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Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« on: November 14, 2012, 01:59:04 am »
pano magpakita ng concern sa mommy or daddy ng boyfriend mo na part din sila ng pagmamahal mo di lang sa boyfriend mo?

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #1 on: November 14, 2012, 08:24:48 am »
In my case :) i always tell them how good are they in parenting their only son. Lagi ako nagtrry to reach out for them. Na hindi lang si partner ang love ko kundi pati sila. Lagi ko sinasabi na napaka ayos ng pagpapalaki nila sa partner ko at kung gano ako ka-grateful sa kanila dahil i found someone na talaga namang mahirap ng mahanap these days. Hands down sa kabaitan at pgmamahal. Mas maldita pa ko! Buahahaha, kidding aside. Basta let them feel and do what you really want hindi yung plastic ha, they would eventually sense if you're doing that dahil may purpose ka. :)
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #2 on: November 15, 2012, 12:35:13 pm »
at first di ako tanggap ng family pero kalaunan nagustuhan din nila ako kasi i talk to them every now and then unlike my sister in laws. tapos i buy them pasalubong.
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #3 on: November 16, 2012, 10:20:19 pm »
makisama ka lang...
be joyful and make sure you show respect to your boyfriend's parents...
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #4 on: November 17, 2012, 02:17:04 pm »
Tnx wala kasi ako sa  pinas but the thing is nakaka bisita naman ako mga twice a mth

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #5 on: November 19, 2012, 09:57:29 pm »
I think this should come naturally as you get to know them more. Pero for me, kung mag-bf pa lang kame, being polite and cordial is the first step. When you're at their house, take time to talk to them too, hinde lang yung kay bf lang lage nakadikit.
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #6 on: November 21, 2012, 02:05:13 pm »
for me sis, respect talaga, treat them as how you treat your parents :) that way mas mabilis mo makuha loob nila :) may pasalubong din ako every time i visit :) now iba na pasalubong ko, apo na nila :)

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #7 on: December 05, 2012, 08:13:20 am »
pano magpakita ng concern sa mommy or daddy ng boyfriend mo na part din sila ng pagmamahal mo di lang sa boyfriend mo?

Before, I treat them kumakain kami sa labas sagot ko lahat am very generous with them. There was a time na dine-date ko sister and niece niya eat lang kami pizza then dairy queen. I prepare gifts for them during special occasions. Pero that was before kasi ayoko lahat eh mga taong abusado.
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #8 on: December 10, 2012, 06:08:42 am »
Showing them you have respect sa kanila at sa anak nila for me I think is on the top list of factors for them to like you. Importante din yung ipakita mo sa kanila na you're easy to get along with as their future manugang  :)
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #9 on: January 10, 2013, 08:04:32 am »
The best talaga yung respect sa kanila.  :) Yung parents kasi ng bf ko nasa province so lagi ko sila kinakamusta. Paramdam mo na hindi mo sila nakakalimutan. Tapos pag umuuwi ako ng province laging may pasalubong. Sweetness lang ang peg!  ;D

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #10 on: January 10, 2013, 08:47:35 am »
@*dream*, andito ba sa pinas si bf? pag kachat or kausap mo sa phone, try to talk to his parents, too. or kahit, please say Hi to them for me, mga ganyan. pag umuuwi ka, take time to see them too. kahit hindi super mahal na pasalubong, ok na. pag birthdays nila, or mothers' or fathers' day, give them a treat.  yung gusto mo gawin din ni bf sa mga parents mo, gawin mo sa parents nya.
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #11 on: January 10, 2013, 09:01:51 pm »
lutuan mo sila sis ng specialty mo,pag bday nila regaluhan mo...or kahit walang special ocassion basta may pwede ka maibigay,bigay mo lang..be thoughtful..

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #12 on: January 17, 2013, 06:00:32 pm »
Basta magalang ka at makita nila sa iyo na katiwa tiwala ka para sa kanilang anak. Yung iba kasi nadadaan sa regalo, pasalubong, treats pero not necessarily na palaging ganoon. Paano kung wala ka ng money? Pwede ka naman maging malambing sa kanila sa ibang paraan gaya ng matulungin, concern sa family at kung ano ano pa. :)

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #13 on: February 19, 2013, 03:25:18 am »
Treat mo ng mabuti lahat hindi lang yung bf mo, kundi yung buong family. Kung may malayo ang loob sayo, do your best kasi kelangan mo talaga makisama, parte yang ng pamilya ng bf mo, di lang yung mabait ka sa kung sino lang yung mukhang pabor sa iyo. Huwag mo rin ipilit maigi ang sarili sa family, do it one step at at ime. Yung actions mo reflect kung ano yung values mo.

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #14 on: March 04, 2013, 11:27:44 am »
innate naman sa atin ang pagiging respectful, so, start from there, extend mo lang ang pagiging respectful to them...

...at, just be yourself...kung malambing ka and you always remember them edi okay. good enough na siguro yun. you don't have to please them, actually. kung di ka naman pala bati and di ganoon ka remembering or palatext/palatawag/palapasyal, etc. edi fine, ganoon ka talaga eh. and, ibaiba preferences ng mga tao so either they take it or leave it. hope this helps ;)

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #15 on: March 04, 2013, 11:37:47 am »
Buy them pasalubong and show them that you care for them and love them like your parents. Magmano kapag nakikita sila. And pag nasa bahay nina boyfie parents feel at home tumulong sa pagluto at paghahanda ng pagkain specially pag may occasion.
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #16 on: March 12, 2013, 06:25:05 pm »
Serve your boyfriend in front of them para they can see how caring you are. :)

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #17 on: April 03, 2013, 02:54:57 pm »
pag umaalis ako i buy pasalubong for bf and his family nadin. tapos nakikipagkwentuhan ako sa kanila. siguro factor nadin kasi nakita nila mas nag-mature si bf nun naging kami. now na nakaalis na si bf abroad, i know his family likes me kasi kahit wala si bf gusto nila dadalaw padin ako  :)
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #18 on: April 03, 2013, 10:41:00 pm »
pano magpakita ng concern sa mommy or daddy ng boyfriend mo na part din sila ng pagmamahal mo di lang sa boyfriend mo?

Treat them with respect and consideration, always.
Spend quality time with them.
Include them in some of your couple events/activities.
Give thoughtful gifts (not necessarily expensive gifts) on social occasions & after returning  from local/foreign trips.
« Last Edit: April 03, 2013, 10:42:59 pm by aquacharly »

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #19 on: May 30, 2013, 08:26:40 pm »
My mother in law has been very supportive from the very start so its normal that I love her back.  Even before I married her son, I would sometimes give her beauty products that I think she would need.  For example, I bought extra Revitalash one time when I had to re-stash.

I know gifts and words are her love languages, so I make sure to say good things to her once in a while.  I make sure I acknowledge her help whenever she helps us with something no matter how small it is.
« Last Edit: June 02, 2013, 12:04:39 am by googoo »

 


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