Guys who initiate the break up

[dca201]

Aside sa napuno na sa girl, tingin ko pwedeng takot sa responsibility or commitment yung guy...

still afraid of commitment. Happened to me once unfortunately.

[ItsTricky]

talaga bang ayaw na nila at wala ng pag-asa magkabalikan pa?

i thought it was. 1+ years later after the breakup that i initiated and i REGRET doing it!!

[errolavi14]

na experience ko na to. like 2x

ang problema ko naman kase pag nakipag relasyon ako parating totoo. kaya nasasaktan ako.

pero ok narin, mahal na mahal ako ng hubby ko the way i wanted it to be. 

[piatos]

nakipagbreak na sakin bf ko kahit anong pakiusap ko balikan niya ako ayaw na.  Tapos 2 days kami d nagusap, nun friday lang nagtatanong sakin ano daw unit ng digicam ko? akala ko naman makikipagbalikan bwisit!!!! kakainis talaga! Ano ba yun? Naguguluhan na ako sa kanya

[jtansanco]

Napapansin ko lang sa mga fellow guys.. A reason why a guy breaks up with his gf is because he has found a new girl na gusto niya gawing gf. This is not true for all guys but yung iba napapansin ko kakabreak lang, may bagong gf na agad which means nakilala niya yung girl nato while still in a relatiosnhip.

[sixteen16]

jtansanco, agree ako! maybe 80% ng guy kaya nakikipagbreak is dahil may nakita na sila na pwede ipalit sa girl nila.. ganyan kasi yung past ko hehe.. dahilan na lang siguro nila yung kesyo ganun, ganyan ka..

kaya ako ngayon ayoko maging close ang partner ko sa mga girls na akala mo kung dumikit at makipagbiruan e single si guy at tsaka yung text ng text.. pwede kasi sila mainlove don..

[cinder05]

Based from my experience, pag nakipag break ang guy sa gf niya, FINAL na yon.

[jtansanco]

^^ Siguro pwede naman siya magmingle with the girls. Just tell him to let the girls know na taken na siya. It's all about trust din naman. If gawin mo yun sa kanya, payag ka rin ba na ilayo ka sa guy friends mo? Works both ways din kasi..

[sixteen16]

Yun nga ang prob kahit alam ng mga girls na taken na si bf..

[jtansanco]

^ Onga no... I guess sa girl's POV, mas attractive ang guy na taken. Mas challenging siyang "landian".. If love ka naman ni bf, you're safe. At least makikita mo if babaero nga siya or loyal sayo.

[sixteen16]

yun nga.. may tama ka! happy ako kasi si bf ang umiiwas sa kanila..

[pt_2000mf]

a friend told me kasi na if the guy initiated the break up it means wala na daw pag-asa makipagbalikan..

i had this guy for 5 years..  5 years straight hindi kami nag-break and 5 byears super saya namin..then last week ng march medyo naging shakey yung relationship namin..away-bati talaga kami and bihira na mag-usap kasi naging busy kami sa work.. then unti unti naramdaman ko na bigla syang naging cold... nagulat din ako kasi last holy week ok pa kami then after a week since di na kami masyadong nag-kakausap eh bigla na lang syang naging cold sa akin and last week nga he talked to me saying na pagod na daw sya sa situation namin.. to make it short he decided na mag-break na lang kami though ako naman humingi pa ng other chance kasi feeling ko hindi naman ganun kalala yung problema namin at pwede pa naman maayos.. kaso sabi nya pagod na daw sya.. hindi ko na rin masyadong pinilit kasi mahirap nga naman pilitin ang taong ayaw na.. 

kinabukasan i tried texting him pa pero wala na syang response..until now wala na akong balita sa kanya.. seems like ang bilis nyang nakalimutan yung 5 years na pinagsamahan namin.. we shared commin friends, boto sa kanya family ko and boto rin family nya sa akin..everything was so perfect kaya and weird isipin na ang bilis nya mag-give up at parang wala na talaga syang pakealam sa akin dahil hindi na sya nagpaparamdam to think na 5 years kami...

Hi @ ms_teryosa we are in the same situation me and my ex shared everything for 8yrs... but all of a sudden boom ganun na lang bigla syang nag-change (yun pala me GF na sya behind our relationship) it hurts oo kasi no explanation was made pero its okey kasi I know that GUY is not worth it... can't say anything against him kasi his nice naman pero nasaktan ako because of no explanation at all... anyways meron pa naman jan na mas WORTH it... 

[klengmorales]

^ sis pareho tayo.. more than 8 years. found out na may isang girl nagtanong ako sa mga guy friends ko.. ganun daw sila.. para d daw nila maranasan ang masaktan kaya may iba na agad. ( d ko po nilalahat ha. yung mga friends ko lang nagsabi)

[pt_2000mf]

^ sis pareho tayo.. more than 8 years. found out na may isang girl nagtanong ako sa mga guy friends ko.. ganun daw sila.. para d daw nila maranasan ang masaktan kaya may iba na agad. ( d ko po nilalahat ha. yung mga friends ko lang nagsabi)

sis @klengmorales don't worry maybe someone will come our way na mas worth it than our EX.... as of me right now i'm just enjoying the single life  .... and browsing thru here nalaman ko naman na we are all equally created... me GUYtalker din naman na nasasaktan same as ours.... smile SIS malay mo forever na yung dadating na bago.....

[Naughty^GuRu]

my POV:

i disagree sa comments na kaya nakipag break si Guy dahil meron siyang other girl, lalo na from a long term relationship. we guys are natural flirts, we may act on it pero we know how to differentiate playtime from serious ones. kung deep and serious yung relationship niyo and then suddenly your BF breaks up with you dahil sa mababaw na reason or no reason at all, hindi yun biglaan. im sure matagal inisip at tiniis ng BFs niyo yun. kaming mga guys, bihira kami mag complain, tiis kami as much as we can sa relationship, problem is naiipon yung mga issues namin hanggang sumabog nalang. hindi naman kami agad natuturn off or nafafall out of love. kaya kapag nakipag break yung guy final na, kasi punong puno na siya sa issues niya with GF and the relationship. and yung girls na sinasabi niyong pinalit agad niya? matagal nang nag eexist yung girl na yun sa buhay niya. matagal na niyang nakakausap or nakaka flirt yung girl na yun. and since nakipag break and single na siya, pwede na niya i-date yung girl. there will always be a better person than you, may it be sa looks or sa ugali. meron at merong makikilala si BF (or even GFs) na mas better sa Significant Other nila, pero hindi ibig sabihin na ipagpapalit nila yung GF nila for that girl. its not about the girl who is better than you, its is you becoming a lesser person you used to be or a lesser person na gusto ni BF.

[pt_2000mf]

my POV:

i disagree sa comments na kaya nakipag break si Guy dahil meron siyang other girl, lalo na from a long term relationship. we guys are natural flirts, we may act on it pero we know how to differentiate playtime from serious ones. kung deep and serious yung relationship niyo and then suddenly your BF breaks up with you dahil sa mababaw na reason or no reason at all, hindi yun biglaan. im sure matagal inisip at tiniis ng BFs niyo yun. kaming mga guys, bihira kami mag complain, tiis kami as much as we can sa relationship, problem is naiipon yung mga issues namin hanggang sumabog nalang. hindi naman kami agad natuturn off or nafafall out of love. kaya kapag nakipag break yung guy final na, kasi punong puno na siya sa issues niya with GF and the relationship. and yung girls na sinasabi niyong pinalit agad niya? matagal nang nag eexist yung girl na yun sa buhay niya. matagal na niyang nakakausap or nakaka flirt yung girl na yun. and since nakipag break and single na siya, pwede na niya i-date yung girl. there will always be a better person than you, may it be sa looks or sa ugali. meron at merong makikilala si BF (or even GFs) na mas better sa Significant Other nila, pero hindi ibig sabihin na ipagpapalit nila yung GF nila for that girl. its not about the girl who is better than you, its is you becoming a lesser person you used to be or a lesser person na gusto ni BF.

@ Naughty^GuRu sorry SIR for answering it again ha.... this was my experience... maybe right yun sinabi mo pero I'm telling this because of my experience...

[angelzero]

if the reason of break up doesn't make sense at all, most probably may ibang girl na syang gusto. in my experience, ang reason nya is busy daw sa work, gusto nya makapag-ipon, baka daw di fair sa kin na mawalan sya ng time sa kin blah blah blah. samantalang the week before we were totally ok. ang pangit pa nun he broke up sa text. kahit naman 6 month relationship lang yun i think i deserve a face to face break up talk. napaka duwag nya. anyways, so i accepted it. i was trying my best to move on, then after 1 month i found out gf na nya yung girl na kinukwento nya sa kin before na best bud daw nya sa work. i was like wow. minsan kasi moving on is about accepting the reasons why he broke up with you. if you can't help but discover the deeper reason for the break up, you have to go back to square one again.

the least guys can do, when they want to break up with someone, just be honest. but who am i kidding? for girls na na-dump, just move on and don't look back. mahirap nga ipilit ang sarili kung ayaw na talaga.

[ilovejdy]

i agree na takot sa commitment kapag guy nag iniate
at mas lalong agree na may ibang babae

that's exactly what happened with my ex
oh well... immature pa kasi talaga siya

[pt_2000mf]

situation happens to me was ... my ex has another girl.... but good thing is after the break-up mas nakilala ko ang sarili ko... part only is misses the time when someone taking care of you or someone is concern sa'yo... anyways still happy and no regrets i gave him hes freedom that he wants...   

[ohcmon]

I don't think bigyan dapat ng ibang meaning 'pag guy ang nakipagbreak. 'Pag sila nag-initiate ng breakup, may ibang babae agad o commitment issues? That doesn't make sense.

I'm all for the women who get hurt, sure, pero hindi naman sa lahat ng panahon laging tayo 'yung biktima. Maraming g*g*ng lalaki, pero 'wag lahatin. Kung nakipagbreak sa'yo 'yung bf mo, i-assess mo rin sarili mo kung saan ka nagkamali, 'wag 'yung magcoconclude agad ng walang basis.

Partners tayo ng boyfriends natin kaya kung anong right ang meron tayo sa relationship, meron din sila. I don't think it's proper to deprive them of having to initiate the breakup dahil lang babae tayo. Hello, women empowerment and gender equality.