Husband needs space, ano gagawin nyo?

[che2008]

Pag sinabi to ng husband nyo, ano gagawin nyo?

[honey_iya]

Eh di bigyan ng space,saan ba niya gusto pumunta? sa outer space?

Seriously, kasi kung pipigilan mo ikaw lang din masasaktan eh. Mas maganda yung makakapagisip muna siya ng malayo kayo sa isa't-isa. Pero huwag lang masyado umasa para di masyado masaktan,baka kasi bonggang-bonggang space na yung hinihingi niya

[isobel]

give him space but also give him a deadline. like a week. also, i would make it clear that space does not equate to license for infidelity. just to be clear in case that's what he wanted space for pala 

[smiley327]

then i'll give him space para makapag isip sya..pero wag masyado matagal at baka pati ako mag enjoy sa space na yan..haha joke 

[reese**]

^ natawa ako sayo sis hihi


correct, ibigay ang space - makakabuti sa inyong dalawa yun. minsan kasi need ng mga lalaking iyan na marealize ano ang mayroon sila. just be clear sa mga DONT's sa space ha :-)

[khakhaganda]

tama!

give him the space he wants and this is also an opportunity for you to enjoy yourself more

[simplyme28]

give him space by all means..

[hedonista]

last year he broke up with me, hindi pa kami kasal. he needs space daw. ako tong si ga**, kanda iyak iyak ayaw ko pumayag. pero wala ako nagawa. at tinanong ko pa, gaano katagal na space naman? (live in kasi kami and death ang araw araw na umuwi sa empty apartment. i ended giving up the apartment when totally break up na pala) after 3 weeks binalikan nya ko. ako si ga** oo sige open arms.

pero positive naman ang naidulot ng space na yun, narealize nya wala na sya mahahanap na katulad ko. nagdate sya ng mas bata...pero wala. ano gagawin nya sa mas bata, kelan pa magkakatrabaho yun katulad ko charing, and kelan pa sya magmamature at matututo magluto at mag alaga sa partner. LOL. ego booster lang po. party lang alam ng batang yun, he'll get exhausted.

in short nga nakabuti ang space so give lang pag hiningi.

[princessrio]

if hubby needs space, i'll give him space. guys have a tendency kasi na mas kinukulit, mas nagagalit at mas humahaba or lumalayo ang space na gusto.

[ishi90210]

hmm...nag-ask na din sya sakin nun pero pabiro lang naman (i think) what if daw if he asked for his space. sabi ko go ahead. sa labas sya. sabi ko kasi if he needs his space wala akong problema basta sa bahay ako ang uuwi, hanap kako sya ng uuwian. hihi! ayun natakot siguro maging homeless kaya hindi na nag-ask ulit.

basta bigyan nyo lang ng space. nasa sa inyo na din yan kung merong ground rules yun "space" na ibibigay. for me kasi, useless ang isang relationship kung yung isa feeling nya eh nasasakal na sya.

[pmartini]

when he asked for it, we plan it ahead of time and hindi biglaan para i won't be stuck at home with dark thoughts we he might be
uhm..  we  practice "me time or space" at yung a moment or week to ourselves. it's much healthier sa relationship namin and super sarap ng feeling when u meet again, parang very refreshed..  i normally ask it from him, hindi si hubby hehe..

[che2008]

Hi sis hedonista, as in wala kayong usap sa 3 weeks na yun? Thanks

[ecnarfoj]

Kung hihingi ng space ang asawa ko... pagbibigyan ko talaga.. hindi lang naman siya ang may gusto ng space... so I'll take the opportunity para mag-isip-isip din.

Actually regalo ko nga sa kanya sana nung birthday niya ay space.. yung space naman kasi na gusto niya is yung parang retreat. Tipong isang weekend lang. papayag siguro ako isang linggo pero I doubt na tatagal yun ng wala kami ng anak niya.

[sistah_mom]

pagbibigyan ko siya. i guess ako din kailangan ko ang space pag dumating na kami sa situation na ganyan before pa lumala ang problema namin.

[southpaw]

Sis che2008, have you watched the movie Hall Pass? Or maybe the more relevant question is has your husband watched it? Check it out.

 I agree with the sisses here, give him the space he wants, you can use that space too to reflect on what's going on around you.

[hedonista]

Hi sis hedonista, as in wala kayong usap sa 3 weeks na yun? Thanks

Yes but prior to 3 weeks i exhausted all my efforts kasama na pagpunta sa bahay nila at nag mamakaawa magbalikan na kami on the first week na hiwalay kami.

I gave him that space I closed my fb account i didnt want to know how happy he was. i gave time to myself, i exfoliate, prettify. i moved to a bedspace across our office building. i work work work. one day after 3 weeks he texted me ask me where i was. and yun na nga nakipagbalikan sya

[mstina]

Hay nako sis i dont want to be pessimistic but my husband kept asking for space pero may iba na pala siya. Im not saying this is the same for you pero this was what happened to us. We're separated now. Hiwalay na din sila nung kabit niya. Serves him right!!

[meyzteryouzah]

If he said he needs space, give it to him without questions, make him feel you're not bothered, the more na maghahabol ka kasi, the more na he'll take you for granted.

after that, give yourself some pampering, magpaganda ka, mag gym! you'll be okay.

[mstina]

^super agree ako dito sis

[snooky]

Hay nako sis i dont want to be pessimistic but my husband kept asking for space pero may iba na pala siya.

Take note of this example sis.

Try to analyze muna if he needs "space" para sa 3rd party. Dangerous waters ang ganitong situation and you have to maneuver it carefully. He might want space to have a smoother transition sa kanyang kabit.

pero kung 110% sure ka na loyal sya sayo, bigyan mo ng space he asks.