Husband needs space, ano gagawin nyo?

[meyzteryouzah]

^super agree ako dito sis

thanks sis!

[Kady_14]

Parang Hall Pass the movie. hehe

I'll ask him why, and i'll check din baka me pagkukulang ako or sobra. lol I'll ask him to reason out. If tama sya, I'll agree.

[freeswan]

dalawa lang yan eh. pwede humingi ng space to give way to cheat or space for him to clear his mind. as a partner, mage-gets mo na agad yan.

yung hall pass naman, parang you're giving your husband the license to hook up with someone. parang yan naman ata ang hindi ako papayag.

[beatrize zuri]

eh di bigyan ko sya ng space para makapag reflect din siya pero dapat may deadline para di ako waiting   

[issey]

give him the space he needed... [textspeak!] nga bang klaseng space gusto niya?? baka pang matagalan eh.... wag naman sana, seriously, maraming ibig sabihin pag sinabi mong space.... look into a deeper side, ano ba problema?? nasasakal na ba siya??? or what?? talk it over.... then give him what he want....

[iam.janedoe]

Patulugin mo sa sahig, malawak ang space. Babatukan ko siya! hehe hiwalay kung hiwalay. Minsan lang magsabi ang lalake ng ganyan sis. Mas OK na sabihin nyang busy siya kesa humingi siya ng space. Ano feeling niya sayo GF ka niya? Haler?!!!! Yan yung sinasabi ko before ako magpakasal, mas mahal ang magpaprocess ng annulment kesa sa magpaprocess ng papers sa wedding... Pakiramdaman mo sis. For me it's negative, sorry ha... Pero ikaw lang nakakaalam ng ugali niya,baka ngbibiro lang [sana...] 

[xiansmom]

space your face..bleehh...LOL
space lang pala e...sayong sayo lahat ng space.
uwe kami ni baby ng pinas
saya ko siguro nun...ewan ko nalang kong
uulitin nya pa arte nya..eh hindi papayag yun kapag di kami
samasama.

[rianne_mallows]

hmm... i'll tell him 
"for how long? i wont wait for you forever"


as simple as that
i will not make him stay if he doesnt love me anymore... we'll just suffer both

[simplyremz]

in our case naman mga sis, humingi sya ng time para makpagpahinga daw isip nya. we are not yet married. pero we've been together for 13 years na & planning na magpakasal next year.

torture ang bawat araw. ang hirap. kayo ba while nasa phase ng "space" si bf or hubby nyo, hindi kayo nagparamdam? hinintay nyo sya to reach out? kahit text like "kumusta ka na?" hindi pwede kasi baka mas makagulo lang?

[blue15]

when my hubby asked for space before i give him that space he needed, i do understand he was too exhausted sa work, and marrying too young with a baby coming up, plus the pressure din na we want to show everybody that we can work things out kahit maaga kaming nag asawa. well, he just have this relaxation thing no 3rd party involve, just purely want to get out at pansamantalang maka hinga sa maraming nakiki intra sa life namin, dahil wala silang tiwala na kaya namin.

[simply_wife]

^sis simplyremz, i experienced this before nung bf/gf palang kami ni hubby.. long distance relationship kasi kami.. he asked for a space para makapag-isip sya. madami kasing issues na dapat isettle, so pumayag ako.. masakit man, i never texted and called him para whatever be his decision, di ganun kasakit.. pinigil ko sarili kong itext sya.. but a few weeks later he started texting and calling me para mangumusta lang.. so i talked to him na parang friends lang.. but when the time na i went back to our province, when we met.. he embraced me. and when we talked he asked for my forgiveness, we both cried and continue our relationship until we got married.

tiisin mo muna sis, at least before kayo magpakasal, all will be cleared and settled di ba..
maglibang ka sis or focus yourself sa pagpapaganda para whatever will be his decision di na sya ganun kasakit sa'yo.


if OT please delete nalang po.

[simplyremz]

thanks sis simply_wife. halos parehas tayo ng nicks, parehas din na long distance relationship. i hope parehas ding happy ending..

pero how long kaya ako maghihintay? its been 11days since nong magkaron kami ng away & kahapon yung huling usap namin. mula nong mag away kami, that was oct14, tinawagan ko sya ng oct16, ang sabi nya non, mas mabuti na daw na ganun kami kesa maging paulit ulit yung pag aaway namin. then after that, i called him again kahapon, yun yung sinabi nya. 

i am really hoping na mas mangibabaw yung love namin para sa isat isa.. we've been through a lot. sana wag nyang basta basta itapon yun.. 

[snowberry]

Haay nagtataka lang ako sa mga married guys asking for space. Mag aasawa tapos expect nila pwedeng sabihan wife na uwi ka muna , I want some space kapag may problem. Tapos na bf -gf stage guys!!

[rianne_mallows]

hmmm... napag-isip isip ko lang.. pwede din na some hubbies need a breather lang.. may wives kasi na sobrang nagger.. kung sasalubungin nila yung galit, malaking gulo

[katrinac]

pero mga sis, i just got curious, ano nga ba ang dahilan kung bakit nanghihingi ng space ang isang tao? based kasi sa mga naririning ko na kwento from my friends, sometimes daw eto ang way na sinasabi na ayaw ko na... pero pinagandang term lang? i hope not.

[k_heart]

^Usually sis, nasasakal na. While others need time to think lang during that breather, pero saibang guys, it means that they need to break up na. Yes,pinagandang Ayaw ko na!

[katrinac]

thanks sis. 

OH NO, i don't want to hear those words from my H2b. baka mag explode ako.  thanks sis.
pero just in case na manyari sakin to, fine, i'll give him what he asks for. Pero dapat may time frame, di pwedeng forever, i need to know the reasons kung manghingi man sya.

[k_heart]

^Pero pag hiningi yan ng hubby ko sa akin or even sa yo sis, much better kung we will accept it with grace. Much better kung calm tayo. Yung tipong isaksak mo sa baga mo yung space mo (pertaining to my hubby and your hubby to be)and yes, they can have it.he!he! Mas nagtataka ang lalake pag calm lang ang babae kesa pag hysterical or galit din.

And yes tama ka, ask for the reason at kung ano ang time frame.
Pero may mga sis din tayo na nagsabi na pang mag bf/gf lang dapat ang ganito except kung grabe ang away ng mag asawa at breathing space ang kailangan ng isa't isa.

Kasi nga pag mag asawa dapat pinag uusapan ang problema at hindi yung "i need space" agad.

I think its a case to case basis sis!

At pag sinabi yan talaga ng hubby ko, na i need space, baka upakan ko kasi sobrang may space na kami dahil LDR kami. Kaya anong space ba ba ang need nya if ever? Outer space? ha!ha!

[katrinac]

k_heart thank you sis sa tip! minsan kasi ang hirap maging calm ano? pero tama ka dyan, dapat maging mysterious din tayo pag nag ask sya ng space. natawa ako sa post mo na: baka upakan ko kasi sobrang may space na kami dahil LDR kami. Kaya anong space ba ba ang need nya if ever? Outer space? ha!ha!   LOL

[k_heart]

^Ha!ha!ha! Oo sis noh,napaka diva naman ng hubby ko kung hihingi pa sya ng space, eh hindi na nga kami halos magkita dahil sa respective jobs namin.he!he! Kaya kaming 2 naman, eh mas sabik sa isa't isa na magkasama kesa magkahiwalay! : )
Basta sis, ang tip sa akin ng mga oldies, wag tutulog sa gabi na meron pang di pagkakaunawaan! : )

Tama sis,medyo mahirap maging calm pag galit  pero yan ang mas magandang strategy kasi mas nakakaasar.ha!ha!