Girls, do you ever dare TO BE THE FIRST tell your feelings to a guy you like?

[babyboo.0326]

I'm included in the 30+ ladies. But I don't like to just blurt out about how I feel. Because I might just be infatuated.

If I strongly feel that love na talaga yung nafi-feel ko, I will have to evaluate yung guy din. Just like what I did with my BF now. We were kind of in understanding of each other's liking of each other nun. We treat each other extra special than before. So I noticed din there's something different. BUT, I did not take that as a yes din na he likes/loves me too. I waited and had to hear it from him, though ang hirap-hirap talaga kasi I had to feel the kilig pero I can't endure naman kasi I'm not sure.

To cut the story short, kahit kami na nun, I still waited for him to say "I love you" to me, saka ako nagsabi nun sa kanya.

We're still together now, 2 years, going stronger. We're planning for our future na 

[April30]

^ if hindi ako naging matapang. would i be this happy? 

Nice! That's the spirit. May kind of guy kasi na takot magsabi ng feelings unless he really knows the score between the two of you. Reality bites, minsan si girl talaga ang kelangan mag-first move. LOL! 

[aquacharly]

Never did. Too shy. Or me katangahan lang ako.

Even up to now, I can't blurt it out to hubby. 
He must say it 1st. Tapos, , isipin ko pa if I will say it back. Lolz
Hindi na ko shy, but siguro hmmmm ma pride.  Me katangahan nga ko when it comes to that sentence.

[kathchie]

Nagawa kong aminin sa isang friend ko na crush ko siya pero ang sabi niya lang sa akin pinagtritripan ko lang daw siya. Hehe. Mga ayaw maniwala.

[iceheaven31]

I used to tell first all of the guys that I liked and/or loved what i felt.

The only guy that I have allowed to tell his feelings for me first is my fiance.

[nenmaroon]

I tried once (hindi ko na uulitin, sakit umasa) pero parang walang nangyari though sinabi niya na in time liligawan niya ako pero hangga ngayon wala naman progress, hindi siya nagtitext/chat man lang tapos ako heart broken ang peg ko

[tomatostellar]

medyo :p
mga pasaring lang, nung landian period namin ni current bf i texted:
"yung crush ko kasi pacute ng pacute sa crush nya" (may pretty classmate sya na sinamba nya sa fb, comment, like ek ek)
tapos status update on fb
me: I THINK I LOVE YOU
then deactivate fb account ahahah.. next day..
him: I THINK I LOVE YOU TOO

hihi kilig ♥

[blisstacy]

I'm included in the 30+ ladies. But I don't like to just blurt out about how I feel. Because I might just be infatuated.

If I strongly feel that love na talaga yung nafi-feel ko, I will have to evaluate yung guy din. Just like what I did with my BF now. We were kind of in understanding of each other's liking of each other nun. We treat each other extra special than before. So I noticed din there's something different. BUT, I did not take that as a yes din na he likes/loves me too. I waited and had to hear it from him, though ang hirap-hirap talaga kasi I had to feel the kilig pero I can't endure naman kasi I'm not sure.

To cut the story short, kahit kami na nun, I still waited for him to say "I love you" to me, saka ako nagsabi nun sa kanya.

We're still together now, 2 years, going stronger. We're planning for our future na 

so walang formal na ligaw sis?  parang long time kayo friends?

[sweet.trish]

Im starting to like someone else. Spending too much time with him feeling ko um cheating on my bf na. Hayayayay. Siguro kung may chance, ill tell him.

[minnie99]

So based sa experience ng karamihan dito...

Ayoko na rin. Haha kahit sobrang gusto ko siya and kahit may onting signs. Move on na lang ako

[zarazan]

No. Never. Dalagang Pilipina masyado ako eh. Ayoko bigyan ng comfort yung guy na madali na niya ako makukuha dahil crush/gusto ko siya.  Kasi in the end, mas madali sila magsawa. And madalang pagsawaan ang madaling nakuha.

[Frozen Toes]

I can, but I won't.

[Yal]

Yes.
He was my high school classmate, found me on facebook. We chat everyday but just a casual chat until he saw the picture of me with my sister and he told me that he likes my sister. I did became a bridge between them, though obviously my sister didn't like him. I gave him advices, tips regarding my sister until the time came that I started to get jealous and get hurt and realized that I'm falling in love with him. I confessed my feelings about him through facebook since he's working abroad. He said that he won't ignore the feelings, won't take advantage over it and won't be conceited about it but asked me a favor that our friendship stayed the same.

I asked him not to talk to me for awhile for me to move on, but he just keeps  on insisting that we don't stop talking. But I cannot stand talking to him because it hurts me. I'm not expecting anything from him in return to be honest. I know that I will be rejected but it still hurts when that actual time came. Oh well, since he's to persistent not to stop the communication eventhough he knows I'm hurt, I deleted him on facebook, confessed to my sister, it's a relief and a liberating feeling. No regrets. At least I said it and did not end up with what ifs.

Sorry if this is too long, just wanted to share

[xoxohersheys]

I don't think i will have the guts to confess my feelings with a guy!
I'm so scared to be rejected...

[iseenessie]

I have no problem telling the guy I like him. Pero di ko sinasabi out loud unless I am very sure na I really do. Pinag-iisipan ko muna ng matagal. Kung mareject ako, okay lang. At least nasabi ko. Also, I have no problem asking a guy out. Hindi naman kasi ako yung tipo na mahilig sa mind games. Pag gusto ko, gusto ko. Pag ayaw ko, ayaw ko. I am really careful though if I have to do the asking. Kasi when I do, it means na talagang interested ako sa guy and gusto ko magfocus ako sa kanya lang. So before I do it, I make sure na wala akong dinedate na iba. Kasi after all, what is the point of telling a guy you like him and asking him out kung marami ka palang reserba?

[shane_ganda]

Actually eto problem ko ngyaon.. Hahaha . I want to add my crush on fb.. Hindi kami magkakilala pero somehow nahanap ko fb nya.. Ahaha di ako stalker ha. Hahaha hindi ko naman pinaparating na i aadd ko sya dahil may aaminin ako sa kanya pero medyo parang may hint..and hes way younger tha me so alam ko infatuation lang to.. But i really want to add him.. Should I do it? Hahah nakakahiya wag na nga.landi moment

[joeygirly]

Actually eto problem ko ngyaon.. Hahaha . I want to add my crush on fb.. Hindi kami magkakilala pero somehow nahanap ko fb nya.. Ahaha di ako stalker ha. Hahaha hindi ko naman pinaparating na i aadd ko sya dahil may aaminin ako sa kanya pero medyo parang may hint..and hes way younger tha me so alam ko infatuation lang to.. But i really want to add him.. Should I do it? Hahah nakakahiya wag na nga.landi moment

hahaha landi moment? go lang gurl tignan natin kung kilig ang ending 

Never tried..kasi wala namang chance lagi silang nauuna ehe ehe ehe...

[shane_ganda]

hahaha landi moment? go lang gurl tignan natin kung kilig ang ending 

Never tried..kasi wala namang chance lagi silang nauuna ehe ehe ehe...

Hahaha... Kung ikaw nasa sitwasyon ko sis.. ano gagawin m sis..Yung namumukhaan ka niya pero di ka niya kilala.

[joeygirly]

Hahaha... Kung ikaw nasa sitwasyon ko sis.. ano gagawin m sis..Yung namumukhaan ka niya pero di ka niya kilala.

Sa personality ko kasi sis baka kung ano isipin pag in add ko agad since di naman ako nagaadd lagi ng friends hahaha!  pero kung friendly namna personality mo edi baka lumusot pag nakita niyang inadd mo siya isipin niya friendly ka lang siguro 

[ann08]

Actually eto problem ko ngyaon.. Hahaha . I want to add my crush on fb.. Hindi kami magkakilala pero somehow nahanap ko fb nya.. Ahaha di ako stalker ha. Hahaha hindi ko naman pinaparating na i aadd ko sya dahil may aaminin ako sa kanya pero medyo parang may hint..and hes way younger tha me so alam ko infatuation lang to.. But i really want to add him.. Should I do it? Hahah nakakahiya wag na nga.landi moment

nakakarelate naman. Sakin naman nakakasabay ko lang sa jeep many times. May suot syang dog
tag kaya nakita ko name sa fb. Gusto ko na iadd pero mutual friend pala ng office mate ko kasi
same sila ng school na pinasukan before. what a small world talaga. Hanggang tingin lang ako sa
Fb nya before. At may gf pala din kasi siya kaya hesistate ako iadd. haha