Mga friends na puro YABANG ang alam.. thread 2

[molybdenumstudios]

Like requests on their photos na hindi naman contest. Diba annoying? LOL

[babythug28]

^may ganyan din sa FB ko sis..ang masama pa dun, kamag-anak ko pa hehe.kaya pala umaabot ng 80 likes mga pic nya..in one day, nag PM siya sa kin ng 4 times, iba ibang pic.. "palike naman tong pic ko"... ayun binura ko na lang hehe

[molybdenumstudios]

^oh noes :O

Mga walang magawa sa buhay yan eh... unless sila pa nag-request sayo na gawing DP ang mga most embarassing pics nyo lol

[mamapeew]

Di ko magets bakit kailangan maraming likes. Bakit nga ba?

[ecnarfoj]

First time may nag-request saken niyan, na i-like yung pic ng anak niya.
Akala ko contest, wala lang. normal na pic lang at naka 200++ na likes na.

Di ko ma-gets, next time nga matanong ng "baket? anong meron?"

[caprice]

^ i think for the simple reason na nagustuhan ng marami yung pic ng anak nya. pinansin ng marami, maraming nagandahan/nagwapuhan, marami silang friends, para hindi mabaon sa limot kasi lalabas sa newsfeed/ticker everytime may magla-like...

[Prunella]

^prunella, love your honesty.  i, too, take pics of myself but only choose one or a few that i feel confident in posting. i'm referring to some of my over-narcissistic fb friends na self-confessed frustrated celebs/models talaga. what's worse is they're asking me to like and comment on their photos (via private message, para di obvious sa iba)! parang gusto ko tuloy tanungin, may sinasalihan kang contest, 'teh?

Yun ang part na masakit. LOL. May mga pals din ako na ganyan, but since I'm not a good friend, I just ignore their wishes.  Unless contest talaga.

[theshopaholicprincess]

yes, facebook is an avenue for socializing and bringing people together, defying distance/geographical boundaries. that's why it's a "social networking" site. pero others naman kasi, they abuse this by constantly flooding everybody's newsfeed with boastful or even irate thoughts, status posts, pictures, check-in's, etcetera. kulang na lang ilagay din pati pag-check in sa kubeta! naman, diba?

kaya nga it's true that they need to think first before they click! in all aspects of posting anything.   

Hahaha. I can relate to this. Siguro ito na rin yung reason why I seldom login to my FB account. Kakasuya na tingnan yung mga di ko naman close friends pero uber yabang sa FB. Nakakatawa pa nga yung iba eh, kasi pati loob at sulok ng bahay nila ina-upload yung pics, hindi ba invitation yun para manakawan kayo kasi alam na alam na yung hitsura ng bahay nyo.

I would have to admit minsan nagyayabang din naman ako sa FB about my local and foreign trips pero I don't bother asking others to like my pics. Bahala nalang sila mag comment and I'll just answer them. Also I don't take pictures of nonsense stuff like just eating out or going to mall na nagsusukat ng damit para lang nasabi na nagshopping sila or may pang dine in sila sa resto. I mean parang araw araw nalang updated ka sa buhay kahit pati pagdighay at pagpunta nila sa CR. Pati nga ata yung na-LBM sila nirereport pa sa FB. hayyyy!

[Prunella]

^I often read status updates like:

"Red Alert. It's that time of the month."

"Oh no. I got menstrual cramps."

"Red flag. No coitus."  WTF? Kaloka!

I just laugh it off. A lot of people behave differently online kasi. If I'd let them annoy me, magkaka-wrinkles lang ako.

[ayka]

I just laugh it off. A lot of people behave differently online kasi. If I'd let them annoy me, magkaka-wrinkles lang ako.

^correct! kaya nga i usually unsubscribe to fb friends who post a gazillion hateful/irate messages on fb. nakakahawa minsan ang negative energy. as for those who post daily pics of their food, shopping, or any other redundant rendezvous, scroll down na lang. i only stop to look pag feel ko. 

[hisana]

Checked my fb again after not logging in for a long time.

Hindi naman siguro sila nagyayabang, but I wonder why some people post personal messages to another person as a status update. For example, thanking your husband, or missing your mother because you haven't talked to her for some time now. Wouldn't it make sense to just call and talk to that person directly? Baka nga hindi pa nila mabasa kung sa fb idaan, mauuna pa yung ibang tao makabasa, LOL.

[snikity]

isang dahilan kung baket nag-deactivate ako ng facebook ay dahil sa mga self-absorbed na "friends" sa FB...nakalimutan na ata nila ang fine line between what's to publicize and what to keep private. kakaloka!

share ko lang na may isa akong naging kaibigan nung bagong lipat ako ng ibang bansa...at dahil pinay siya ay nakipag kaibigan ako. 4 years kami halos mag kaibigan at "nakipag-break" ako sa kanya dahil di ko na ma-take ang pagiging mang-gagamit at plastic at pagyayabang niya...di ko keri. parating binabanggit ang pangalan ng kotse niya na nasa pinas, na kesyo nag around the world na siya, ne kesyo bumili siya ng jacket na limang libo at mayaman kuno dahil may tiyo siyang may ari ng "bangko" sa probinsya. nyikes!

masaya ako at di na kami magkaibigan.

kumbaga sa friends eh i'd rather have a few gold coins than a million pennies. bow.

[theshopaholicprincess]

^I often read status updates like:


"Red flag. No coitus."  WTF? Kaloka!

I just laugh it off. A lot of people behave differently online kasi. If I'd let them annoy me, magkaka-wrinkles lang ako.

Ang yucky naman nito... parang ipinagsisigawan mo pa yung mga private escapades nyo. Minsan pansin ko yung iba hindi na madistinguish yung kung ano yung dapat at di dapat i-post sa fb status.

[molybdenumstudios]

isang dahilan kung baket nag-deactivate ako ng facebook ay dahil sa mga self-absorbed na "friends" sa FB...nakalimutan na ata nila ang fine line between what's to publicize and what to keep private. kakaloka!

share ko lang na may isa akong naging kaibigan nung bagong lipat ako ng ibang bansa...at dahil pinay siya ay nakipag kaibigan ako. 4 years kami halos mag kaibigan at "nakipag-break" ako sa kanya dahil di ko na ma-take ang pagiging mang-gagamit at plastic at pagyayabang niya...di ko keri. parating binabanggit ang pangalan ng kotse niya na nasa pinas, na kesyo nag around the world na siya, ne kesyo bumili siya ng jacket na limang libo at mayaman kuno dahil may tiyo siyang may ari ng "bangko" sa probinsya. nyikes!

masaya ako at di na kami magkaibigan.

kumbaga sa friends eh i'd rather have a few gold coins than a million pennies. bow.

WELL SAID! I also have this experience with this know-it-all friend, not in FB actually but in real life, I really can't stand her and her mini-me version at the same time, so I do not communicate with them often. Not anymore with the know-it-all friend, but her mini-me, seldom lang. I don't like making peers with know-it-alls.

So yeah, like saying that there are only a few good friends who really care for you. (:

[ayka]

Hindi naman siguro sila nagyayabang, but I wonder why some people post personal messages to another person as a status update. For example, thanking your husband, or missing your mother because you haven't talked to her for some time now. Wouldn't it make sense to just call and talk to that person directly? Baka nga hindi pa nila mabasa kung sa fb idaan, mauuna pa yung ibang tao makabasa, LOL.

IKR?! yan ang tinatawag naman na OA! others pa nga post messages like "babe san ka na?" or "kita tayo later sa ___" or loving messages (take note, daily!). they splatter their emotions all over fb. the worst i've seen: hubby and wife sharing the same fb account and posting loving requests or messages then commenting every minute on the post! tapos lagay pa nila yung name nila after each comment. FYI: LDR silang mag-asawa, so i'm wondering baka yung wife ay nagmo-monologue lang! crazy much..? 

[chefron]

Yung mga nagpopost ng eating out nila, pero pag sa carinderia ayaw ipost sa fb, why? Hahaha
Yung makapagkwento papasok sa ganitong negosyo, alukin mo ng gagamitin nya para dun , di na daw itutuloy hahaha

[crazycoolchic19]

Boredom siguro kaya kung ano ano pinopost na kayabangan, kaya ako piling pili ang ipopost ko na status or pix ayoko masabihan ng mayabang ,:D yan din sabi ng hubby ko wag daw ako masyado nagpopost..kaya puro quotes lang. At yung mga pix namin friends , family, occassions at yung mga place na hinde pa namin napupuntahan.or yung mga niluto ko na first time ko lang nagawa

Pero dami talaga pasaway sa fb at kahit hinde sa fb  sa tunay na buhay na lang eh , ang yabang lang parang nagbago lang, kaya much better na iwasan ko na lang mga ganung tao.

[raven03]

Well, I'll share reverse yabang naman na parang judgmental. Some people kasi who afford some things like makakain sa medyo mahal na restaurant or may branded bag or something they give the stink eye dun sa iba na meron din, like they try to put down others or make it seem as if they are better kahit you have both the ability to afford the same stuff.

True experiences to ha:

At Oody's in Greenbelt. I was with this friend who I have not seen close to 5 years since we were both living out of the country for sometime. Syempre we asked for menus and we were too excited we started taking photos while waiting. Pagdating ng menu, well, wala kami nagustuhan so we politely apologized to the staff as in super pasensya. Then, we passed by this group of girls dining with some guy friends ata and the whispered loudly "oh my god, nagpicture lang sila"

Goodness, mamatay-matay ako sa kakatawa. So these girls had the audacity to judge me just because I exercised my right as a consumer.

Last month, sa megamall, these girls, who ang common factor ay kakalabas lang ng forever 21, kung makatingin mula ulo hanggang paa. Ako ang nahiya.

Kaya naalala ko the above, kasi while at brow studio's reception, I warmly greeted with a smile this matrona-looking lady kasi she was approaching. I was smiling kasi I wanted her to know she can approach na because I was almost done with my conversation with the receptionist, what weirded me out she wasn't looking at my face but at my bag at naka-taas ang kilay tinignan ako mula ulo hanggang paa. When have ladies become so vile? These people who look like they can afford stuff (she had her Chanel with her, I'm basing it on that), why the need mang-uri ng ibang tao?

[snikity]

nakakalungkot isipin na ang nagiging kultura natin sa pilipinas (mostly sa manila, sa aking opinyon lang naman dahil dun ako lumaki) ay yung husgahan ang tao base sa tatak ng suot na damit, sa presyo ng gamit na bag, sa mga bansang napuntahan at sa kulay ng balat.

lahat gusto mag buhay artista, mag mukhang mayaman.

buti na lang dito kung nasan ako, walang yabangan. puro lang inuman!

[molybdenumstudios]

^ totally agree with you. However, kung mayaman ka kasi, I think of you as equal to other people, in any aspect. Siguro payabangan lang talaga ng mga luxury items diba?