^Go for the Shang! I'm bias when it comes to the Shangri-La. Aside from it's riverside location, I love their Chi Spa. The manager of the spa is a friend and an Air Force brat too like you. 
Ooh, really? Aww, we're all set sa The Pen already...can you PM me the mgr's info, baka know ko sya

(allowed ba dito? sorry di ko sure ha) The hubby doesn't wanna let go of the Rolls Royce harhar...all other hotels offer the benz n bmws...(why not go for the private chopper transfer?! haha...mas mahal pa sa buong bakasyon namin hahaha *dreaming lang*)
@sachism-thanks for the tip. The hotels I researched around the area were the shang & mandarin (this one IMO is OA sa mahal!)...the Four Seasons is at the sukhumvit area, not riverside...I found some other hotels named "Four Seasons" but they're not of the same hotel group. Kapangalan lang but boutique hotels and they look nice, too...
My itin:
DAY 1:
PR730 MNLBKK ETD1035 (good luck na lang sa flight delays)
ETA BKK 1300 airport transfer to the hotel
1530-1730 relax at ESPA (hotel spa)
1830 off to river city to check in for dinner cruise
1900-2130 chao phraya dinner cruise (Vday, how corny haha)
2130 back to the hotel
DAY 2:
0630-breakfast at the hotel
0800-1230 -city/temples/grand palace/emerald buddha private tour
1230-onwards lunch & shopping
1900-dinner at one of the shopping areas
DAY 3:
0630-breakfast at the hotel
0730-1700 full day floating market & thai cultural show at the rose garden (lunch included)
1800-dinner & gimmick night (any suggestions?)
DAY 4:
0800-breakfast at the hotel
1100-transfer from hotel to the airport
PR731 BKKMNL ETD 1400
ETA MNL 1820
All I need to research on are our dining options and for nights out.
