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[jtansanco]

Already have! Haha thanks!

[schumine]

Naks! Ayos! Got a question.

What do you think of a guy who is first time na makaramdam ng selos? hmmm..

[jtansanco]

^ Clingy, possessive type of jealousy in their minds because they won't show it in action. A guy's imagination can go through the roof! If you tell him you'll just go out with your guy friends to a bar/club or go vacation somewhere with guys with you, kung ano-ano na iisipin niyan. Especially if may makitang picture na katabi ka na isa pang guy, grabe, out of this earth imagination maiisip niya. He'll just go to normal once you talk/see him. Haha.

May guys kasi magiging jealous through the actions like keep on texting or asking updates on what's happening to you. I'm more of the imagination type cuz I know girls don't like clingy guys. Haha

[schumine]

OT:
Just wondering. lumabas ako with my workmates last friday, nakauwi na ko around 1am. usually when i got home, online agad then msg with bf since LDR. kaso that time di ko na nagawa magpaalam man lang sa kanya, biglaan lang nagkaayaan mag "team building" dinner then bowling. the next day parang my iba kay bf, so i asked him naman if hes okay he said Yes. Then kanina lang, na open up bigla, at sinabi niya he was sad that time. nagseselos siya kasi my mga lalake daw ako kasama. so di maiiwasan harutan, tuksuhan worst mauwi sa ligawan after. So, inamin niya sakin na nagseselos siya at marunong daw pala siya nun. Parang na weirduhan lang ako kasi, ilan days pa bago niya na open sakin. 

Q: What does it mean when men say "I Love You?"

[teejiko]

^Gusto ko din malaman ang sagot dyan sa Q mo sis hehe

[schumine]

^
hihi. abangan natin isasagot ni TS.

[jtansanco]

OT:
Just wondering. lumabas ako with my workmates last friday, nakauwi na ko around 1am. usually when i got home, online agad then msg with bf since LDR. kaso that time di ko na nagawa magpaalam man lang sa kanya, biglaan lang nagkaayaan mag "team building" dinner then bowling. the next day parang my iba kay bf, so i asked him naman if hes okay he said Yes. Then kanina lang, na open up bigla, at sinabi niya he was sad that time. nagseselos siya kasi my mga lalake daw ako kasama. so di maiiwasan harutan, tuksuhan worst mauwi sa ligawan after. So, inamin niya sakin na nagseselos siya at marunong daw pala siya nun. Parang na weirduhan lang ako kasi, ilan days pa bago niya na open sakin. 

Q: What does it mean when men say "I Love You?"

Told you. Wild imagination ng guys. Umalis ka lang for team building with some guys, ganyan na reaction ng bf mo. Guys kasi prefer to be with girls physical kaya mahirap for the guys to be in an LDR. If you want to give him peace of mind, tell him to trust that you'll not flirt with any guy and that you'll remain loyal to him. In short, tell him something he "wants" to hear but make sure you'll be true to your word. Lambingin mo rin online.

Hay.. It's the "I love you" statement question... To determine the answer, you have to see how long you've known each other before he said those words. Plus, check how often he says it to you.

Best Case Scenario: If matagal na kayong magkakilala and assuming courting stage palang, then he tells you he loves you and doesn't say it often, he means it.

Worst Case Scenario: If bago palang kayong magkakilala then he tells you he loves you a lot of times, then ibig sabihin ang daming niya babaeng sinasabihan ng ganon.

* Check also how he says it to you. If he says the phrase without looking at you and without feelings, he doesn't mean it. But if he looks at you straight in the eyes and says it slowly, damn girl, makilig ka.

If bf/gf or husband/wife, then I guess normal lang and "I love you".

[cute_pompom]

Do guys get aroused when kissing your girlfriend? What thoughts are running in your mind?

[teejiko]

^^Noted. ayan sis schumine, may pointers na tayo haha

[schumine]

@TS

Yap. Sinabi ko naman na sakanya, makulit lang ako but di ako nag fiflirt lalo na now my bf ako. and syempre siya lang. haha.. then he replied "sorry, tao lang nagseselos" haha. ang kulit lang parang bata lang, eh 4 yrs tanda nya sakin.


hmm.. si bf. twice o thrice palang nag I love you. so meaning, he mean it? minsan pakiramdam ko since 1st gf niya ako, kabadong kabado ang lolo mo hahaha..

@Teejiko

ou nga sis.. hehe..so un pala tee hee!

[jtansanco]

^ He seems like a keeper so far although I don't know much about him. I think he prefers to say it when he's physically there with you para mas maganda yung "moment".

Do guys get aroused when kissing your girlfriend? What thoughts are running in your mind?

Some guys no, but some guys yes to the point na gising na si junior while kissing palang. Running through our minds? Hmmmmm... Naiisip ko is.. I hope she doesn't have bad breath. Haha

[schumine]

@TS

yeah, yan din naiisip ko. o mas gusto kong isipin. hahaha.. he's suplado, so nakakatuwa lang. wala lang.. hahahaha.. OT ako noh..SORRY

[rastagurl11]

Question: There's this guy, mid 30s, has a good and stable job, smart, good-looking, defo not gay. His last relationship was 3 years ago and has broken up, since then he still hasn't had any gfs. What do you think is wrong with him? 

[jtansanco]

^ He's mid 30s so...

If his last relationship was a long one and they broke up, then he's a bit traumatized to love again knowing he invested so much time and effort. That could've been the girl he'd want to marry but it failed so he's confused.

If his last relationship was a short one and/or maybe he has had multiple short relationships before that, then he's a player. He's so picky when it comes to girls that he couldn't find someone to be in a relationship with. He seems well-off so having a family is not really a priority for him. He just wants to have fun because he might have been a really late bloomer. (I have a friend who fits this scenario)

Or, having a family is just not part of his priority. Guys can get married anytime anyway. Our "mileage" is much long compared to girls.

[rastagurl11]

The 1st scenario is painful and I think that's what happened. Mr. Enigmatic guy never struck me as a playa, and I think he's a bit shy. Follow-up question, you said he's confused, confused saan; what went wrong and what mistakes he committed?

[jtansanco]

^ Yeah, assuming they've been together for so long, he'll always ask himself what went wrong. Assuming it's the girl who broke up with him, he'll always ask himself WHY? At his age when they were still together, I'm sure he was already thinking about marriage. But to think they broke up, that's a very big heartbreak and it might be difficult for him to open up again so maybe he's put his focused on maintaining his career to forget the past because he doesn't want to make the same mistake (failure) again.

[schumine]

Why do men hate shopping?

[sportygurl]

happy birthday, TS!

[jtansanco]

^ Thanks!

^^ Because when men shop, we already know where and what to buy. When girls shop, sometimes, they go to all the stores they want and just window shop. Also, they tend to buy things they don't use. Shopping for women is like working out in the gym for us guys.

[kaiz]

Parang ganito? http://ph.omg.yahoo.com/news/heart-evangelista-has-no-expectations-for-2013-114438429.html

Syempre, adds image and it helps endorse the politician. Kahit bad issue, okay lang yan. As they say, any kind of publicity, even if it's bad publicity, is still publicity.

Pero on the side, it shows that money is one of the biggest factors in choosing a guy. Can't deny it. At the end of the day, love can't pay the bills.

image? di rin siguro kasi tinatago eh, dba? hindi dito qualified si chiz and heart kasi separated na naman si chiz