Any good men around?

[ragnar_danneskjold]

^I get it. Here's our question: Any  good women around? LOL!

[tough_guy]

yan bro nakuha mo!

[purrple]

So that's why you are in this thread

^I get it. Here's our question: Any  good women around? LOL!

[slickchick]

para sa ating mga lalaki lang ba ito? hehe

^I get it. Here's our question: Any  good women around? LOL!

to the bros, can you please define "good women"....  in a realistic sense, of course...

[jtansanco]

natawa ako dito... may sense of bitterness, bro? hahaha! joke! pero seriously, guys also have their (sometimes unrealistic) standards din naman for girls diba - 36-24-36? 

UGH.. Oh please.. 36-24-36? I'm already okay with at least a 32-25-35.

Basta importante, at least 25 yung waist. Pretty in my vision, fair, slim-type, nice feet, good hygiene, and at least 5'3". Napakasimple lang naman e.. HAHAHA 

[ragnar_danneskjold]

good women. let me start. @tough_guy, please help on this. lol

by "good" i mean "quality." may class but not necessarily extravagant or someone trying to keep up with anne curtis;

for me, these are the characteristics of quality women

- someone like anne curtis. Just kidding.
- women who can handle their own finances (hindi yung bibili ng mahal to show off tapos gutom pala)
- women who can juggle between responsibility and fun. 40:60 ratio is ok.
- cool women--yung hindi madali maoffend sa biruan
- women who read...and have a say on what they'd read
- women who take care of their own personal growth
- women who have hobbies outside of texting their boyfriends
- women who can hold a conversation or get out of it if needed
- women who can handle criticisms and not break down or roll on the floor like a 2-year-old kid (this includes comments like "ang taba mo na ah")
- party girl is ok but don't climb into cabs at midnight just because the guy was hot. hold your panties, ladies.
- women who aren't clingy. we run away like thieves from clingy ones
- women who have a strong personality. strong -- don't mistake it for belligerent. they're two different animals.
- women who don't do duckface in selfies because they know it's stupid and slutty
- women who are confident but don't have a star complex. it's equally disgusting as duckfaced selfies
- women who know when to think and when to just feel. they hold men under their spell.

+  women who care about their bodies/appearance
++ women who love to have sex with the man they love

sorry, the word "MABAIT" just doesn't cut it.

[slickchick]

@jtansanco - hahaha! at least bro, you're very specific with your requirements... parang namimili lang ng clothes or ng shoes sa mall, you know what you want.... hahaha! 

@ragnar_danneskjold - fair enough bro... except for the "someone like anne curtis"... hahaha! kungsabagay, we (ladies) could've said it like "someone like derek ramsay", so it works both ways lang din...  natawa ako sa "strong -- don't mistake it for belligerent. they're two different animals..". iba nga naman ang strong sa war-freak, nagger, at always-going-ballistic-mode... overall, and personally speaking, i think it's fair enough.. transposing the logic, i think some (if not all) of the items in the list are also the things women look for in men (e.g. men who are confident but don't have a star complex.. who would want to have a johnny bravo guy for a bf?)... thanks for sharing your thoughts bro...

so mga sis, the guys (well at least some of them) have spoken... any thoughts or replies from the ladies in this thread?   

[tough_guy]

Ayoko ng masyadong maganda, its always easier to attract attention from men when girls make an effort to look good and dress well. kahit di kagandahan di ba? well, its important to me to find someone understanding who realizes and respects. gusto ko madaldal kasi tahimik ako, sabi nga nila a cheerful woman can melt even the hardest of manly hearts.. hahaha

[purrple]

I guess we all have our list but when we meet The One, when we feel it, and they don't seem to have all the tick marks in our list... Ayun na

-someone I can talk to, and that means anything and everything under the sun. Someone who actively listens.
-has his own life but I know I'm a priority, he has his own set of friends, hobbies
-has done this and that, has achieved something for himself, settled and comfortable with himself and his life
-"not an old man" : eg. yung may sense of adventure, unplanned things, not so stiff, yung cool lang and flexible, not easily annoyed with traffic
-confident minus the 'angas' part

-and there goes the autograph parts: honest, respectful & loving, caring. But I guess these things come naturally if there's love

[cessy_may08]

Sana meron pa talaga!  At sana mameet ko na siya! tee hee!

[carmilina]

Sana meron pa din na matinong guy mga sis, parang hindi ko na mahanap, nakakapagod na din kasi mag tiwala eh, mambabae at mambabae din sila eventually.Nakaka drained lang :/

[tough_guy]

wala ng ganun, sila mismo magbabago kung seryoso sila

[Zea88]

The best man is waiting at the end...Just be patient. Work on personal growth first and Enjoy every moment. Happy Single Life lang peg 

[cessy_may08]

Pag-pray rin natin sis. In God's Perfect time darating rin sila. Share ko lang ito. Lagi ko itong binabasa kapag nawawalan na talaga ako ng pag-asa. hehe.. Paano kasi mag-25 na ako pinepressure na ako ng parents ko. (nagpapapressure naman ako) hehe... Happy reading!


Maghintay ka lang.
Minsan, kailangan mo lang tanggapin na hindi ka talaga mahal at hindi ka talaga kayang mahalin ng taong mahal mo. Hindi ito pagsuko bagkus isa itong pagtanggap na hindi lahat ng gusto natin, napupunta sa atin. Na hindi lahat ng gusto natin, para sa atin. Na hindi lahat ng gusto natin, tama para sa atin.
 
Subukan mong tumingin sa paligid mo at tumingin sa ibang tao. Malay mo, sa iba ka pala talaga lubos na sasaya at hindi kailanman sa kanya. Ayaw mo lang kasi sumubok ng bago dahil masyado ka nang nag-invest ng grabeng pagmamahal sa taong hindi ka naman kayang mahalin. Ayaw mo lang sumubok magmahal ng iba dahil naduduwag kang masaktan ulit. Tandaan mong kailangan mo ding matutong tumanggap ng pagkatalo dahil hindi lahat ng karera mo sa pag-ibig maipapanalo mo. May ibang maipapanalo mo, pero mas marami ang maitatalo mo. Sigurado yan. Nasasaktan ka dahil umiibig ka. Umiibig ka kaya ka nasasaktan. Ganun lang yun.
 
At sana lang din, hindi ka papasok sa isang relasyon para lang ma-in sa usapang pag-ibig ng mga kaibigan mo. Hindi ka papasok sa isang relasyon para lang maglakad sa mall ng may kahawak kamay. Hindi ka papasok sa isang relasyon para lang maranasan mong kiligin. At lalong hindi ka papasok sa isang relasyon para lang may magbuhat ng bag mo sa balikat niya. Dahil kung tunay ang pag-ibig na pinapasok mo, hindi ka masasapatan sa mga relasyong nabibilang lang sa buwan, linggo o araw ang itinatagal, bagkus hahanap ka ng isang taong may potensyal na makasama at maging kaibigan mo pang-habang buhay.
 
Kung hindi ka niya mahal, at ipinamumukha niya yun sa ‘yo, fine! Huminto sa pagpapakatanga, at simulan mo namang respetuhin ang sarili mo. Dahil dapat alam mo, na oo, karapatan mong magmahal ng kahit sinong gusto mo. Pero dapat naisip mo rin na mas okay kapag mahal ka din ng taong mahal mo.
 
Laging positibo ang resulta ng paghihintay sa tunay na pag-ibig. Kaya huwag kang magmadali. Darating ang taong para sa ‘yo. Siya mismo ang lalapit sa harapan mo isang araw. At ibibigay niya ang pag-ibig at respetong karapat-dapat para sa iyo.
 
Kaya please, maghintay ka lang. Ako na ang nakikiusap sa iyo.

[momentum]

buti pa si Maricar (reyes), nahanap niya na 

(sana okay talaga si Poon hehe)

[carmilina]

like attracts like, instead of looking for good men...be a good woman, good men will find you. Kung wala...e alam mo na

---agree with that! weeh! si jigglypuff ba yan pic mo! ang cute cute cute cute!

Sana makita na natin un mga good men na yan

[iseenessie]

There are good men pa. I know a lot of them. Some of them lang have been traumatized cause they ended up with women who didn't treat them right.

[onilord]

^ this is very true! =)

[it_girl]

parang wala na nga talaga. puro douche bag na.. anyway daig daw ng malandi ang maganda so just play their games 

[momentum]

I saw one of those rare species. and he just got married to my cousin 
so fortunate. he gave up everything in the US just to be with her here even if ligawan stage pa yun. he was so sure of her already and even if they had been together for 5years before getting married, he still had that fear of losing her. I think he is one of the sweetest guy I've ever seen in our close family cirlce