Guys, do you feel bothered by your wife/gf's sexual past?

[Miss.Pancake]

Siguro may mga bagay talaga na dapat di nalang pinag uusapan like this past sexual affairs.

[magno4]

..im a guy mga sistah, medyo mahirap nga sa aming mga guys kung may past sexperience ang mga ladies namin, pero sa panahon ngayon kung open minded ang guy hindi na siguro kelangan pag usapan pa ang mga nakaraan. dati close minded ako regarding at pag dating sa mga past ng mga girls pero at the end ikaw din o sarili modin ang pinapahirapan kapag ganung napag uusapan ang past ng girls e so i made my mind to be open to all kaya ayun naging maaliwalas ang aking pananaw pag dating sa past, kase nga hindi mo mararating ang kasalukuyan kung dimo talaga dadaanan ang mga nakaraan, kung open minded ang guy kahet pag usapan nyo ang nakaraan kung ang importante sa kanya ay ang present e oke lang kung ganun, minsan kase ang girls din ang nag po provoke at sasabihin nya o compare nya yung mga ex e kaya yun ang nagiging umpisa ng di pag kaka unawaan at again dun mag recall yung mga past hanggang sa mag pa ulet ulet. haba ba mga sistah, pero yan ang aking opinyon..

[simang]

We don't often talk about our past, pero when we do, i really appreciate his being candid about it. Sobrang charming eh and he tells me na talaga hinahabol daw sya ng mga girls so wala sya magawa but to give in. Haha. Never talaga sya naging big deal sa akin kase those stuff are trivial. I mean i can live without knowing those. Napapagusapan lang namin minsan randomly. What's more important is how he is with me at present.

[argento]

Agree ako dyan. Kasi nun nalaman ng bf ko na naka do ko yun kateammate nya dati, ayun wala na. Bigla kaming nagkalabuan.

Ka team mate pa eh parang naisahan na rin siya nun
Di matanggap na left over ang napunta sa kanya hehe

[akthung]

pano pag dumaan ang BF sa mga PSP in the past?

[Miss.Pancake]

Ka team mate pa eh parang naisahan na rin siya nun
Di matanggap na left over ang napunta sa kanya hehe

Naintindihan ko naman. Heto nambababae na siya na iba. So hinayaan ko nalang. move on nalang sa iba. And this time i wont reveal na talaga yun past. hahahaha

[VainDoll]

Awkward lang kagabi. Meron ako calendar app meron dun part na "sexual contact". eh nibbrowse ni bf, lol nakita nya hanggang dun sa months na iba pa bf ko. Buti na lang 2-3x a month lang ) awkward!!!

[VainDoll]

Nalimot ko kasi nagdelete lol.

[Miss.Pancake]

I'm not bothered with my partner's sexual past. I'm bothered by his current.

[zeroone]

I'm not bothered with my partner's sexual past. I'm bothered by his current.

by current you mean you, right? or is he cheating?

[cussler]

i'm pretty sure that he's cheating... that really bothers

[simang]

I asked my guy if a woman's virginity matters to him (i was a virgin when we started dating and he was my first). Sabi nya no, as long as he gets along with the girl. So i asked him so okay lang sayo kahit marami na naging sexual partners ang girlfriend mo? Sabi nya, okay lang daw, pero there's this hypothetical number na he considers too many and mabobother na sya. Hindi nya din masabi kung ilan ba yun haha

[doom]

di na importantate ang past...ang imposrtante yung ngayon...kung ok kayo ngayon eh di ok...kasi sex lang namna yan,,,kasi malay mo yung mga panahon na yun eh may dahilan sya na di natin alam....

[molybdenumstudios]

The only reason why many guys are bothered with their girl's sexual past is due to their ego. They don't like competition per se.

[happynlove]

Hello mga sis, one of the things I learned is never ever make kwento about your past to your partner, be it sexual or non-sexual. Don't tell each other about your past relationships kasi nakabother lang yun sa partners nyo. Ako nga mismo, when I learned about his past girlfriend, bothered ako. nagseselos tuloy ako kahit hindi dapat since past na yun. That only leads us to "investigating" things that are not there anymore. And the negative effect on me is I can't help but compare myself with her. Naging almost anorexic pa ko dahil dun (sobrang payat kasi ng ex niya lol).
I have an ex, and nagkabalikan lang kami ni current. Paminsan minsan nagtatanong siya kung matagal kami ni ex pero short answers lang binibigay ko kasi feeling ko magiisip ng magiisip yun just like when he was jealous of the guys na nalink sakin (nalink lang ha, no relationship) because I made kwento.

napahaba sinabi ko 

[alice_alice]

I think my bf is bothered. Kasi the one that introduced us is my ex.

My very first bf and he didn't know pa that time. Before ko naman sinagot bf ko I told him na me and *name of ex* were together for 3 yrs and that he's my first bf. sabi niya if he knew he prolly won't court me daw but that changed naman when he got to know me daw. So ayun kame na!

Di nga lang ako nagoopen kasi nga college buddies sila and very close friends sila. Nung naging kame kasi ni ex HS pa kame nun.

Si ex kasi ang first everything ko so ayun. Haha. Hay naku.

[simang]

I don't have a lot of 'sexual past' so i don't think my guy cares at all. Sa kanya, he's had his fair share of sexual relations with his exes and some on the side, but i don't feel bothered by them. Napapagkwentuhan namin minsan candidly, but i dont know, i'm just not the type of person to probe pa when it comes to his past relationships, romantic or not.

[dismembered]

Hello mga sis, one of the things I learned is never ever make kwento about your past to your partner, be it sexual or non-sexual. Don't tell each other about your past relationships kasi nakabother lang yun sa partners nyo. Ako nga mismo, when I learned about his past girlfriend, bothered ako. nagseselos tuloy ako kahit hindi dapat since past na yun. That only leads us to "investigating" things that are not there anymore. And the negative effect on me is I can't help but compare myself with her. Naging almost anorexic pa ko dahil dun (sobrang payat kasi ng ex niya lol).

This is true! And suggestion na lang, wag na lang din kayong magtanong if alam nyong masasaktan or mapapraning kayo sa sagot. Expect nyo na yung worst part, and learn to accept it. Besides, the past doesn't matter anymore.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

To me, information is power. So, I like knowing as much as I can about the person I am with. To say that I don't get the least bit affected is not factual, but the degree by which it affects me is very minimal.. almost negligible even. I can stand knowing the dark and unpretty parts of his past, but can't take in not knowing. Again, that's just me.

[young_maiden]

ang masasabi ko lang sa mga guys na bothered sa sexual past ng gf o wife nila, wag na lang kayo magtanong kung masasaktan lang kayo sa sagot. lol.