Is it better to be Physically Attractive or Intelligent?

[viellemacey]

^what's butete?

[joongie]

Intelligence. Looks will fade with time. 

[sophia_heartfilia]

Intelligent and at least decent looking. I really love somebody I can talk too anything under the sun until we get old. Physical attractive will soon fade and  can sometime cause a headache to most women...

I agree with you sis

[rychel07]

intelligence is way better. i know people na puro muka and walang utak na hindi tinatagalan ng mga jowa. at may couples din na magugulat ka sa pictures why they're together, but pag nakilala mo sila and you talk to them often you'll understand why they clicked. ang looks kasi exciting lang sa una and eventually kasi you'll get bored and frustrated in the company of someone with an empty brain.

[iam.janedoe]

Both. 

[mischa04]

nice pov's.. Imo, dapat equally balance..like if you know that you're super attractive, make some effort na magamit or mautilize ang brain wag hayaang kinakalawang.. Kung you're super intelligent naman, make effort din to look good like kahit maging presentable lagi para di mukang kinakalawang..

If i have to choose naman, Intelligence me kasi iba pa rin yung may sense ka when you speak and work, madali na iimprove ang sarili nowadays para maging attractive saka when you get older your intelligence stays, unlike pag attractive lang.. turn off pag nagsalita tapos walang sense, yung manghihinayang ka kasi ang ganda tapos engot naman..marami nga admirer pero hanggang dun nalang ang iadmire kasi wala ka na ibang mapala sa kanila, pang front lang or 'yung tipong pangkama lang daw', yoko naman maging ganon lang diba..saka pag tumanda na for sure magfade din ang ganda kaya magpapaalter din..mag seek din ng help sa doctor para maging maganda pa rin.. o di gumamit pa ng siyensya na gawa ng matatalino hahaha.. naisip ko lang.

[mishyewarians]

Intelligence of course..   looks will fade!

[young_maiden]

Beauty. Makukuha mo agad ang mga gusto sa konting effort lang.

[franc1sgmp]

I'm a guy and for me, i'd prefer someone who's physically attractive over someone who's intelligent. delikado ang matalinong babae lalo na pagka nging overly attached.


on the other hand, ayoko din naman ng magandang tipong pang aliw lang. i really dont have any benchmark except this: im very particular about one's manner of speech. she should be polite but not obsequious. her diction should be smooth and pleasant.

and pagka nagmumura, ayoko ng matigas ang dila. she should use swear words it with finesse. unfortunately, very limited yung pagpipilian pagka ganyan. 

[mischa04]

@franc1sgmp, bakit pano ba ma-attach ang matatalino?
pag nagmura ba dapat malambing pa rin? Marami ka choice sa call center na maganda diction at may finesse naman siguro..hehe..

[~lovesick~]

mas gusto ko yung intelligence, kasi it's a good investment. as they say looks may fade as time goes by but being intelligent is what completes your personality.

[franc1sgmp]

@ hirap explain, pero siguro ang sinasabi ko lang, mas madaling patahimikin at pasunurin ang timawa kesa sa may utak. 

ayoko ng ganung english. ang gusto kong english yung tipong atenista/lasalista/assumptionista. yung bang, lahat ng salita english pero na-aasinan ng mga tagalog words like "na", "lang", "eh" and "si" 

[Alucard]

Pwede both? well, If i have to choose I want to be Intelligent. Yung tipong hindi ako masasabihan ng b0b0 at t@nga..

[mischa04]

@ mas gusto mo pala yung nauuto at sumu-surrender na lang..hahah.. and mga coño pala yung tinutukoy mo.. exacto, match na match..

[franc1sgmp]

Bakit hindi. mas madali buhay pagka ganun. i guess im just trying to avoid unecessary stress whenever its possible.


ako naman eh, hanggang salita lang ako.

pambihira!. kung magkaka gf ako ng atenista o lasalista, ano ipapakain ko dun?

  maganda mangarap at tumingin, pero behind this game of love especially amongst the students of our nation's most exclusive schools, is an economics that not very many people appreciate.

parang ano yan... parang i-phone 4s na napulot mo sa kalye. hindi mo pwedeng i-prepaid at hindi mo rin pwedeng saksakan ng Sun sim. Kelangan globe platinum, otherwise hindi sustainable. Or parang sa kotse. Mayroon akong nakitang billboard ng Audi A1 sa may tapat ng ATC. sabi nung billboard only 25,000 pesos a month. oo nga, pero yung gas nun, yung maintenance nun, yung spare parts nun etc etc.

i guess that is the key word: sustainability! so, try as i might to dream, ehhh mahirap yan. 

[mischa04]

@ from phone to car..hehe.. hindi kaya ayaw mo lang na mas intelligent yung girl sa'yo?

Tama ka dyan sis Girltalker2

[Mommy•Shey]

Gusto ko yung Intelligent na tao, pero pleasing din naman sana ang pagmumuka  . Yung tipong hindi naman mukang busabos hehe!

[ecnarfoj]

lahat naman tayo gusto natin pareho - matalino na, maganda pa.
Pero ang tanong is kung ano ang sa tingin mong better - matalino or yung attractive.

Sa intelligence pa rin ako.

Hindi naman porket matalino eh hindi mo na mapapasunod. Mas bilib ako sa lalaking kayang magpasunod ng matalino dahil ibig sabihin tama ang mga diskarte niya.

Sabe nga nila, mas maingay ang latang walang alam... so pag di ka naintidihan ng attractive na walang alam, tatalak at tatalak din yan.

Kung gusto lang magpasunod, kumuha ka na lang ng doll.

[mischa04]

lahat naman tayo gusto natin pareho - matalino na, maganda pa.
Pero ang tanong is kung ano ang sa tingin mong better - matalino or yung attractive.

Sa intelligence pa rin ako.

Hindi naman porket matalino eh hindi mo na mapapasunod. Mas bilib ako sa lalaking kayang magpasunod ng matalino dahil ibig sabihin tama ang mga diskarte niya.

Sabe nga nila, mas maingay ang latang walang alam... so pag di ka naintidihan ng attractive na walang alam, tatalak at tatalak din yan.

Kung gusto lang magpasunod, kumuha ka na lang ng doll.


Nice one natawa naman ako sa doll parang mangkukulam lang..hehe.. But good point.

[pinkadelic]

the thing with intelligence is that it is, for the most part, acquired. how we look, on the other hand, is not something we have control over (and i mean naturally). therefore, i'd pick the latter, para naman maranasan ko sa buhay ko kung paano maging maganda. haha, just kidding. masarap lang to play around with different ideas with regard to the whole beauty vs brains debate.

i agree with the op, each one has its advantages in life. in terms of relationships though (since it's on the Looking for Love forum hehe), it's how a guy carries himself that ultimately triggers my attraction to him. kahit hindi conventionally gwapo ang isang lalaki, if he exudes confidence, maaaring siya na ang pinaka poging lalaki sa paningin ko. neither does intelligence guarantee good conversation. he can have all these smart ideas inside his head, but can he communicate them well? gwapo/matalino nga, pero maganda ba ugali? there's just so many things to consider, depende na lang kung ano ang type ng tao.