend?

[jtansanco]

^ Nah, that's why I'll never go in a relationship if I don't truly love the girl. I won't go there for the sake of just having a gf cuz I know I might cheat someday. If I do love her, one thing I told myself is everyday ko siyang liligawan.

But for the other guys, I don't think they'll ever get tired. Men love physical interaction with women. Sexual predators mga guys diba? Haha

[cute_pompom]

^ Nah, that's why I'll never go in a relationship if I don't truly love the girl. I won't go there for the sake of just having a gf cuz I know I might cheat someday. If I do love her, one thing I told myself is everyday ko siyang liligawan.

But for the other guys, I don't think they'll ever get tired. Men love physical interaction with women. Sexual predators mga guys diba? Haha

Would you expect that it could lead to more if your gf has said anything about her limitations? How would you handle it if she is conservative?

[jtansanco]

^ I'd still respect her although I don't think I'd fall someone like that.. I'm pro pre-marital sex kasi because I really want to know if we're compatible in bed. What if siya yung type ng girl na ayaw sa ganon? Kawawa naman ako. One factor din kasi ng relationship ang sex so I really have to know if click kami. But if she tells me she'll only have sex after marriage, then we'll see.. Kaya kailangan talaga super type and love ko talaga yung girl to accept anything about her. Di rin naman kasi ako perfect e so if she accepts me for who I am, then I'd do the same for her. Gender equality kasi ako.

[freelancer]

^how would you know if your ex is still in love with you? or he is just using you?

[cute_pompom]

^ I'd still respect her although I don't think I'd fall someone like that.. I'm pro pre-marital sex kasi because I really want to know if we're compatible in bed. What if siya yung type ng girl na ayaw sa ganon? Kawawa naman ako. One factor din kasi ng relationship ang sex so I really have to know if click kami. But if she tells me she'll only have sex after marriage, then we'll see.. Kaya kailangan talaga super type and love ko talaga yung girl to accept anything about her. Di rin naman kasi ako perfect e so if she accepts me for who I am, then I'd do the same for her. Gender equality kasi ako.

So if a guy accepts his gf's stand to do it after marriage then that means he really loves her? Would you be pleased if ever you found out that your gf is a virgin?

[jtansanco]

^ Yeah, I guess so. He could stand not to have sex until after marriage. He's willing to wait and that's already effort on his part. If I find out she's a virgin, then yeah, I'd be very pleased. You could say a woman's virginity is the best gift you can give to your husband.

^^ In the first place, who broke up with who? And if he's in love with you, why is he an ex in the first place? If you're asking if he's just using you for sex, then test him by saying you've decided not to have sex with him until a certain period of time. See if he'll stay or not.

[sportygurl]

what if the reason why a guy never introduce the gf to the family is because he knows that his family will not approve of his gf?

[freelancer]

^^there's a third party involve sa part ni guy. But I'm not sure if ayaw nya kong mawala dahil kelangan nya ko. he still invites me in every family gathering, introduce me as his gf pa din pag may nakakakita samin. but together pa din sila nung isang girl.

^that's a good point. I think ganyan ang situation ng ex ko ngayon with his new girl. but I think if a man loves you he will fight for you, lalo na if he sees you as a lifetime partner.

[jtansanco]

^ So he has a #2, which I think is for fun, while you're the girl that he wants to be with for the long term. He's living a perfect life if you allow that to happen. But you know your worth. Leave him since it's his loss. Up to you if you give him a second chance but that's a no-no for me.

^^ Partly possible or the guy knows it's just not going to work because of the difference in background or status. There's also a possibility that he loves the girl but he knows he'll have to face the world if he continues with the relationship. This happens when big time si guy tapos so-so lang si girl. Ang daming outside forces na magsasabi "bakit yan pinakasalan mo e ang dami daming babae dyan" and etc. You know what I mean. Guy loves her but the whole world doesn't approve kaya naaaffect ang decision-making ni guy.