Girls, do you ever dare TO BE THE FIRST tell your feelings to a guy you like?

[MalditaNgaAko]

Nunca. Mas importante ang pride ko kesa sa kahit sinong boylet sa mundo. hahaha

[pinkberries]

^hahaha natawa ako dun ah.

i have never tried this.  wala akong courage to do this.  ayoko magmukhang desperate, lalo na if he doesn't feel the same way... nagbabait-baitan lang kasi close friends kami. 

[pooka08]

Nung 1st year HS alam ko binigyan ko ng gift crush ko. Pero may gusto siyang iba. </3 Buti na lang I didn't say the words. Kasi naman pag sinabi mo na, confirmed na. At least with your actions pwede pa maglie pag na-reject ka

As for i-love-you, wala pa. never. haha. Mararamdaman naman siguro ng guy kung gusto mo siya. As what sis sakura_bloom said. Kung hindi siya dense. May mga tell-tale signs if special siya sayo, lalo na pag nabuking ka pa na the choices you made somehow is because of/related to him. Kung gusto ka naman nung guy, he'll confess first or at least may gagawin siya about it or paparamdam din niya. haha rejection is too much to handle.

[imyourangel]

NEVER. EVER. Haha.

But I think I have done it once. Though not discreetly. How?

A friend of mine told me that HE had seen my private blog (which contains all my feelings for him).

At first, of course I tried to be normal sa relationship namin (we're friends) and he never opened the subject din naman.

But then, time passed, he got married (Ouch!) and that didn't help... it just made my feelings stronger, and that time grabe din naman yung communication namin even though may asawa na siya.

So there I was, still hurting and wanting to move on. I told him that what he had read on my blog is true, at hindi pa ko nakaka-get over dun, at hindi lang yun simpleng crush but it's more than that.

His response?
He felt the same. He thought of me as more-than-a-bestfriend.

Yun lang, he's already married. So I let him go.

Oh... those are the days.

[khayzee]

ive done this too.. i wanted a confirmation kase on whats going on between us. super close to the point na sya [textspeak!] first and last person na nakakausap ko everyday. even my parents would ask kung friends lang ba kami. sad to say, sabi nya friend lang daw turing nya sakin. ouch!!! and even told me na lalayo na lang sya. sabi ko no need. what i did is ako na lang ang dumistansya. unti unti akong lumayo. but were still friends d na lang masyadong close. one time nagkalokohan about the past, bigla nyang sinabi na, 'alam ko namang ayaw ng parents mo skn'.

[tey_roch19]

oo naman. nagawa ko na din to. kung mabigat na sa loob e. e di mas mabuting sabihin mo na. baka naman kasi torpe masyado. better to be honest with your feelings kung magpapakatotoo ka lang din naman.

[shaney]

if i know na may feelings din siya sa akin and di ako magmumukhang t****..  hehe

[mitchal18]

simpleng paramdam lang, to the point na medyo tinutukso na kami ng friends namin..
eventually siya ang nag effort to spend more time with me.. everything worked out for the best

[spitfire]

I  did this once! told him indirectly but I was dumped..

Bad side: My pride took all the blow and my heart was torn into pieces.
Good Side: I finally able move on and got a boyfriend! yiheee!

[ohcmon]

I do this if I feel the guy and I are too close already pero wala pa rin siyang ginagawang move.

I tell them directly, "I like you and I don't wanna waste my time if you don't feel the same so let's just get this over and done with." I don't beat around the bush kasi. If he doesn't like me, at least I can move on and find a better guy. I won't stay put and wonder if he likes me or not, aksyon agad.

Luckily, I've never been rejected. Guys tell me that my "confidence" is a turn-on.

[prettylalaine]

i've done this and it was indeed a liberating experience.

we were close friends at the time and he was with another girl. but i never intended to snatch him from that nice girl so i ended up loving him secretly. i came to a point that my love for him reached its maturity and the only way i could have a closure was to confess. so did i, and it felt good.

when i told him my feelings, i closed my door for him. may guys kasi na kapag nalaman nilang gusto mo sila, gusto ka na rin nila. like i said nahinog na yung pagmamahal ko sa kanya,  yung para bang hindi ko kailangan ang relasyon. basta mahal ko siya. i don't call it ka-martiran or kawalan ng pride. i cal it love in the real sense of the word. i had heartaches, yes, pero narealize ko na ang feeling ng minamahal ka ay kasingsarap rin ng feeling ng nagmamahal ka. cheesy!

[mishmish]

Happened once... several years ago... We both had feelings for each other, he was younger than me, but that did not stop me from falling for him. Got no idea though as to how deep his feelings were for me... Got no regrets for confessing naman, actually natuwa pa nga ako, kasi looking back at least nagka-courage ako, at least nalaman ko din na may feelings siya talaga, kaso meron na siyang girlfriend that time, and wala naman sa plan kong sirain relationship nila. Wala din sa plan na mag-confess ako, pero sa sobrang kalasingan na-buking ko tuloy sarili ko

[stacies83221]

I did it before because I knew he had feelings for me too but kept on denying it himself. All the signs were there but I guess he had so many things going on on his oh so complicated life that time. It was liberating finally telling him how I felt. Albeit his feelings were there, he did not choose to be with me.

I think it provided the clarification of what is really taking place, then closure and saved both of us the heartaches and dramas.

[pinkk]

I never tried it before when I was younger. I felt it just turns the guy off and ruins the excitement.

[krnmprl]

i've done this and it was indeed a liberating experience.

we were close friends at the time and he was with another girl. but i never intended to snatch him from that nice girl so i ended up loving him secretly. i came to a point that my love for him reached its maturity and the only way i could have a closure was to confess. so did i, and it felt good.

when i told him my feelings, i closed my door for him. may guys kasi na kapag nalaman nilang gusto mo sila, gusto ka na rin nila. like i said nahinog na yung pagmamahal ko sa kanya,  yung para bang hindi ko kailangan ang relasyon. basta mahal ko siya. i don't call it ka-martiran or kawalan ng pride. i cal it love in the real sense of the word. i had heartaches, yes, pero narealize ko na ang feeling ng minamahal ka ay kasingsarap rin ng feeling ng nagmamahal ka. cheesy!

ganitong ganito ang nararamdaman ko. eventually we will part ways and never see each other again. pero ngayon kahit hindi ko sinasabi masaya na ko na iparamdam sa kanya na mahal ko siya.

[saiachie2023]

ako siguro u may call me desperate.. cheap or whatsoever pero once I like a guy
i tell him straight to his face or ttxt ko [textspeak!] if we are already exchanging messages..

para sa akin mas ok un feeling pag sinasabi mo un totoo mong narramdaman..

it maybe ka cheapan sa paningin ng iba pero I believe when it comes to feelings walang boys
or walang girls when you want to say what you really feel..

its up to you kung kaya mo itake yung risk ng rejection nia.. sa akin kasi once na im already
rejected kusa na nawawala un feelings ko eh.. maybe its just a matter of acceptance..

iba din kasi siguro ugali ko kasi i feel like im one of the boys..

para sa akin its not better left unsaid..

[angeleigh]

Nope. Naniniwala ako na pag ang lalaki sa tingin niya walang challenge ang girl. madaling iwan at kalimutan.

[hawiyah]

yes...nagawa ko na yan hindi lang once,twice pa kaya lang yung una hindi successful ang result.but sa pangalawa it's a success..isa lang ang tinanong ko sa lalaki,gusto mo ba ako o hindi??? and then sumagot siya ng oo gusto kita,and now were husband and wife

[maybelleslife]

Nope and never will. (as if naman single pa? lolz)

I still believe in the "pakipot" process pa din kasi when guys know that you like them there's a big possibility that they will find you as an "easy girl" or they will take advantage of it.

[krnmprl]

i did this last night. i am thankful i did it more than i regret it. we'd been friends for about a year. and then may nakilala siya. and it dawned on me it was never gonna work. and napagdesisyunan ko na tumigil na. hindi ko naman sinabi ng direcho nag text lang ako how grateful i am na we've met. and then binlock ko na siya and quit my job and we'll never see each other again once my resignation takes effect. it feels so liberating to finally, finally say the truth. matagal ko naman na din nilihim sa kanya. kung mawawala ko rin siya mabuti ng alam niya. na nasabi mo miski papano.

i'm aware that what i feel will be unreturned. but that's not the point.