What makes a girl BORING?

[gylbie]

okay di naman pala ako boring... hahaha.. mapang alaska lang pala [textspeak!] ako! hahahaha

[craziestqueenever]

Boring girl =

- No hobbies
- no personal set of friends
- no opinions in life

just a few off the top of my head

Natamaan naman ata ako! Just kidding. Wala lang talaga akong hobby na mapagkakaabalahan. but I do have naman sets of friends and I do have too many opinions in Life.

[rosela]

and THIS.

Does that mean you won't like a girl just because she's not opinionated. there are other's who do have opinions but with incorrect reasons,sila yung mga taong para may masabi lang, just so they opine, they're just blabber.

[rosela]

i was referring to the the no opinions in life here... just my 2 cents.

[Jon24]

Does that mean you won't like a girl just because she's not opinionated. there are other's who do have opinions but with incorrect reasons,sila yung mga taong para may masabi lang, just so they opine, they're just blabber.

hmmm. good point, sis. it made me check merriam-webster. according to webster, opinionated means unduly adhering to one's own opinion or to preconceived notions.  more like dogmatic and conceited in a single package. so my answer is no, i won't like opinionated girls.

i think "no opinions in life" here means walang "say" or "stand" sa mga bagay bagay. which means, walang alam. opinions, of course, are formed when you know at least a little about something so that you could place yourself in a certain position. if you know nothing, you wouldn't be able to say something (about anything) that makes sense to the person you're talking to. might as well talk to a fish. luckily though, there's an abundant supply of smart girls, especially here in FN. LOL!

[spartan]

^yes this is what I meant

Di naman opinionated, pero meron naman opinions in life. Yung ibang girls kasi sabay nalang sa agos and don't take stands and walang 'say'. Parang D-u-h

[rosela]

hmmm. good point, sis. it made me check merriam-webster. according to webster, opinionated means unduly adhering to one's own opinion or to preconceived notions.  more like dogmatic and conceited in a single package. so my answer is no, i won't like opinionated girls.

i think "no opinions in life" here means walang "say" or "stand" sa mga bagay bagay. which means, walang alam. opinions, of course, are formed when you know at least a little about something so that you could place yourself in a certain position. if you know nothing, you wouldn't be able to say something (about anything) that makes sense to the person you're talking to. might as well talk to a fish. luckily though, there's an abundant supply of smart girls, especially here in FN. LOL!

ok. that makes it clear

[Marquita]

boring sa akin ang babae kung panay ang suklay at tingin sa salamin parang hello wala ka na bang alam na gawin? 

heyyyy i do this, but i have dreams and priorities and opinions and i act on them. so what does that make me? haha

[spartan]

^that makes you awesome sis!

admirin'

[hotchokey]

so boring ako? hindi kasi ako pala kwento..may circle of friends naman ako kahit papaano..  pag may events may trabaho ako gaya bukas may events..kaso pag wala full time estudyante..hmm

[Paulo]

To add to the stuff the guys have mentioned already, I'd say it has something directly to do with her personality. Like if she has nothing interesting to say, and nothing interesting from her to look forward to. If by being with her it's just about Existing and not Living a Life. At least, to have something nice/smart that's worth thinking of say, 2 weeks from the time she said it.


^Hotchokey,

I don't think the stuff you mentioned can be categorized as boring just by them and them alone. What you mentioned are stuff that makes your life one that revolves around a routine. Which isn't really bad at all but simply "Practical". Maybe one that focuses on a certain degree of dedication. A person doesn't have to be a jet-setter to have interesting stories to tell. Nor does a girl have to have collection of jokes to be funny. If your work, school, and everything in-between give you something worthwhile to share, and you share it Interestingly enough, then you won't be a bore.

But even if you've been to Paris two days ago, wrestled with a Great White last weekend, own 36 D-Cups, but are Bland beyond that, then I guess .... except for the 36 D-Cup you can't expect us to be interested in what you have to say. Right?

[hotchokey]

hmmm... yeah

[Marquita]

what i can say is.

the normal nerd girl may not be as interesting for some but she special to someone else because she might be the only one who understands that someone.

a somewhat hot blonde girl may be the most interesting girl in the world for some and for some she's as shallow as a mud puddle who can't hold a decent conversation.

[marion0106]

this actually depends on the type of girl a specific type of guy likes. we all have naman our own preferences on the qualities we want a girl to have. but siguro for me a girl could be boring if she has no interests or hobbies (to which i think is impossible) and doesn't totally involve herself with her surroundings. Pero this boringness from a girl could also pose naman some challenge to us guys kasi we could try to get you out of your shell.

[guytalker]

compatibility is the key... kung incompatible kayo, dun nyo mararamdaman na boring kayo pareho o boring ang partner mo... compatibility does not mean na kailangan pareho kayo ng gusto, hilig, opinion etc... compatibility means nasasakyan mo sya at nasasakyan ka nya sa mga bagay na gusto nyong gawin...

[Jon24]

^that makes a lot of sense.

[simplyme28]

i guess BORING is not the issue here.. its how the couple handle each other's relationship.. sabi nga ni guytalker.. compatibility is the key.. nagiging boring lang ang girls sa paningin nyo pag hindi kayo interested sa kanila..  but if you love the girl.. kahit sya na ang pinakaBORING na tao sa mundo does it still matters?

[hedonista]

too much togetherness? maybe. pag alam na nya routine mo pati oras ng pagjebs mo alam na nya. boring na sya. guy will start to chat or try to know another girl who will excite him. where he can put his best foot forward. kahit ang girl alam ang routine ni guy pati tono ng utot nya, hindi sya mabobore, kasi mahal nya and dun na nakasentro buhay nya while the guy, needs the spark. kasali yun para di boring relationship. saka yung sex parang mechanical na lang, boring na yung babae nun.

[Bridgette.]

^ Haha. Exactly! Have you already experienced it? And uh.. any idea how to avoid? LOL

[hedonista]

^ Halu sis Bridgette! Nako oo naexperience ko na yan. Last year, he broke up with me. We live together for 3 years na noon. I feel na boring na ko sabi nya wala nang spark. Sa isip ko, bili ko ng maraming kwitis? lol. And may nag advise sa akin, do the things that made him fall in love with you. I listed everything! as in. Nakilala ko ulit sarili ko. I discovered that he fell in love because I am different than his exes na maarte at model model type. Cowboy ako, may sense of humor, at higit sa lahat hindi BORING. 3 weeks apart ibinalik ko yung dating ako nun una kami nagkakilala. Binalikan nya ko. As for sex, I watched a lot of porn, kasi baka napurol na rin kaalaman ko or di na ko updated. since live in kami noon boring na talaga kasi lagi sa apartment. alam ko na kung kelan lalaki butas ng ilong nya pag nagc*m sya. LOL. so when we got back together, hindi nya alam san ko sya dadalhin, nagulat sya, nag mot mot kami, It was my idea. THEN THE KWITIS EXPLODED, balik ang spark!!!

How to avoid??? - REINVENT, everytime. bawal losyang. true rin yung attitude minsan na be your husband's mistress. EXCITE him everyday. GULATIN mo kahit sa simpleng bagay lang. ako kahit ulam nya ginagawan ko ng kagagahan like yung tocino i'll chop it para makagawa ng smiley sa plato nya then breakfast in bed pag bukas nya sa plato matatawa na sya then he'll kiss me na lang. WOW sa SPARK noh. wag tamarin mag oral at umariba sa sexy time nyo.

bow. yan lang po. hope this will help hehe