Ang husband niyo ba ay may sasakyan?

[mae18]

Korek!

And, eto pa, minsan nagkakatuksuhan sa office, isang simpleng tuksuhan dahil sa pagsabay-naging makatotohanan.... Kaya dapat talaga- iwas.

[tamarind26]

Hubby seldom offers a ride and when he does, it's with a male officemate or with their nanay-nanay in the office, basta yung drop off points nila on the way pauwi sa amin. Most of his contemporaries may sariling cars din so seldom talagang mangyari na may makikisakay. Di rin siya nag-ooffer sa mga staff niya. Gusto kasi nun lagi iwas traffic nang makauwi agad sa bahay.

[shineadet]

ay naku, nag init na naman tuktok ko sa topic na toh. may na experience na din ako ganito years ago. yung boss ni hubby then may kabit na ginawa nyang secretary nya who happens to be living in the same subdivision where we were residing. then yung boss nya sinabihan si hubby na isabay na [textspeak!] daw yung girl pauwi and papasok sa ofis. ok [textspeak!] sakin at first. siguro mga 2 weeks din na hinahayaan ko lang na everyday ganon. aba! nalaman ko ba naman na from the house pa talaga nya sinusundo and he always had to get out of the car para mag door bell sa house nung feelingerang girl na yun to inform the girl na hey, andito na sundo mo. inaway ko talaga si hubby. tapos sinumbong ko sya kay SIL. tapos nakarating sa boss nya. sabi nung boss e kakausapin daw ako. sabi ko sige, tawagan nya ko para malaman nya kung ano meron sa ginagawa nya. hindi naman tumawag. since then hindi na nya sinundo or hinatid yung girl na yun. hindi na daw sya pinapansin sa office. kapal fez noh? nagmalaki pa imbes na humingi ng pasensya. ahy, haba tuloy reply ko. hehe

[mdy]

My husband has a car but eversince I learn how to drive, mas ako na yun gumagamit. He works in an environment na male-dominated yung nature so wala pang instance na may nakikisabay na babae. And I don't think he'll do something like that, wala sa ugali nya lang.

[wahmproject]

Grabe ang ibang nakwento dito.  Ang kakapal ng ibang nakikisabay.

My husband has a car.  Since BF/GF pa lang kami meron nang mga sumasabay samin o sa kanya. I can accept ang pagsabay if isolated cases ie. its raining, really late or just drop off at the nearest sakayan. Basta hindi out of the way na mega effort pa si husband.   Pero ayoko if madalas mangyari na silang dalwa lang, be it a single female or a married woman (na hindi ko kilala or w/ complicated status). 

Dati I told my husband na ayaw ko may kasabay syang girl na silang dalawa lang.  My point was, dont put yourself in a situation where you can be tempted.  Hindi nya maintindihan ang pinanggagalingan ko. He explains that its platonic and he would want the same courtesy done to me if hindi nyako mahatid or masundo.

May friend ako, yung BF nya dati hinahatid ang staff nya gabi gabi dahil on the way home daw.  Nagrerent sa Makati ang girl, the guy lives in Las Pinas. Sabi ko pa nun, mahirap ang ganyan, hindi ata tama. Ayun, nainlove ang BF nya dun sa staff and tuluyan na silang nagbreak.

[jhenpretty]

My hubby has no car. Pero if magkaron man kami, okay lang sa akin kung may makisabay sa kaniya . Basta kaya nung makikisabay na tumakbo ng 60 kph and above.. haha.. Joke lang.. Okay lang sa akin basta ipapaalam niya sa akin at hindi regularly na may makikisabay sa kaniya. Grabe na yun.. Taking advantage na.. Tsaka kung talagang kailangang kailangan lang nung makikisabay okay lang sa akin.. Pero siyempre kung alam naman nung hubby ko na flirt yung babae mabuti ng huwag na niyang isabay.. Sa akin kasi madalas ko siyang ireverse psychology.. Good thing hindi pa naman siya nagloloko.. ^_^

[beatrize zuri]

yes he does, pero i doubt na magsasabay or magsasakay ng chicks yon eh napaka suplado non  . well, he knows naman what to do sa mga ganyang sitwasyon and i trust him on that. 

[rianne_00]

Naku! Unaware of the topic shared by the TS, si hubby pa naman eh masyadong generous kahit sa pag offer ng rides. One time nga may meeting with online sellers, iniwan niya muna kami ng baby ko sa Mcdo then nung pagbalik, ayun! may nakasakay na sa backseat na girl na kapwa nya online seller eh maganda at seksi kaya niloloko ko na baka kaya nag offer syang ihatid eh dahil nga sexy, hindi naman daw vinolunteer lang siya ng ibang seller, pero kahit na. Hmmmp

[chefron]

Twice na akong may hindi magandang experience na ganito, always away ang end up. The other one almost broke our marriage. We had business before so dito lang sya sa pinas, now that hes an ofw and plans to stay here for good eh im having 2nd thoughts kung i aapply ko ba sya dun sa hotel na gusto nya.
Kase natural gamitin nya yung sasakyan, ayoko magsimula ulit ang ganung scnearion kase for sure di ko na alam if kayanin ko pa..baka mapatay ko na silang 2. Lol

[BallBreaker]

we each have our own cars. I doubt this will happen since he works at home, and there are times when he drives his friends home after their occasional dinners. Not a biggie naman since I know them already and they have been friends long before I came to the picture. I'd feel bothered lang siguro if they became friends lang recently or if I'm in the insecure mood. I also doubt if he would since he believes it is not his social obligation to give out free rides. :S  I myself always drive an officemate home from work, but he's gay and we only talk about chismis inside the car so it doesn't count.

[thalita]

Thanks for your posts sisters, i intentionally tried to find a thread like this to weigh if my dislike is normal or i am just over reacting. My husband is now regularly ( as in everyday morning and evening) giving a free ride to a girl officemate which is few blocks away from our house. They are just 2 in the car, both married ( and the spouses are both OFW, but currently I am here on Phils. to process my visa for3 weeks). I already told him my points of dislike like: I am not comfortable that a girl will regulary sit on my spot, they will share stories and jokes and may lead to deeper friendship, plus i believe she is takign advantage, free ride back and forth door to door, ang kapal ng face nya ha. I got the chance to meet her in my husband's team bldg one time, and we never even talked, and now we are living in the same subdivision, I expect her to reach out for the wife of your driver ha if your intentions are pure.At least to give the wife a clearance that the situation is harmless. My husband told me na madamot daw ako. Na di naman daw sya naabala kase on the way [textspeak!]. Na pinahihirapan ko daw situation nya kase in the end sya ang lalabas na masama ang ugali. Before kase the girl had another driver na officemate din nila within the village, but he resigned. Sabi ng husband ko binilin daw sa kanya ng nagresign na sya na bahala maghatid sundo. O diba ang sarap ng buhay ni girl. I hate them.. nag sisigawan na kami kase we both don't understand. Mali ba points ko..

[sk8rboyswife]

^di obligation ni hubby mo to drive that girl to work kahit pa same subdivision yan. And so kung siya lalabas na masama ang ugali? It doesn't matter, eh kesa lagi kayong mag asawa na nagbubulyawan.

[shieldmaidenofRohan]

yes, but it's in the province. he travels often so nagagamit pa rin nya kahit Manila-based na kami. The one we're using here is an adventure GLS sport na gift ni father goose when hubby and I got married. Overall, great for hauling people, things and equipment (when he has projects here) lalo na pag long drive.

regarding sa situation ni TS, it's just off. Hubby will never do that and no, no, no. Hindi maganda tingnan kahit good intentions pa.

[thalita]

Thanks for the comment. The routine is still the same, and I will be leaving the Phils. soon. What's painful there is the knowledge that my feelings were nothing to him. I tried different approach yesterday and today, talked to him in calm manner, but still he picked up her. I'm giving up on him, it's his call now. I don't want my spot anymore in his car, i don't even want to ride in it. I'm angry inside, i even cried so hard and wish I didn't love him anymore so it doesn't matter if he disregarded me.

[nageinna]

yes may car si hubby, honestly madamot ako sa mga sabay sabay na yan. pag umaalis yan kasama friends niya ayoko yung may susunduin o hahatid pa siya. i remember everytime nagkakaron ng reunion yung section namin nung HS, yung isang classmate namin gusto pa susunduin siya sa bahay niya mismo. kahit na malapit lang house nila samin ni hubby (15mins drive) still, bakit gusto pa niya sa bahay mismo. pa VIP lang eh. kasi daw hindi daw siya papayagan ng mama niya lumabas mag isa. susme ilang taon na ba kami? ano kami 16? eh may anak na nga sya lahat lahat. and in the first place kung hindi pala siya papayagan ng mama niya lumabas mag isa wag na siya sumama sa reunion diba. naiinis lang ako dun sa mga pa VIP. gusto sila pa mismo susunduin. kung gusto nila sumabay, makipag meet sila kung saan convenient for hubby hindi yung saan convenient for them. ang hirap kayang mag drive noh. nakakapagod din. super bait din kasi minsan si hubby. kaya madalas ako nagiging kontrabida. 

[hisana]

Before kase the girl had another driver na officemate din nila within the village, but he resigned. Sabi ng husband ko binilin daw sa kanya ng nagresign na sya na bahala maghatid sundo.

Talk about feeding that girl's princess mentality. Binilin pa talaga.

kasi daw hindi daw siya papayagan ng mama niya lumabas mag isa. susme ilang taon na ba kami?

LOL!

[crazycoolchic19]

Yes, pero hinde nya lagi ginagamit sa office 2-3x a week..mahal ng gasolina and toll gate ano  , kahinayang ang 500 a day for toll gate and gasoline, and besides meron sila shuttle sayang naman ang benefits na yun..., kaya ayoko ring nagdadala sya ng sasakyan, maraming tukso sa paligid.ok lang kung me one time makisabay what if palagi na  magkakapalagayan ang loob jan na simula nyan! kahit ba di kagandahan, babae pa rin yan nakakatukso, and wala pa naman ako alam na may nakikisabay na chicks sa kanya kung meron man hinde nya sasabihin sakin yun for sure!

Kung hinde sa babae , sa lalake naman, yan hubby ko mahilig gumimik  with his offcmates, after office hours ,mahilig kase uminom hubby ko...at dun ako nagaalala pag uwi nya lasing magdadrive.napaka kaladkarin kase ng asawa ko , grrrr konting yaya, hinde makatanggi! Give in agad sa mga namemeste na imbis na umuuwi na yung tao para makapagpahinga kasama ng family ,ay paglalasing ang hinahase !

[stylishmomy]

Thanks for your posts sisters, i intentionally tried to find a thread like this to weigh if my dislike is normal or i am just over reacting. My husband is now regularly ( as in everyday morning and evening) giving a free ride to a girl officemate which is few blocks away from our house. They are just 2 in the car, both married ( and the spouses are both OFW, but currently I am here on Phils. to process my visa for3 weeks). I already told him my points of dislike like: I am not comfortable that a girl will regulary sit on my spot, they will share stories and jokes and may lead to deeper friendship, plus i believe she is takign advantage, free ride back and forth door to door, ang kapal ng face nya ha. I got the chance to meet her in my husband's team bldg one time, and we never even talked, and now we are living in the same subdivision, I expect her to reach out for the wife of your driver ha if your intentions are pure.At least to give the wife a clearance that the situation is harmless. My husband told me na madamot daw ako. Na di naman daw sya naabala kase on the way [textspeak!]. Na pinahihirapan ko daw situation nya kase in the end sya ang lalabas na masama ang ugali. Before kase the girl had another driver na officemate din nila within the village, but he resigned. Sabi ng husband ko binilin daw sa kanya ng nagresign na sya na bahala maghatid sundo. O diba ang sarap ng buhay ni girl. I hate them.. nag sisigawan na kami kase we both don't understand. Mali ba points ko..

OA naman ng babaeng yan sis! okay lang siguro if she's a relative... no harm talaga. I hope your husband realizes how much its affecting you.

[crazycoolchic19]

Thanks for the comment. The routine is still the same, and I will be leaving the Phils. soon. What's painful there is the knowledge that my feelings were nothing to him. I tried different approach yesterday and today, talked to him in calm manner, but still he picked up her. I'm giving up on him, it's his call now. I don't want my spot anymore in his car, i don't even want to ride in it. I'm angry inside, i even cried so hard and wish I didn't love him anymore so it doesn't matter if he disregarded me.

Sis, i smell something fishy sa kwento mo, manmanan mo maigi hubby mo,theres something wrong , hinde obligation ng hubby mo, na ihatid sundo ang girl na yun, ang kapal naman nung girl walang kahihiyan sa katawan wag na sayo eh dahil hinde mo nakikita, e sa mga taong nakakakita , both married everyday hatid sundo nya ang girlalu na to.nakaharap mo na pala yang girl na yan ni hinde ka man lang binati after all the free ride! Halatang guilty sis may tinatago yan, kung ako nasa place mo baka kinausap ko na yang girl.hinde maganda na both married ay magkasabay sa car, feeling kabitch labas nya nyan.,sobrang bait ba talaga ng hubby mo?or me something sila ..think about it sis, baka hatid sundot na yan, wag mo hayaan .mag manman ka maigi.

Napaka VIP nung girl na yun ah , prinsesa ba sya? Artista ba sya?imbalido ba sya?wala ba syang pamasahe everyday? O baka talagang kabitch lang sya talaga.....ok lang kung relatives eh, pero kahit relative nakaka high blood sis!

[sk8rboyswife]

^you said it sis. Better yet, cautiously manmanan mo nga si hubby. Your hubby should have not ignored your feelings and instead made you feel secure.