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Hi mga sis! I have been lurking in this site for quite some time now & I have finally decided to share my story to you guys. I'm not sure if I am posting in the right thread pero here goes.My history: Married 2001Start of work-up: 2002 (clomid, Hysterosalpingogram, several failed IUIs)1st pregnancy: 2003 (blighted ovum)Immuno testing: 2003 (Cat I, II, IV, V)Other tests/procedures: Laparoscopy for Endo stage II, severe PCOSTreatment: LIT, IVIG, Prednisone, Heparin, Aspirin (the works)Result: several failed IUIs & 2 failed IVFs (done in Singapore)To make the long story short, walang nangyari. I don't want to sound obnoxious pero sa lahat lahat ng nagastos naming mag-asawa I could have built a house, seriously. But we did not mind the financial factor, we worked hard instead para matustusan ang expenses. But the most painful part is the emotional & physical pain that we had to endure.Fast forward to 2007, our 2nd IVF procedure. Husband & I decided that if it still does not work out, we will move on with our lives & accept the fact that maybe our destiny is to really not have a child. After the failed IVF I went through all the grieving stages, anger, depression, self pity, etc. ( i know all of you can relate to this). Until I reached the final stage, ACCEPTANCE. I realized that life is not about having a child or not. Having no children does not make me less of a person. Naisip ko, I did not marry my husband just to procreate. I married him because I want to spend the rest of my l with him. & if we do have a child/children, bonus na yun sobra. I did bt blame God, kasi naisip ko i have so many blessings in life. Good health, loving family & friends, shelter, food, a wonderful husband, pano pa ako aangal? parang ang selfish ko na nun. Moving on, hubby & i decided to live our life to the max. We traveled when permitted. We took up mountain biking. We surrounded ourselves w/ people who care & love us & who do not judge us for not having children.Fast forward again to 2012. I found out I was pregnant. No work ups, no medications, etc. As in lahat wala. I found out Jan 3. Grabe the best new yr's gift na natanggap namin. I am now almost 11wks pregnant.What I learned from all of these: that God is really great. I am not a super religious person pero this truly is a miracle baby. In God's time talaga, everything will fall into place. I have to be honest, I am scared almost every day. Scared that something might go wrong. In short PARANOID. But I am embracing this pregnancy. Binigay na ito ni Lord w/o me asking so I know para sa akin na talaga to.Mga sis, don't lose hope. Wala pala talagang imposible kay Lord. I read this somewhere:GOD answers prayer in 3 ways: HE says YES & gives you what you want. HE says NO & gives you BETTER. HE says WAIT & gives you the BEST EVER.I continue to pray everyday that everything will go well. & I will pray for everyone here who are in their journey to having their own miracle baby soon.Ang haba na ng post ko, I will create another one kasi I want to share what I have learned so far in this pregnancy.Prayers & Baby dust to all.
OO nga ang tigas ng ulo eh ...Agressive na nga yun Lit ko ganun lang tinaas.Mag accupuncture din ako every week bago alis for IVF may 3 weeks pa ako.Para mag accupuncture naman.Nakaka stress kasi yun Lit score na yan.Goodluck sis sa IUI mo ha.
sis yung sakin from 0 naging 6. 2 donors per session, 2 weeks interval. may 3rd session pa dapat ako kaso sabi ko ang gastos na hehe kaya di ako bumalik. di naman ako pinagalitan ni doc nung bumalik ako. nag booster lang ako nung january with 1 donor, then tinext ko si doc A, pwede daw wala muna LIT this month. yey to that!