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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #20 on: June 28, 2013, 03:16:42 am »
ako naman... kinakamusta ko mom ng bf ko kahit sa text.. pag pumupunta naman ako sa kanila, i buy kahit yung tag 50 na siopao sa chowking. hehe. nakikipagkuwentuhan ako sa kanya. pero medyo aloof ako sa step father ni bf... pero pag nagpupunta ako sa kanila at nakita ko sya, nagmamano ako then pag uuwi nagpapaalam din. di rin sila close kasi ni bf e.. what more pa ako hehe.

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #21 on: June 28, 2013, 06:30:44 am »
hindi ako close sa parents ni bf,dad is in the states, si mom nya is quiet, nahiya ako chikahin kasi wala akong masabi,,kahit dati i tried small talk, like kakamustahin, parang wala smile lang ganon. Pero hindi sya ma-chika,, and i feel na she doesn't like me too =(
nagg-gift/greetings din minsan pag special occasion, and mga pasalubong sa trip ganon.

may younger sister sya, ayun binibigyan ko ng kung anek anek, kasi medyo pareho kami nung trip when I was at that age. tapos twitter twitter ganon..pero teenager pa so wala din masyado chika
Her ate naman, we're okay, pero not that close, yung pamangkin ni bf ang pinapasalubungan ko and stuff yun na paglalambing ko

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #22 on: July 10, 2013, 10:10:37 am »
Hay sana ganyan ka ideal ang parenta ng bf ko but they are not..kahit pansinin ko at batiin deadma..kahit bilhan ko ng kung ano ano wala pa din ..kaya i give up

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #23 on: July 10, 2013, 05:57:38 pm »
Hay sana ganyan ka ideal ang parenta ng bf ko but they are not..kahit pansinin ko at batiin deadma..kahit bilhan ko ng kung ano ano wala pa din ..kaya i give up

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #24 on: September 02, 2013, 11:46:25 pm »
Ako, honestly I dont try too hard. The more i do that to impress someone kasi nagiging too obvious at lalong nagiging awkward. tahimik kasi ako and mahiyain, kind of reserved. I dont usually talk if hindi ako kinakausap. Pero pag may odd silence, thats when I try to open a conversation. hehe Be yourself lang... Mas mafefeel nila yung sincerity. Treat them like they are your parents too. Show them respect and just be nice to them. Sakin, my bf's parents has always been really good to me. Hindi mahirap magstart ng conversation with them kasi sila yung makwento and matanong and they are really sweet. :D As far as I know, we are ok and I really love them.
With my bf naman and my parents wala din kami problema. He treats my parents the way he treats his. 
Yesterday bf and my mom had a chance to bond and spend time together ng silang dalawa lang... Nakakatuwa lang kasi we know that we all started off well to have a good relationship as "soon-to-be's". ;D Im just happy that it seems like everythings about to fall into place. :D
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #25 on: September 03, 2013, 07:51:20 am »
^ kainggit naman yan :)
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #26 on: September 07, 2013, 12:44:12 am »

maglambig sa pamilya ni hubby?parang diko naman naranasan lambingin sila  :P
makisama kanalang sis,ganun lang din ginagawa ko hanggang ngayon makisama.kahit labag sa loob pakisama parin. ;D kahit minsan nakakainis,sege lang,si hubby nalang tatalakan ko sa kwarto !  ;D hehe,kahit inis na ako at gusto na kumontra wala,tatahimik nalang.para walang gulo! ;D
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #27 on: September 13, 2013, 10:35:27 am »
hindi rin ako nag-lambing eh. siguro nakisama rin ng maayos.

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #28 on: December 28, 2013, 01:06:05 pm »
I always gave birthday gifts and christmas gifts to both his parents.
But I never received a personal gift from both his parents.
Parang nakakatampo din, kasi every Christmas ang dami nila binibigyan ng gifts
na family, relatives, and office friends.
Ang nag gift lang sa akin are his 2 sisters.
But I give Christmas gifts to all 5 of them and more.
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #29 on: January 08, 2014, 08:06:51 pm »
I don't consider it lambing but my way of connecting with my parents in law is by randomly texting them how they are. Sa MIL ko naman, I give small gifts, usually make up, kaya lage sya nakaabang hehe.
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #30 on: January 11, 2014, 06:37:10 am »
i don't. but i remember being polite and nice to my boyfriend's (now my husband's) family whenever we go out with them. i learned it from my mom na hanggat hindi pa naman kayo kasal ng boyfriend mo, wag kang masyadong mag-effort para mapalapit sa kanila. hayaan mong sila din naman ang sumuyo sa iyo. you gain their respect din pag nakikita ka nilang di masyadong pacute or pasipsip na parang ikaw pa ang patay na patay sa anak nila. just act natural but always be respectful.

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #31 on: March 31, 2015, 01:15:04 am »
Makisama ka lang and make sure that you show them the real you. :) They should accept and love you for what and who you are. :)

Don't forget to give gifts too on birthdays or other special occassions. :) Material things are not that important but they will still appreciate it and magkakaroon sila ng magandang impression of you. :)

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #32 on: July 17, 2015, 01:42:31 pm »
I'm very, very shy and most people misunderstand that. My husband and I have been married for 6 yrs but up to now, I'm still super shy around my in laws. As much as I want to be "how are you po?", "do you want to have dinner out?", etc etc, I can't kasi kinakain talaga ako ng hiya. I do try pero talagang nahihiya ako.

This is coming from a person na halos hindi na magtake ng communion (I'm Catholic) kasi nahihiya tumayo in front of many people.

But sometimes, pag nalabanan ko yung hiya, nakakapagsalita naman ako :P we're quite generous when we give gifts so that's where I bawi. Sa card as well, I manage to write what I want to say in person but can't
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #33 on: August 06, 2015, 02:07:24 pm »
Noong bago bago pa lang kami ni partner, lagi niya pinagdadala ng pasalubong si mama ko at yung kapatid ko. :-) Tapos pag nasa labas kami, hindi pwedeng wala kaming dala pag hahatid na nya ako sa bahay. :-P

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #34 on: August 20, 2015, 02:34:03 pm »
always be nice to them. hindi lang kasi yung girl ang dapat nililigawan, dapat pati yung family din. the most important thing is marunong tayo makisama.

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #35 on: November 17, 2015, 01:29:09 am »
I treat them with respect katulad nang ginagawa ko sa parents ko. Find time to get to know them. Nung bago pa lang kami ng bf ko, medyo reserved pa yung mom niya. Yung tipong mahihiya ka talagang iapproach siya. So I just made an effort to talk to her at ayun nagwork naman. She's now even telling me some of her problems and sinasabi rin niya na sana hindi daw maubos yung patience ko sa anak niya lol

Sa family events nila lagi rin akong sumasama that's why kaclose ko rin yung cousins and iba pa niyang relatives. If nakita naman nila yung love mo for your bf, they will also love you :)
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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #36 on: November 25, 2015, 08:08:32 pm »
since nasa province ang parents ni boyfriend, kinukumusta ko lang sila thru fone calls. pag kasama namin sila, kwentuhan lang para maging mas comfortable sa isat isa ;)

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #37 on: January 12, 2016, 03:13:12 pm »
Being polite, "Mano, being courteous then I will also bring food na luto ko mismo." I'm sure those will be a hit lalo na kapag mag bf/gf palang.

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Re: Pano ba manglambing sa pamilya ng boyfriend mo
« Reply #38 on: May 29, 2019, 10:53:31 pm »
Love language ko is gifts.  So that is how i express myself.  I give food instead of say words of encouragement. 

 


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