haha. natatawa naman ako. para namang sinasabing im making up stories. yung mga nilahad ko eh info from my yaya of 3 years. sabi nya nga ang private school duon sa kanila eh 500 a year. ang kuryente nila 80 pesos.
Pangalawa, yung pagkakasakit ng yaya, oo pwede mo hindi sagutin yun kung masama kang amo or kung marami kang options na mag alaga sa anak mo. Pero i know a lot of people who shoulder the medical expenses of their helper because they care and because it's so hard to find good help nowadays. Again, madali sabihin na wag bayaran if youre not in a situation na kailangang kailangan mo ng household help.
pangatlo, yung pamasahe nila, oo pwede mo din bayaran yun. pero based from experience ko at sa experience ng marami nating sis dito. often that not, hindi na babalik ang help unless padalhan mo ng pamasahe.
Pang apat, yung advance nila.. sa hirap maghanap ng yaya ngayon pag di mo pinag advance yan bukas makalawa malamang wala na yan sayo.
Haha yun lang. respect naman sa kanya kanyang opinion, di pwedeng sabihing hindi totoo dahil may basis naman ang sinasabi ng sisters natin dito. Hindi ko lang kasi talaga matangap na lagi nalang middle class ang talo sa government na to.
Peace ulit.
First of all - I'm not saying na gawa gawa mo lang ang mga ito.
What I am saying is BASED SA KASAMBAHAY LAW - walang mga ganyang details.
You are taking it out of context yung mga sinabi ko. I've read the KASAMBAHAY LAW over and over again to understand the details and WALANG sinasabing KAILANGAN mo gawin or bigyan yung mga iyon. Discretion yan ng mga amo. So if you do this and that, its a RISK that you have to take. And with that risk you took - its not fair to blame that law kung wala naman nakasaad sa law DAPAT mong gawin iyon..
Lahat ng mga sinabi mo is DISCRETION ng employer. Its not MANDATORY according to the law. If kayo, ganyan ang ginagawa niyo - wag niyong sisihin sa law na madaya or not.
Ang mga pagkakasakit ng kasambahay, i think we should shoulder BUT WITH LIMITATIONS. I mean, yung panganganak? Taking advantage na ata yun! Kelangan mo i-weigh kung worth it ba or hindi eh. Kasi in the end, kayo rin ang magsusuffer diba?
Regarding advances - ako, personally - hindi nagvavale or nagaadvance mga katulong ko. Kasi umpisa palang, sinasabi ko ng hindi ako nagpapa-advance. Kung kayo nag-papa-advance at nasanay ang mga katulong niyo - then decision niyo yun. Simple lang naman, lahat ng kilos or gawa may RISK and may consequence.
I think hindi tayo nag-kakaintindihan - ako kasi, based sa Kasambahay Law, ikaw based sa experience. If sa experience, then tama ka nga.. Maraming ganyang nangyayari. I can't argue with you since based pala sa personal experience.. Sorry sorry..

retroactive pala ang kasambahay bill!
is it my fault now that when i hired our yaya/helper a year ago she told me that she doesn't want to avail of sss, philhealth when i asked her? tapos i have to pay the penalties! *sigh*
i'm all for the kasambahays rights and benefits but i agree with most of the feedbacks here that the law isn't fair and wasn't thought of thoroughly by our lawmakers!
kawawa naman tayong mga working class, tsk tsk tsk!
You can agree with your yaya na bagong pasok lang siya para you don't need to shoulder the penalties. Ang problem mo lang diyan is IF yaya makes you sumbong.. so you really have to agree on this. as in solidly agree...
if I may add, kapag di mo pinautang yan kahit 1 beses, makakatulog ka ba ng mahimbing sa gabi, or makakapagtrabaho ka ba ng maayos, considering na pwedeng iniisip nya eh gawan ka ng masama or gantihan ka kasi di mo sya pinautang, di mo alam iniisip ng mga yan. kapag di mo pinagbigyan, most of the time, they will take it against you, feeling api.
Totoo yan na maguiguilty ka. I guess I'm very lucky na my helpers, never asked from me. Kasi umpisa palang i tell them straight na walang advance or vale. the best thing I can do is to give your salary every 2 weeks and that's it.
I guess I've learned from friends and relatives na nagpapa-advance ng sweldo na hindi nababayaran. Mahirap eh. Kasi walang assurance na pag nag-day off sila, babalik pa sila. So to protect myself, I had to do those things. I had to set boundaries. And I'm happy to tell you that these boundaries have worked. It's just all about getting the info on the table and practicing it. Totoong mahirap, nakakaguilty talaga but thing of it this way, you are protecting yourself din from future problems.
I had a yaya who stayed with me for 4 months lang. Ang reason niya for leaving is that hindi ako nag-papa-advance. Ok lang, wala naman sa akin yun e. I learned from my other yaya na she went back to her old employer, because that old employer paid for her pamasahe sa bakasyon niya. Alam niyo ba what happened? Well, this yaya never came back to work for her old employer. Wala, naging thank you nalang yung pamasahe. Nakakapikon diba? kasi nanloko pa ng tao para lang makapag-bakasyon.
Sis Sonia62 - wow! ang lakas naman ng loob to ask for a 1K increase?? what gave her the idea na pwede yon? grabe!! nashock ako ha!! WOW!
Sis - I appreciate that you understood both me and sis Project60 - na we both understood it differently. Thank you super!!
Sis Project60 - peace na tayo ha.. hahaha!! i based my opinion on the law itself kasi.. at least naliwanagan tayo ni sis sonia62...