What makes a girl BORING?

[toinks.toinks]

boring if she's not updated in any news, world or even local. puro showbiz and telenovela lang, especially koreanobela

[FOURever]

Wag din kalimutang boring kasi yung date nya. Usually yung girl ang napapansin pero sa totoo lang, deep inside bored na bored na sya sa walang kasense sense nyang date.

[lady_avoidant]

pag paulit ulit na ata yung pinaggagawa, ni ta topic, routine na kumbaga  kaya.

naku.. i am worried tuloy kasi baka nagiging boring na rin ako sa bf ko..  available kasi ako lagi sa kanya..hihi pag di kami magkasama e nagtatawagan din kami.. takot akong maging too predictable na sa kanya leading to boredom..

[sugardrop]

A girl bored in her relationship or with her date then becomes boring.

[J_Law]

i asked bf about this and eto exactly ang sagot nya..

"girls become boring if they dont like what their guys do (basketball, vid games, etc)

haha! buti na lang flexible ako, ayaw ko naman mafeel na boring ako for him. )

[simang]

A girl is boring to a guy who doesn't 'get' her.

Most of you here said na a girl is boring pag walang hobbies, etc. i highly disagree. A guy may find a woman boring kapag hindi nya nasasakyan yung trip nya. For example, a girl who's hobbies include poetry reading, cross stitching, etc may be boring to a guy who likes the outdoors. Given that the girl has actually interesting hobbies, possible na boring pa din sya sa paningin ni guy.

[berryblitz]

Yung minahal ko ng todo na bf, he dumped me because i guess one of the reasons is i am boring.  How boring i am to him?

- tagalog is cheap.  I am not an english speaker.  Bobo ako sa english.  He speaks english kahait matigas dila nya.  Ako i speak tagalog.  I just learned to speak straight english nung nagkaron na ako ng anak, and nung nagstart ako sa online shop because of foreigner buyers.

- i like to watch tagalog movies.  Ano bang meron sa pinoy at marami ang hindi and finds all tagalog movies cheap.  Ako nga chinese eh.

- the way i wear clothes.  Well late bloomer ako.  And you can call me weird and nerd on mu high school days.  Nung college i am still tagged as nerd.  Programming kasi course ko an i am one of those who loves programming so much.  During work and dates, i always wear black slacks and boots.  My bf finds me so boring.  Hindi talaga ako marunong manamit.  Pero teka, before nya ako ligawan, ganun na ako manamit, so anong problem nya.

- i only have time for him once a week.  Or twice a week. Kulang ba ito?  Work ko monday to saturday.  Buong sunday ko binibigay ko sa kanya.  Nagtatampo na nga parents ko eh.  Siya is bumalik sa pagiging student.  So yung girl classmates nya may time manuod ng movie and dine out with him.


And so i tried to change my self.  From nerd and weird to boring to hmmm no so boring?  Pero pag may asawa na ang girl like me now.  Hobbies?  Ever since i don't hace a hobby.  I paly computer games like starcraft, diablo and the likes.  Yan ang hobby ko.  Own set of friends. Well okay.  Lahat ng yan, if you got kids and lalo na baby to take care, yang hobby hobby and set of friends na yan, maisasantabi mo yan and it's a normal thing.  Your husband would really hate you seeing his wife doing his hobby, or prefers to out out with his friends, while she have a husband and kids to take care of. And pati yung earning money pa pala.  He would love it if his wife would help him earn money ibstead of doing her hobby. 

[stebsy]

Pag walang sense of humor.

[lynn wolf]

Tahimik sobra, makwento ng problema nya sa sarili, walang common ground (malamang boring din ako sa kanya) at walang sense of humor.

[nixiquita]

im a girl but imo having so sense of humor is my top criteria for being a boring girl.

also those with no sense of adventure and having no opinion or atleast being too timid to voice em out

and girls who are too safe and routine-ary.

also those who plans every single thing. and has no room for any kind of surprise, mistake, unexpected things or impulsive acts

[Cluelesschx]

A girl (as a girlfriend or as a friend) gets so boring when she becomes "I" corporation. Talks of nothing else but herself

[mc21]

...Walang Sense kausap
...Walang Sense of Humor

[CodeRed]

too much drama.

"why so serious?"

laging umaagree

ayaw makipag.argue/debate

di kayang sakyan ang trip mo kahit sakay na sakay ka sa trip nya (give n take lang)

[zarazan]

Having no common interest with a girl doesn't make HER BORING. It makes you incompatible.

I think what makes a girl boring is when she can't hold convo with someone. Sabihin na natin mahiyain, pero iba ang mahiyain sa walang masabi. I am an introvert, pero I am a great conversationalist daw pag one on one. Also pag di rin nakikisama in terms of tawanan. Kahit konting giggle lang. HAHA

[blisstacy]

interesting sociological topic... hanging with friends etc... and not just dating I've always wondered about this too. 

As I observe old couples(my parents or or other relatives na couples), I don't believe there is such a thing as a boring person.
Siguro incompatible or lack of chemistry/connection lang.
Imagine if you have to spent your lifetime with someone...
may point talaga na mawawalan kayo ng paguusapan or wala ng time or money to try something new or be romantic.
But, they don't get bored with each other.  Kahit na hindi masyado naguusap or tahimik nalang at the end of the day...
Important is they accept and understand each other.  Depende rin kasi sa tao eh...
may taong gusto naguusap at dun siya natutuwa... yung iba gusto magrelax tahimik lang...

or pag sa crush niyo... kahit wala naman pinaguusapan at nagtitigan lang kayo tingin ko masaya ka na =))

The same thing with friends...  May mga hindi mo kavibes and sa aura palang hindi na kayo click pero meron naman na enjoy mo company nila kahit ano pa gawin niyo.

[mischa04]

Now i know kung pano hindi maging boring.. 
For me boring kapag can't carry a good conversation, important kasi yun..

[zeroone]

a YES Girl is BORING..

someone who never bothers to start an argument or avoids it. someone who can't speak her mind or there's barely anything there in her mind at all.

[lalaloopsy]

IMO,  no one is really boring if a person is truly interested in you.  He or she will find ways to bring out the fun and talkative side of the person they like!

[magno4]

parehas din sa guys yan e, kung medyo hambog ang dating ng guys sa girls, meron ding girls na hambog din ang dating sa guys kaya boring na sha makipag conversation pag ganun, nasa modernong panahon na tayo kaya dapat parehas kayo open minded para lumalim ang communications nyo..

[projectgora]

Depende yan sa trip ng guy. And compatibility and chemistry follows.

May experience kasi ako sa ibang guys na sheeeet, wala ako masabi sa kanya kasi feeling ko magkaiba kami ng mga pananaw at trip sa buhay. May croo-crooo moments. Usually I get intimidated by him. Meron naman na tuloy tuloy ang usap na di talaga mauubusan ng masasabi at gagawin. That makes me animated.



Sa ganyan case kasi may mga tao talaga (kahit hindi guys eh) na feel ko, mabobore sa akin kasi wala kaming something in common at meron naman mga matutuwa kasi same wavelength.

agree ako dito sis, may naka date ako na sobrang magkaiba talaga kami. different set of friends, different likes in music. kapag lumalabas kami, hindi nawawala ang moment of silence. minsan nag pepeople watch na lang sa sobrang walang mapag usapan.