What makes a girl BORING?

[Hanna1]

boring nga ang girl if oo lang ng oo[walang opinion]

---pero hindi naman siguro magiging boring dating ng hindi makwento/serious na girl if love talaga siya ng guy,., as long as love nila ang isa't isa. okay na. kahit hindi magkasundo basta't nagkakaintindihan. some girls are talagang introverted lang talaga. rare nga., kasi ibang girls ngayon pinipilit magpakadown-to-earth dahil sa peer pressure. yung iba lang ha

Introverts
-are interested in their own thoughts and feelings
-need to have own territory
-often appear reserved, quiet and thoughtful
-usually do not have many friends
-have difficulties in making new contacts
-like concentration and quiet
-do not like unexpected visits and therefore do not make them
-work well alone

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[jojo2978]

BORING --- persons who always use the first person point of view... i.e. I, me.

[franc1sgmp]

i think nagiging boring lang ang tao kung wala kayong shared experience. Bakit ang Sekyu pati ang Chimay nagkakasundo, o di kaya ang Pari/Madre. I guess it's all about shared experiences. Kung na-bo-boring kayo sa ka-date or sa kausap nyo, i guess its an indication that both of you are not on the same level.  hmm. 

[ButHonestly]

Question is, does it matter? Would you let it matter enough for you to deliberately fail to see the rest of whatever you are still sharing in whatever kind of relationship youre into?

Everybody gets boring. Eventually.

"Plato was a bore."-- by Friedrich Nietzsche

[krnmprl]

someone is boring if in general he/she is incapable of talking about something other than what she wants/needs/owns/achieved.  or kapag walang healthy sense of humor (no ability to laugh at oneself). or walang curiousity.

[franc1sgmp]

Question is, does it matter? Would you let it matter enough for you to deliberately fail to see the rest of whatever you are still sharing in whatever kind of relationship youre into?

Everybody gets boring. Eventually.

"Plato was a bore."-- by Friedrich Nietzsche

i think you make a very good point.  ngayon naisip ko, ang dami dami kong nakikitang mga 50 y/o na kano and 20+ na pinay na mag-shota. what they talk about (if  there is, at all) is beyond me but for some reason, they still manage to float their boat 

[Anne101]

naku baka boring nga ako kaya wala pa rin ako bf pero sabi naman ng iba intelligent at masarap daw ako kausap... (sigh)

[weweng20]

NONSENSE GIRL !

[cristyles]

I think nagiging boring na ang isang girl kung wala nang spark yung feelings para sa isa't isa. Pero sa palagay ko rin na normal lang minsan makaramdam na boring ang girl lalo na kung naubusan na ng topic hehe!

[ButHonestly]

i think you make a very good point.  ngayon naisip ko, ang dami dami kong nakikitang mga 50 y/o na kano and 20+ na pinay na mag-shota. what they talk about (if  there is, at all) is beyond me but for some reason, they still manage to float their boat 

We often linger on what's not there anymore that we fail to see what's still there right on our face. Instead of asking what makes a girl boring, why not ask, what makes a girl STILL INTERESTING?

Could be the conversations part. The movie-watching part. The you-can-still-count-on-each-other part. Could be the sex part.

[franc1sgmp]

yes, you make a good point ^_^

[The Vow]

Doing nothing during idle moments!!

[ann08]

A person is boring when that person doesnt have a mind of his or her own. Laging nakadepende sa iba, di makapag decide para sa sarili. Gumagaya lang sa iba. Laging " di ko alam, ikaw saan mo gusto? okay lang ang sagot everytime na tinatanong sila. That for me is boring!

ano gusto mo panoorin, " ewan ko, ikaw? ano gusto mo panoorin? ( I want a date, not an echo!") mas gugustuhin ko na lang na makipag usap sa sarili at baka makapag decide pa ako on my own.

gusto mo na ba kumain? " (shrugs), ikaw!" sige, kakain ako, at panuorin mo lang ako!

ano uunahin natin gawin? " ikaw?" sige, puntahan muna natin ang ganito " wag! yung ano muna." duh!! tinanong ka,  tapos binalik mo lang tanong ko, ngayon nag decide ako.. ayaw mo. diyan ka na nga! maghiwalay na tayo


pag date pa lang ganyan na, wala ng 2nd date yan for me. I dont want a spineless date.di makapag decide? jeez! di ka mapapaglaban niyan. Mabilis ako mawalan ng gana. Kung simpleng saan mo gusto kumain eh, walang masabi at naka depende sa iyo.. ano pag uusapan niyo? nakadepende rin sa akin ang topic ng pag uusapan? baka gusto niya ako na ang lahat gumawa! ako na lang sana nakipag date sa sarili ko di ba? Baka ma enjoy ko pa na mag isa, kaysa may kasama nga na walang masabi kundi " ikaw" parang robot na isang word lang ang naka program " ikaw?" then, might as well date myself and have fun!

ano ba to prang naiimagine ko naman. pero diba you're trying to get your guy's opinion kaya nag tatanong ka ng ikaw? hehe baka naman kasi di nya trip yung trip nung girl? minsan kasi may napipilitan lang din kaya gusto lang din gawin yung sinasabi nung isa? may sense pa ko. lol :/

[Jon24]

Being too conservative. Guaranteed boring!

[ladychris17]

^^ my bf is somehow like that sa movies and dates, but not because he doesn't have a mind of his own, rather, he prefers to have it my way as long as what I want is reasonable.

then, there are also conservative men who prefer conseravative women.

So comes the previous point made in this thred, that there are no boring people. Just boring relationships. It all boils down as to what we expect, what we want, and then what the other person turns out to want, and expect.

[featlylady]

What makes a person boring I guess is his or her inability or lack of effort and interest to relate to someone in any level may it be emotionally, intellectually/academically. It's more of trying one's best to communicate and relate to other people that makes him/her interesting, on the other hand being self-centered like my boyfriend (yuck, bitter! LOL) makes him reaaaaaaaally boring at times 

[aquacharly]

IMO:
            needy = boring
            "bahala ka" madalas sagot =  boring
           
           

[labandera]

nice topic, dami ko natutunan... siguro kung ano din ang boring for guys ay yun din ang boring for some girls,  dati may nakakadate ako na super nakakabore kasi puro "professions of love" naman ang alam lang nyang sabihin, nung una keri ko pa i thought maybe that he was just being sweet at gusto nya lang talaga sabihin yun, pero nung pangalawa, pangatlo na...gusto ko ng kumuha ng plastic kasi nasusuka na ko...di ko na matake kasi parang o.a na talaga.
although i saw his fb at yun nga mukang nakahanap na ng katapat  he seems happy dahil puro iloveyou-han at youre my world & everything ek ek ang laman ng wall nila.

[Tootsie31]

^funny 

Si bf minsan tahimik tapos ako na ang dadaldal. Pero minsan sinasadya ko ring tumahimik para turn na nyang magsalita naman. Palitan lang. Haha

Feeling ko boring/kj ako pag hindi ako makasama sa lakad ni bf tapos gusto nya akong isama.

[geekybride]

Being too conservative. Guaranteed boring!

someone is boring if in general he/she is incapable of talking about something other than what she wants/needs/owns/achieved.  or kapag walang healthy sense of humor (no ability to laugh at oneself). or walang curiousity.

my thoughts as well...agree with you two. but, in my case, i think this applies to men as well...