No present "barkada"

[mamaGie]

a have a best friend  in elementary, another one in high school, and another one in college. my college bff and i are still close. though we rarely see each other (as in years), we still do communicate with phone calls and fb messages. we still update each other with our life dramas. the one who i talked to right now when i'm really down are my sisters. kahit nasa ibang bansa na sila.. iba pa rin pag nagsumbong ng hinanakit ang kanilang bunso (that's me!). Everytime, gagawa at gagawa sila ng paraan to make me feel good.

Kaso pag maga lakaran, tulad ng shopping at iba pa.. solo flight kadalasan.. or pag kailangan talaga ng makakasama.. andyan naman lagi si mother at hubby. 

[k_fine]

I have this HS barkada na more than 10 kami though ang ka-close ko lang talaga dun ay mga 3 to 5 lang and we're friends pa rin hanggang ngayon but not that really close like we used to be. i feel like na outgrow namin ang isa't isa especially now that we're now focusing on our careers and i am now married. everytime umuuwi kami ng pinas, parang hindi na ako masyadong excited to see them. i'd like to meet them of course maybe once lang but after that okay nang hindi. para i feel like ganun so HS pa din kasi ang trip nila like bars, boys etc. sorry sissies if i sound medyo off. it's like okay na ako kahit kaming dalawa lang ng asawa ko.

[simang]

I see my highschool friends siguro once or twice a year, usually pag bday ko and pag xmas break. It's funny kase some of my hs friends na close ko ngayon, di ko talaga sila close nung hs. Nangyare lang sabay sabay kame nagcollege sa Manila kaya kami yung madalas nagkikita kita nuon.

With my college barkada, we're pretty solid, clingy if you may. We go out once a month or every 2 months siguro on average, tapos we have a group chat sa We chat where we send selfies everyday. Basta we never lost contact. Pag nagkikita kame, as if parang hindi naman lumipas yung 10 years. Normally dine out lang, or coffee. Di kame nanunuod ng sine together kase mas gusto namin magkwentuhan. Sadly isa isa na silang umaalis ng pinas kaya pakonti ng pakonti kame dito.

With the lakads and all, i prefer to be alone. Mas nakakagawa ako ng errands pag magisa lang ako.

Minsan kasama si boyfriend, o kaya sina Ate. Kase sila yung everyday ko nakakasama talaga.

[SnowBall]

pasali mga sis, same here.


Yung bestfriend ko talaga eh nag migrate kasi sa australia, as in siya lang ang tanging friend ko na never pa kami nag away, patuloy naman kaming nagtatawagan until now, yun lang imbiyerna ako sa napangasawa niya, may pagka mayabang, kaya parang nawalan ako ng gana na bisitahin siya sa australia.

Then yung naging ka close ko naman na taga dito sa amin, nag migrate na rin ng canada.

Yung mga barkada ko nung HS, wala na rin akong communication, busy na kaming lahat sa buhay may pamilya..

Yung barkada ko nung college, ganun din..

as in, wala akong kaibigan na true ngayon, yun bang pwede kong yayain kumain sa labas, manood ng sine, magpa parlor together...

madami ako kumare, pero hindi ko kasundo ang mga ugali, yun bang alam mong nadikit lang sayo kasi may mapapala sayo..

hay, ang hirap humanap ng true friend, unluckily for me, yung mga nahanap ko, umalis pa ng Pilipinas..

[little_princess]

I don't have as well, I have a guy barkada and a college barkada but it seems we're all starting our own lives and we hardly see each other.

[lblackcat]

I don't have as well, I have a guy barkada and a college barkada but it seems we're all starting our own lives and we hardly see each other.

ganon talaga ang buhay once you step out of college. Bihira na lang talaga magkita kita. Now I know why there are "homecomings" hahaha!

[CITIgirl_04]

I've never really had a regular barkada.. just a close friends but not really barkada because I don't get to be with them most of the time.. I only have a bestfriend that already migrated to Canada.. I don't have barkada but it's totally fine with me since I have Lord as my best friend and my priority now are my family - esp. my husband and kids.

[rmi]

Akala ko ako lang nakakaramdam nito, andami pala natin na walang present barkada. Although back in hs and college meron naman ako, hindi na lang talaga kami solid na barkada ngayon. Mayron nang iba't ibang barkada yung iba. Okay lang sana sa akin na wala yung barkada basta mayroon kang best friend but i guess wala din akong friend na BF (magulo ba?) because my bestfriend is actually my sisters and of course my husband.. pero mayroong pagkakataon na sana mayroong isang kaibigan aside from family na pwede mong puntahan paminsan minsan...

[miss_curdafia]

ako din, walang barkada. Mayroon akong friends pero bihira kami magkita-kita.
sana meron din akong friend na madaling puntahan pag need ng kausap at pag emo. hehe.

[lepink]

I thought i was the only one experiencing it.  I guess when you reached that certain wherein you're priority in life is your family, you tend to forget yourself, your friends and etc. .  .

One of the main reason why i'm here is that i was hoping i can find new friends here. . . i feel so bored right now. I want big changes in my life. I want colors . . . vibrant and bold color in my life right now. . .

just pm me if you guys need someone to talk to...

[onyxwitch09]

i have a friends before na lagi ko nakakasama girl siya kahit sa simpleng prob. lang andun siya. parang higit pa sa kapatidd turingan namin. then one day nagkasamaan kami ng loob dahil lang simpleng bagay lang.  hanggang sa totally hindi na talaga kami naguusap.siguro nawala na din trust namin sa isat isa. then may isa pa akong gay friend na kinu consider niya ako na best friend kasi ka batch ko siya since HS. at first yes happy ako kasama ko siya everywhere gimik,chikahan,gala. until napapansin ko naaabuso na niya ko na parang pag may need na lang siya ako niya kinakausap then nalaman ko na pinaplastic naman pala ako pag di ako kaharap. siguro sa inggit pero kung ano naman meron ako share ko naman sa kanya. hanggang sa lumayo na din loob ko sa kanya. then i realized na mas ok pa mag isa na lang kesa magkarun na katulad nila. mahirap kasi yung ganun ikaw na nga nakakatulong ikaw pa masama. hindi friend ang tawag dun.

Sis parehas tayo ng situation. Na-sad tuloy ako. 

[khaleesiCersei]

Me too.. Busy na sa kanya2x life.. Pero minsan i stil long for a barkada na magyaya lumabas cofi or dinner or movies.. Nakakamiss din naman kasi lumabas with a group of girlfriends, tapos daldalan lang kayo

[nixiquita]

i cannot imagine my life without my barkada. they were my friends since highschool and 5ey will forever remain as my closest closest friends. these three people i will forever cherish and thank God for.

[jenny.babe]

Me too, no present barkada. Puro kasi gimik eh ayaw ko ng gasots. Nasanay na din ako.

[redhead69]

SAME. 

My current so-called "barkadas" is divided into small groups like "party barkadas" "food trip barkadas" "lovelife topic stories barkadas" etc etc. walang specific barkada where you can really share your thoughts or how you feel, or bonding like every now and then. Like sisters or brothers. Where you can hangout, drink, movies, or have fun. Kumbaga kahit sa hirap at ginhawa magkakasama kayo. Naging busy na rin kami ng talagang barkada ko nung highschool. We also have other friends na. We really parted ways i really hope someday. I'll have a bunch of fun and crazy barkadas!

[super bratinella]

Nakaka sad naman ang topic na ito, kasi in my case wala talaga din akong barkada kasi Elementary to Highschool nasa Davao kami then paglipat namin dito sa Manila wala na retain na talaga true friends.

Highschool to College since irregular din ako sa college wala ako na retain na friends

Sa work ko naman dati wala din.. haha!!

Sometimes pagnakakakita ako sa fb na may bestfriends or with group of friends parang nakaka happy tignan kasi not all can have best friends, not too late pa rin siguro na makakahanap ako ng true friends.

[hushkirby]

I have a barkada. But all are busy with their lives. Kaya now I'm really craving to have new friends.

[monikka sun]

ako din. gusto ko din ng mga bagong kaibigan huhu

[super bratinella]

^mga sis me too, "craving" for new friends, that is why I joined GT meet ups, para at least ma satisfy ang cravings at ang need ko to socialize siguro for me sign ng pagtanda lang ito, I like to have a balance life, Time with family, my family, work and friends.

[heavenleigh]

We are common with that thing mga sis. Eh kung tayo tayo na lang kaya maging barkada? Lets start a new friendship. Pwede naman diba?