is it better to know each others passwords?

[thestargazer]

To be honest? I think not. Prang nakakasakal naman yun. If there is truly honesty and trust between you and your s.o. I don't think you have to know each others passwords. What for?

[neonprincess]

I don't think couples should share each others passwords. If there is honesty and trust with each other, you shouldn't be bothered. Nakaka-suffocate naman ata ang ganun. I don't want to be very controlling, and same with him, ayoko din na ganun sya saken.

[_ania_]

My bf(or Ex--we're complicated) and I are in LDR. We know each other's passwords (email,fb,skype) even before I was in the PH. But recently, everytime a guy adds me  or when someone is chatting on me in fb without me knowing, he will chat on him and parang I feel pinapahiya ako sa mga sinasabi nya. Also, when he saw the thingy Guy's name and my Name are now friends  in fb, he will like it and make nasty comment, I felt so humiliated by his act. So when the time na napuno na ako, I changed all my passwords and I asked for cool off because I felt disrespected...

[shopaholic18]

no, you have to keep something private, not unless asawa ka na ha. but then personally i wouldn't want to know bf's passwords for the very reason that i trust him. if you have trust issues to work out big deal talaga yun pero kung your on the same boat as mine, its useless. sabi nga ng isang sis, what for, and i wouldn't want to end up with someone i can't trust, ayokong mamroblema ko buong buhay ko.

[thegimp]

My bf(or Ex--we're complicated) and I are in LDR. We know each other's passwords (email,fb,skype) even before I was in the PH. But recently, everytime a guy adds me  or when someone is chatting on me in fb without me knowing, he will chat on him and parang I feel pinapahiya ako sa mga sinasabi nya. Also, when he saw the thingy Guy's name and my Name are now friends  in fb, he will like it and make nasty comment, I felt so humiliated by his act. So when the time na napuno na ako, I changed all my passwords and I asked for cool off because I felt disrespected...

Are you his first gf? i would understand if this is the case.
He may have insecurity issues, just basing it sa post mo.

[_ania_]

Are you his first gf? i would understand if this is the case.
He may have insecurity issues, just basing it sa post mo.

unfortunately, NO. He had several gfs na din...but I'm his longest relationship (almost 3yrs). We're okay now. I have his FB's password but he doesn't have mine.

[yAbmby]

having your own set of privacy doesn't mean we were hiding something, kahit mag-asawa na we still have right sa privacy natin as individual. me personally i dont like the idea of sharing password with my partner.

[deliciously_ridiculous]

NO, not good if you have each other's password. been there with my ex bf, and one of the caused of our fight and break up.

[ri-anne]

iba-iba ang tao..what works for others may not work naman for other couples....

in my case, mag-bf-gf pa lang kami, alam nya na password ko, sinabi nya na rin password nya, eventually nag-evolve at meron kaming standard password na samga  emails namin...it's a non-issue for us...kaya kahit yung fb account ko, "share" kami 

[iamgold]

No..nakakapraning kaya yun na my access ka mas lalo kang magseselos pag ganon

[trishpassing]

On my end, we both know each other's password but I don't think we access each other's account. Ako personally, yung mga ganyan kasi salot sa buhay yan, pinagmumulan ng away  I mean, I think and I believe, accessing each other's personal account is a sign na you don't trust each other. I'm not saying na insecure ka if you do, but may mga bagay na dapat separate pa din di ba, yung matatawag mong iyo lang and you have control over it.

[princess14]

i think hinde.. kc pag may nakita ka na ayaw mo or kinaselosan mo, magaging cause lang ng away..

[prettychestnut]

hindi. dapat give respect each other's privacy. ganun lang yun. =)

[pinkbubbles17]

in my case we both know each others pw..but not to check who messaged us..etc..if ever i cant open my email or fb..i can ask him to do that for me..

[h_mische]

not a good idea.

[nejoy]

my man knows mine and i know his pw's.. i have no problem with it

[karmark16]

For me knowing each others passwords is a NO NO kasi I value my privacy and I know he does as  well, I mean lagi  na kami magkasama tapos pati [textspeak!] ganung bagay ppapakialaman ko pa di ba? I trust him enough naman so it doesn't matter to me.

[Serena.]

Yes, wala namang masama don, masama talaga kung may tinatago sya.


xo

[JHAZbewithyou]

Posted by: karmark16
« on: April 24, 2012, 04:09:51 pm »Insert Quote


For me knowing each others passwords is a NO NO kasi I value my privacy and I know he does as  well, I mean lagi  na kami magkasama tapos pati [textspeak!] ganung bagay ppapakialaman ko pa di ba? I trust him enough naman so it doesn't matter to me


TRULALOOOO!!

[simplyme]

before we used to know each other's passwords. pero na-outgrow na namin yung selosan siguro hanggang sa ako nagpasimuno na magkarun ng sariling password sa emails at FB. Even sa celfone, kahit may tumunog celfone ni hubby pag may nagtetext di ko binabasa unless he asked me to read it to him kapag nagda-drive sya. Hindi rin nya pinapakialaman celfone ko para wala na lang away.