FACEBOOK thingy.

[superboink]

Nagbreak na kami ni "against all odds" two weeks almost. Ayun trash talk ako sa facebook at nagupload ng pics with a girl in a bar. After a week nag-message if we could talk daw blah blah.. tapos later on nag-upload ng pics niya sa vacay pero wala si girl pero nagshout para kay girl na he's with her sa pics. Pinakita niya din na burado na tattoo name ko sa katawan niya. Grabe I feel so numb.. gusto ko maiyak pero parang ewan ko. Shock pa siguro kasi it all happened in two weeks. Gusto ko siya iblock pati nadin yun girl pero that would make me feel jealous diba? how do you handle this thing with facebook? thanks.

My ex story

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,257759.0.html

[chicafabulosa]

Well if blocking them will help you forget about them, by all means do it. Why would you even bother ano sasabihin nya.. Na selos ka? Isa lang sagot ko dyan.. Why do you care? Sometimes if you try to block all possible ways of him hurting you specially this facebook or any social networking sites, then block him. wala na naman kayo so why bother. let's face it, ang mga tao if bagong break, stalker mode. so you would definitely look at his profile once in a while. and then you will end up hurting.. so bakit mo sasaktan pa sarili mo if right now nasasaktan ka na sa break up nyo? he is not worth it. kasi if he really loves you, he will find ways to avoid hurting you. do not let him treat you like that. if you think you can't find someone like him, madre mio why bother looking for another replica of a guy na mas possibility na saktan ka ulit. I remember my ex told me, "you will never find someone like me". sagot ko lang "who said I will find someone like you. that's why we broke up kasi I dont like someone like you in my life anymore"...

reinvent yourself. learn new hobbies. do things you can't do before while you're with him and meet new friends

[superboink]

Thanks sis. Ang lakas lang talaga mang-asar.. Alam mo yun nanahimik ka as in tahimik tapos ganun gagawin sayo then sasabihin lets talk? dang!

[pret_ty68]

If I were you I will unfriend him on facebook. There are guys that are really insensitive of a girl's feelings and may iba na nananadya talaga. Ewan ko lang kung insensitive ang ex mo, nananadya or both pero kahit alin pa dun do not give him the satisfaction na nakikita mo pa ang wall nya. Pero kung di mo sya kaya i unfriend mag unsubscribe ka na lang sa kanya para at least makikita mo na lang profile nya pag gusto mo di na sya mag a appear sa news feed mo. Pero in situation like this it is best to distance yourself e ano naman ngayon kung isipin nya na jealous ka at least pag blinock mo sya tinanggalan mo na rin sya nang license to hurt you on facebook baka nga maisip nya pa na ready ka na to move on.

[chicafabulosa]

Thanks sis. Ang lakas lang talaga mang-asar.. Alam mo yun nanahimik ka as in tahimik tapos ganun gagawin sayo then sasabihin lets talk? dang!

haha gusto lang nun makita reaction mo or worst baka kasi makalusot na maging reserve ka in case na di mag work out yung isa.. alam mo na. kaya wag mo stressin sarili mo. magpaganda ka, pakita mo ano nawala sa kanya. wag mo pabayaan na maging losyang ka no.

[jals vins]

i read your story on the other thread and based on what you are saying now, BY ALL MEANS, ELIMINATE this guy from your life. that includes deleting him from your facebook, cut off all kinds of communication with him, don't fall to his trap and move on. there's so much to life than being stuck with a guy 3 daughters from diff women and a history of cheating on you. he is so not worth it! if you love yourself enough, then you should know.. you deserve better!

[junetwentythree]

Ineng, my two cents?

Don't air your dirty laundry online.

The end.

[dumpee.o13]

^ if blocking him in FB would make you move on completely, then do it. it's all up to you. but we're not talking just abt FB here, you should've get rid of him totally from your life. easier said than done, but that's the best thing to do. goodluck sis!

[gridiron babe]

unfriend and block. as harsh as it may be: wala nang dapat pang asahan dahil may iba na siya. wala na ring dapat pag-usapan pa dahil tapos na at wala ng mababago pa. you don't need a blow by blow account of what's happening in their life, anyway. spare yourself from further heartaches.

[h_mische]

unfriend. block. change your number. at never kang kakagat sa let's talk let's talk na yan dahil lalo ka lang hindi makakapag move on.

[dumpee.o13]

never kang kakagat sa let's talk let's talk na yan dahil lalo ka lang hindi makakapag move on.

^ agree! mas okay pa yung bigla nalang kayong hindi mag-uusap kesa sa may "closure" pa kayong hinahanap. kasi the more na you're longing na magkausap kayo, lalong di ka makaka-move on..

[carmilina]

korek, kaya hndi an din advisable un ganyan eh, at the end kaw din mag de decide if kakausapin mo or hndi un tao eh

[france0220325143]

parang ganyan ang ugali ng ex ko. mahilig magpapansin. sobrang immature. Iniinis ka lang nya to get your attention. now, weigh yourself. Do you still love him, or you totally want him out of your life?

[mitchal18]

parang ganyan ang ugali ng ex ko. mahilig magpapansin. sobrang immature.

GUYS LIKE THAT!! nakakainis talaga. He doesn't deserve your love, sis. Move on and try your best to forget about him.. It's time for a fresh start.

[phoebe1811]

you ex knew na kahit wala na kayo eh affected ka pa rin sa pinaggagawa niya so better delete him sa FB para wala na siyang chance magpapansin sayo. Moved on and get a new man .. lam niya yata kasi na sa sobrang inlove mo sa kanya na you'll find it hard to find a new one at isang message niya lang sayo eh you'll be back in his arms. my pov sis