Any good men around?

[onilord]

There are good men around. However, these are the ones a lot of girls consider "just friends".

It's like a vicious cycle - girl falls for a bad boy, bad boy breaks her heart, good man is there for the girl, girl sees her as a shoulder to cry on and a good friend, good man is not very vocal or obvious as to how he feels for her, another bad boy comes along, girl falls for the bad boy, and the girl is then "just friends" with the good man.

...and then the good guy decided to join the club

yeah, very sad but true..

[winkypops]

meron pa naman kaya lang mahirap hanapin at ang iba taken na haha

[sexykha]

Hoping that there's still one and not only looking for 'sex'

[sarah29]

Meron pa, at marami pa.

Pero bago tayo maghanap ng matinong lalake, kelangan magsimula saten yun. Kung tayo mismo hinde matino, then walang magkakagustong matinong lalake saten.

For me, focus muna sa sarili dapat. Mahalin muna sarili and be the kind person you want to date. Eventually dadating din yan..

[annd]

^ true. be the kind of person you want to date. =)

ako, lahat ng friends ko na lalake, lahat sila walang balls. meron lang akong isa na napatunayan ko na meron balls. yung lalakeng yun, 10 years na sila ng gf nya, at ikakasal na sila ngayon. never sya nagkaroon ng babae at sobrang faithful nya.

[sacred cow]

^ a man is only as faithful as his options

[onilord]

^
In my opinion, a man can be faithful despite of the options..

 

[sacred cow]

^ of course kaya, what I meant was mas madali maging faithful kung lacking or wala talagang ibang option si guy

[zenzaihai]

joining.


Yes, I believe that there are good guys out there. But some women prefer jerks. And who knows why. But usually the good men around are those that are stuck in the friendzone. Women kasi always have this perceive perfect guy kaya nagiging choosy sila. Usually kasi he's a good guy pero di daw guwapo kaya ayun ayaw na daw nila.

[sugardrop]

Being faithful is a choice, whether or not a man has other options. There could be endless options out there and ano yun, gora ka na lang ng gora dahil madami kang options?

That reasoning is precisely why a lot of women no longer think there are still good men around.

[tamera_lorraine]

wala na yatang good men...

most of them taken na.

[chichi143]

Being faithful is a choice, whether or not a man has other options. There could be endless options out there and ano yun, gora ka na lang ng gora dahil madami kang options?

That reasoning is precisely why a lot of women no longer think there are still good men around.

I agree. I overheard 2 guys from our team talking about how men would always want to look for 'a better wife, better girlfriend, better everything.' I told them that not all guys are that. They got back to me by telling me , I don't know better. But at the back of my mind I know they are just a percentage of men who does not know how to be contented or maybe haven't been smitten by a girl.

[argento]

Hoping that there's still one and not only looking for 'sex'

all men looks for sex.

[simang]

^agree, even the nicest man who's so into pursuing you is still thinking about having sex with you sooner or later.

You just have to filter the ones worthy.

[sexykha]

^oh well, not to the point that on the first meeting sex agad
and i agree @simang that we just have to filter the ones worth it

[Giri]

There are good men around. However, these are the ones a lot of girls consider "just friends".

It's like a vicious cycle - girl falls for a bad boy, bad boy breaks her heart, good man is there for the girl, girl sees her as a shoulder to cry on and a good friend, good man is not very vocal or obvious as to how he feels for her, another bad boy comes along, girl falls for the bad boy, and the girl is then "just friends" with the good man.

I really don't believe in this girl falls for a bad boy. Maybe the bad boy is good looking. Would a girl fall for a bad boy na nga pangit pa?

[slickchick]

^ natawa naman ako sis --> bad boy na nga pangit pa... hahaha! wala man lang redeeming factor... 

[jainacute]

walang good guys.. iyong mga good looking guys, guys din ang gusto.

pag meron mang good looking guys daming girlfriend = (

[whitebishop]

ultimately, we accept the love we think we deserve.

[sugardrop]

I really don't believe in this girl falls for a bad boy. Maybe the bad boy is good looking. Would a girl fall for a bad boy na nga pangit pa?

Look around you, sweetie. Ang daming guys na mukhang paa, not so nice too, yet kaya pang mambabae.