Girls, do you ever dare TO BE THE FIRST tell your feelings to a guy you like?

[roxy14]

yes. nung first time kong inamin, sinabi lang nya sakin na he doesn't want us to be that way. gusto nya friends lang kami kasi he wants to keep our friendship. he's the type of guy kasi na after ng relationship, wala na. hindi na maguusap. but we tried kaso isang araw iniwan na lang ako basta basta. hindi ko alam kung bakit. bigla na lang akong di kinausap.

second time naman is yung boyfriend ko ngayon. ang tagal tagal ko na siyang gusto kaso hindi ko talaga masabi sa kanya kasi sabi nya sakin na siya yung guy na gusto ng challenge. gusto nya siya  yung mahihirapan at aamin. ayaw nya talaga yung ganun girls. pero hindi na talaga ako nakatiis  huminga na lang ako ng malalim at sabay sabi ng, "i love you" and he said he loves me too. hindi lang pala din nya maamin amin sakin kasi nahihiya siya

[winkypops]

i really like this guy gusto ko na sabihin ang feelings ko sa kanya pero natatakot akong ma reject,siguro i will wait for the right time na lang..un sya mismo magkukusa na magsabi sa akin na he love me too.

[Girltalker2]

ive done this too.. i wanted a confirmation kase on whats going on between us. super close to the point na sya [textspeak!] first and last person na nakakausap ko everyday. even my parents would ask kung friends lang ba kami. sad to say, sabi nya friend lang daw turing nya sakin. ouch!!! and even told me na lalayo na lang sya. sabi ko no need. what i did is ako na lang ang dumistansya. unti unti akong lumayo. but were still friends d na lang masyadong close. one time nagkalokohan about the past, bigla nyang sinabi na, 'alam ko namang ayaw ng parents mo skn'.

The fact kasi na you wanted confirmation and the fact na hindi sya nagsasabi, he is just not that interested.  this is just my opinion. 

Most guys, especially Pinoys, sinuman ihain sa harap nila na babae, papatol at papatol lalo na if they are available and wait til the next right girl arrives in their lives.

Kaya NEVER para sakin to confirm these feelings.  Kahit nga mismo sila ang nagp-pursue, minsan gusto ko pa magpakipot and need to see how true their feelings are.

[Girltalker2]

I do this if I feel the guy and I are too close already pero wala pa rin siyang ginagawang move.

I tell them directly, "I like you and I don't wanna waste my time if you don't feel the same so let's just get this over and done with." I don't beat around the bush kasi. If he doesn't like me, at least I can move on and find a better guy. I won't stay put and wonder if he likes me or not, aksyon agad.

Luckily, I've never been rejected. Guys tell me that my "confidence" is a turn-on.

Do you have any criteria or check list before jumping the gun? 
Like do you first check if he is available?  If he has a special someone?  Ano ang tipo nyang babae? Do you first check if he is someone worth disclosing your feelings to - yung potential bf who has met your minimum requirements? 

Just asking, kasi in any move we make in our love life, di ba kelangan properly strategized din. Para naman happy tayo sa love life natin at makahanap ng bf na truly deserving and worth it.  Or parang bahala na si batman and come what may? basta may 'crush'/feelings ako sa kanya, sasabihin ko?

[iwannabeasupermodel]

no cause i'm chicken s*** and i love myself too much. i hate to feel hurt as well.

[mitchal18]

Yup.. Better to take the chance than regret not having done anything in the future.

[hellojavi13]

my gosh feeling ko wala kong guts sabihin yun sa guy na gusto ko, takot ako mapahiya at ma reject or baka imbes na hindi siya awkward pag nagkikita kami eh layuan na nya ko lalo na at hindi pa naman kami close.. haaayyy. but I really really really like him. 

[hellojavi13]

sa ngayon hindi ko na kaya umamin sa guy na nagugustuhan ko now.

but 3 years ago naalala ko pala umamin na din ako sa guy friend ko na gusto ko siya, pano ba naman we did everything like gf/bf except sex noh! basta sweet siya saken, lagi magkatext and we kiss pa nga, one time nag ask ako kung ano ba talaga ako sa kanya? kasi ako mahal ko siya, sabi nya mahal din nya ako pero as a friend lang! ouchy! the worst may gusto na daw kasi siyang iba, kaso bakit siya ganon sakin hinayaan nya ako ma fall, grabe talaga! hahaha. mula nun hindi na ko nagparamdam pero nag tetext pa din siya kesyo he miss me na daw blah blah, He even add me on facebook after a year na hindi ko na siya pinansin at na sakanya pa daw yung gift kong jacket, I was like the hell I care!! I'ts over! buti na lang naka move on na ko sa napaka walang kwentang feelings ko sa kanya before. haha!

kaya ngayon mukang hindi ko talaga kaya umamin sayo mr.crush 

[*yvainne*]

oh no..hindi ko kaya. sana kaya ko  yun guy na like na like ko talaga, hindi ko talaga masabi. ilag at sungit din ako kapag crush ko. ayoko mahalatang like ko sya kasi nakakailang. anhirap mag pigil  after 10 years, nanligaw sya, dun ko lang sinagot. 

[lavinia48]

Of course not! LOL. I remember nung naging kami na (bf-gf) ng husband ko ngayon, i asked him kung bakit ang tagal na naming magkasama tapos after 4 years lang siya nagsabi sa akin that he likes-and even loves-me. He replied "Eh kasi wala ka namang sinasabi sa akin eh. I'm dropping obvious hints, but you seem to ignore me. Ayoko lang mapahiya na sabihin ko sa'yo tapos you'll reject me!" Men...their egos! =D

[bluedanube]

No!
i'm not malandi and i have too much pride to bring myself to do that.

[mooncake and leaves]

i have, in college. malandi ako eh saka wala akong pride. . i gave the dude a letter, which is quite possibly the most heartfelt letter I've ever written in my life. sayang. sana naipa-photocopy ko man lang para may souvenir ako or may default template na ako for every guy na gusto ko landiin.

[home_seeker]

I wanted to pero I was adviced na always wait for the guy to make the first move and it paid off.

[xRylaine]

I did, friend ko siya and super close kami, and that time we've been dating pa, para siya yung very rare na conservative na guy, at NGSB, nung sinabi ko sakanya yung feelings ko, naiintindihan nya naman daw..tapos sabi niya hindi pa siya ready (kamusta naman he was 21 that time), although he feel na same way pero ayaw niya pa, taray no parang babae lang.. pero good thing din na ikaw yung umamin..atleast hindi ka na AASA sa wala..and you can move on with your life na..

[ayka]

of course not! kaya ako babae. ako ang sinusuyo at nililigawan. 

[missreese]

pag umamin. malandi na agad? 

di ko pa natry to.. natataon lang na pag gusto ko yung guy eh may feelings din siya for me... 

[Girltalker2]

^ sis, di naman. I don't think so.

It is just that, knowing how 99% of the guys behave, talunan ka kung ikaw ang unang aamin. A guy has to profess his love, prove that he is worthy of you!  Before you tell him you are accepting his love.  opinion ko lang naman ito.

[FayeP]

oo naman, have tried, actually mas vocal ako sa hubby ko kahit ngayon eh hehe

pero di si hubby un nasabihan ko, un first BF ko un, ako unang umamin, pero sabi ko sa kanya, "tol, sinasabi ko lang na gusto ko kita pero di ko naman inaask na maging tayo" eh gusto nya din pala so there!!!

[cosmic girl]

Nope. Never tried it and i think i never will. I dont want to put that kind of pressure on myself and the guy na magustuhan ako. I also dont want him to have that kind of power over me. Feeling nya ha, excuse me!

[Huntress Krystle]

I did this once. Ako yung unang nag confess nung nararamdaman ko kasi I've been hiding it for months and di ko na kaya. It turned out na gusto nya din pala ako kaso naiilang din sya magsabi. Naging kami nung guy na yun pero since LDR yun, di din nag last.