Any good men around?

[sacred cow]

---agree with that! weeh! si jigglypuff ba yan pic mo! ang cute cute cute cute!

Sana makita na natin un mga good men na yan

it's clefairy, kaaway ni jigglypuff

[sacred cow]

to the bros, can you please define "good women"....  in a realistic sense, of course...

has her s*** together
has integrity
has realistic expectations about life
has no princess complex
classy and may breeding (not necessarily mayaman)
knowledgeable about what's going on in the world, can hold stimulating conversations

[cessy_may08]

has her s*** together
has integrity
has realistic expectations about life
has no princess complex
classy and may breeding (not necessarily mayaman)
knowledgeable about what's going on in the world, can hold stimulating conversations

Hmmmm...

[jonielle]

Marami pa naman jan sa tabi tabi

ehem ehem 

[slickchick]

has her s*** together
has integrity
has realistic expectations about life
has no princess complex
classy and may breeding (not necessarily mayaman)
knowledgeable about what's going on in the world, can hold stimulating conversations

fair enough bro... i think it can also be applied to guys - i.e. "define good men"... - just modify the 4th one a little bit - has no "my way or the highway" or "ako ang lalake, ako ang masusunod" complex... thanks for your inputs guys! 

[princeza08]

pa join po... i just want to share with you guys that i have been in this situation before, been into dating with several guys, but they didn't became my bf. most of them are just flirting around. i also had a bf, my first bf was a night mare... we've been 3 yrs in a relationship but then, he cheated on me, found out that he got somebody else pregnant. after him, had 2 relationships again but it never last long. my 3rd bf, actually i found out that he already has a family, he has his wife who is working abroad that is why it is easy for him to hide her & flirt around with girls, they have 2 kids. nakaka trauma di ba, it came to a point na sabi ko, wala na yatang good guy sa mundo. imposibleng makahanap ako ng ganun klase ng guy esp. in this generation. parang ayoko na din maniwala sa true love. ang dami ko nang nasayang na luha dahil lang sa mga lalaki na di naman deserve sa love ko. pero i still keep on praying na sana dumating na yun right guy for me. until one day, dumating na yun matagal na guy na hinahanap ko sa buhay ko... sabi nga nila life is full of surprises, yun mga akala ko dati na imposible mangyari, eh nangyari, nahanap ko sya, nagkakilala kami... at pinakasalan nya ako. yes, i am proud to be married to a good man! so don't loose hope everyone. just keep on praying, walang imposible kay God. He will give the desire of our hearts in His perfect time.

[cessy_may08]

pa join po... i just want to share with you guys that i have been in this situation before, been into dating with several guys, but they didn't became my bf. most of them are just flirting around. i also had a bf, my first bf was a night mare... we've been 3 yrs in a relationship but then, he cheated on me, found out that he got somebody else pregnant. after him, had 2 relationships again but it never last long. my 3rd bf, actually i found out that he already has a family, he has his wife who is working abroad that is why it is easy for him to hide her & flirt around with girls, they have 2 kids. nakaka trauma di ba, it came to a point na sabi ko, wala na yatang good guy sa mundo. imposibleng makahanap ako ng ganun klase ng guy esp. in this generation. parang ayoko na din maniwala sa true love. ang dami ko nang nasayang na luha dahil lang sa mga lalaki na di naman deserve sa love ko. pero i still keep on praying na sana dumating na yun right guy for me. until one day, dumating na yun matagal na guy na hinahanap ko sa buhay ko... sabi nga nila life is full of surprises, yun mga akala ko dati na imposible mangyari, eh nangyari, nahanap ko sya, nagkakilala kami... at pinakasalan nya ako. yes, i am proud to be married to a good man! so don't loose hope everyone. just keep on praying, walang imposible kay God. He will give the desire of our hearts in His perfect time.

Nainspire naman ako sa kwento mo sis. Mas lalong hindi dapat ako sumuko sa pag-aantay at pag-pepray. Thank you sis for sharing!

[princeza08]

hi sis cessy_may08! correct sis, pinaka powerful ang prayers sa lahat. so pray hard, and don't loose hope. someday you will find your prince charming din.

[hayne22]

i thought i find the perfect guy for me.

i had a bf way back in college, we were hs friends until nung college naging kami..we just stayed in the relationship for 2 yrs pero that 2 yrs is the most happiest day of my life..mahal na mahal namin ang isatisa pero siguro kahit gano nyo kamahal ang isatisa kung hindi talaga kayo wala talaga. everything was perfect and i really thank God for giving him to my life.well, we broke up kasi the love is not enough to stay in the relationship. ay. basta yun na yun. nag hiwalay kame.

after him, i met my husband.

he's so pogi 
alam kong mas mahal nya ako
mahal nya family nya at family ko
mahal din sya ng family ko
kaya nya itolerate ang tantrums namin ng anak ko
walang bisyo
work office lang, minsan lang umalis w/ his friends.
dota lang ang bisyo hehe pero not all the time
wala din babae

so i think, yes. i got the few good man =)

[honeylet04]

Pa join po. Share ko on my own experienced. Yes meron pa, I've been single for 5 years and im singlemom and now my son is turning 6 y/o. Lagi ako nakatambay dito sa thread na to at halos mawalan na ako ng pag asa since im 30y/o last april. Nag start ako magpanata na sana matagpuan ko na para sakin as birthday gift nalang sakin ni God on my  30th birthday. March this year I met him online this wonderful man he's 32y/o single, filipino who lives in USA and he's been single for 5 years too never been married too. He was an answered prayer for me kasi April ang birthday ko right now we're 3months  online couple, but he always prove to me na seryoso talaga sya he never failed out even single day na hindi kami makapag usap. Right now he's taking a doctrine at USA (since Im Iglesia Ni Cristo) dun nya sakin lalo na prove na he's really sincere after his baptism on December we're planning to get marry since he will visit me here on September. Many times narin Ive been rejected because of my status as singlemom and im already 30 but with my devotional prayer ibinigay ng Diyos ang para sakin.  He's too perfect for me walang bisyo and a home buddy guy na syang pangarap kong makasama. Mga sis there are still good men around . . . .

[chichi143]

ako din.   
everytime someone comes, i'd pray.
and eventually he'd do something about it.
minsan, bad news on my part but i know that he might be saving the best in the future for me. :-)

[tough_guy]

parang wala na nga talaga. puro douche bag na.. anyway daig daw ng malandi ang maganda so just play their games 

magpapadaig ka ba sa malandi? maganda kanaman e. hehe

[iwannabeasupermodel]

There are! But kasi for my case i dont equate good with perfect/mam of my dreams who is perfection in all aspects. Such dont really exist. Non-existent din yung lalaking di ka sasaktan ever.

[pret_ty68]

ako din.   
everytime someone comes, i'd pray.
and eventually he'd do something about it.
minsan, bad news on my part but i know that he might be saving the best in the future for me. :-)

Ha ha nakakarelate ako sayo sis pareho pala tayo. Pag may nanliligaw sa akin lagi kung dinadasal kay God na kung sya na please make it work pero kung hindi matapos na habang maaga pa. Natatapos nga minsan kung ano ano na lang ang nangyayari minsan nakakapagtaka basta nawawala sa akin yung guy kaya sabi ko hindi pa talaga siguro dumarating yung guy na para sa akin si na save lang ako para sa kanya. Minsan malungkot din kasi kung kelan gusto ko na mag commit saka nawawala.

[chichi143]

wow! pareho tayo sis. ganon na ganon ang sinasabi ko kay lord e? hahaha

[stebsy]

Wow hello thread!  I think there are still a FEW good men but most of them are taken. Or minsan bading pala. tee hee! pero nasan nga ba sila nagtatago??? Gusto ko rin matukoy ang pugad nila!

[cessy_may08]

Ha ha nakakarelate ako sayo sis pareho pala tayo. Pag may nanliligaw sa akin lagi kung dinadasal kay God na kung sya na please make it work pero kung hindi matapos na habang maaga pa. Natatapos nga minsan kung ano ano na lang ang nangyayari minsan nakakapagtaka basta nawawala sa akin yung guy kaya sabi ko hindi pa talaga siguro dumarating yung guy na para sa akin si na save lang ako para sa kanya. Minsan malungkot din kasi kung kelan gusto ko na mag commit saka nawawala.

Same tayo sis! Nakuuuu.. sabi ko nga bakit kailangan na dumaan pa ako sa mga jerks bakit hindi na lang sa right guy na para sa akin talaga. eventually narerealiaze ko rin na may mga bagay rin akong natutunan at napapatunayan sa sarili ko kahit pa minsan nakakakungkot talaga na akala ko siya na. talaga sigurong hindi pa time para mag-meet kami ng future husband ko. Masaya naman ako ngayon kasi nakafocus ako sa family and friends.

[pret_ty68]

^
Ha ha. Sa bawat taong nakikilala naman natin kahit nasaktan tayo  may natututunan tayo about men and about ourselves. Sana nga lang pi nag pi pray ko na dumating na yung right man para maapply ko na lahat nang natutunan ko nakakapagod na kasi maghintay parang balewala yung lessons kung di sya dumating. Minsan nga tinatanong ko si Lord kung bakit parang sa school parang lahat na lang theory natututunan ko walang application.

[firegl]

TAPOS NA ANG PAGHAHAN ;DAP NYO MGA SIS ANDTO NA ANG MGA LALAKING MAGMAMAHAL SA INYO !

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[ragnar_danneskjold]

TAPOS NA ANG PAGHAHAN ;DAP NYO MGA SIS ANDTO NA ANG MGA LALAKING MAGMAMAHAL SA INYO !

Saan kami pwede magsubmit ng Resume  !

So ganun pala. This thread was intended to be a concentration camp for us good guys. LOOOL!