Any good men around?

[slickchick]

^ haha! natawa ako sa "manly" gays (i can imagine those muscled guys in hiphop class na pumipitik ang hips while dancing) and yung hindi ka nagtatagal sa locker room. may threat ba? haha! some of my male officemates even joke about "don't drop the soap" when they go to the gym. haha! 

[oshiawase]

in fairness, may mga friends ako na good guys naman as in super loyal sa girl friend nila. Kaso, hindi ko sila type at di nila ako tipo so wala lang talaga. friends lang. Point is, meron pa naman. Madami lang taken na.

[Essence]

There are still a lot of good men out there. In my own circle of friends I can say that majority are good men. Men who have decent jobs/businesses, plans for the future, responsible with family and friends, and good sense of humor.

Unfortunately, we always wonder, "where do we see or meet these fine ladies?" And based on what's being said here, most of what the good men are looking for are either holed up at home wishing for the prince charming to come; or going for the as&hole hoping they can convert him to a saint.

[lawrence01]

Dont lose hope, madami pa good guys kaso nga lang baka nagkakasalisi at hindi nagkikita. ewan ko, problema din ng lalaki yan eh, yun good girls kung saan matatagpuan. dapat siguro mag set ng good girls and guys convention. 

[babychellee]

SHARE DATES!

I'm serious! 

When I was at my 20's, I've dated a guy who's really nice, gwapo, charming..pero we just didn't hit it off e (I mean..romantically). That's what dating is for right? You date people to know if you will click kasi you're looking for your potential partner in the future. So kami ni guy, we ended up friends instead and when my bday came, ipinakilala ko siya sa isa ko pang single friend na girl na andun din sa party ko. Mas nag click sila and mantakin mo, naunahan pa nila ako magpakasal hahaha! super happy ako sa kanila (during that time, I was dating na my now fiance). i love happy endings!

I had another date (during my 20's din) who's also a good catch. For some reasons din, wala kami chemistry..hehe he's too uhmm..nice for me. haha. So after that, ganun din..naging friends kami. Eventually, nireto ko siya sa isa ko pang single girl friend and they dated. kaya lang natorpe na talaga si guy ng tuluyan. by the time he was supposed to ask my friend for another date, ayun, may bago nang nagpapatibok ng puso dun sa girl friend ko hehe.

[ReservoirDogs]

May mga nice guys, ang problema type ba sila ng ibang girls?  Conjecture ko lang naman ito, but some (or most) Filipinas do not find nice guys physically attractive.  'Pag tinanong mo kung anong type nila, ang sagot, "kalbo, matangkad, bad-boy looking"; and what do they get? A d0uchebag. Let's say the a typical nice guy here looks (looks lang ha) like Howard from Big Bang Theory, will you find him attractive? :p

Two of my husband's friends are poster boys for nice guys.  One has a good career; one comes from a really wealthy family.  They don't smoke, don't drink, don't party, and are really smart. Rare breed sa mga nakilala kong lalaki kasi mababait talaga.  Both of them don't have gfs (yung isa nga NGSB). Bakit? Well, let's say sila ang Filipino versions ng mga characters from Big Bang Theory. 
 

[Girltalker2]

There are still a lot of good men out there. In my own circle of friends I can say that majority are good men. Men who have decent jobs/businesses, plans for the future, responsible with family and friends, and good sense of humor.

Yan nga, taken nanga lang. hehe 

[ann08]

Hmmm... minsan naman kasi those good men are too picky or torpe?

[jtansanco]

^ Actually, both. 

[ann08]

Hmmm I'm liking someone from an online dating site. He has a nice profile, something that you can
say that he's kinda perfect to bring and meet the family but it seems he's "mailap" I know its just
in written but How can I make him meet me personally. Lol.

[princessette]

Hmmm I'm liking someone from an online dating site. He has a nice profile, something that you can
say that he's kinda perfect to bring and meet the family but it seems he's "mailap" I know its just
in written but How can I make him meet me personally. Lol.

Uyy interesting ah, let us know pag napaamo na si Mr. Mailap hehe

kaso how are we to know na yung profile ay ganun talaga in person?   

[jtansanco]

^^ Wow, so ikaw pa yung interested magmeet sa guy. Baliktad ata yan ah... As far as I know, ang daming manyak sa mga dating sites.. Don't be fooled by the profile. Siguro mag-Skype video muna kayo to get to know each other better. If maging okay, then try to meet up. Really depends if the feeling is mutual though. It looks like you're really into this guy.. The question is, does he feel the same way? If yes, then play safe muna. Skype video or meet somewhere in public. If not, life goes on.

[noturguynxtdoor]

first of i was just a lurker here for about 2 weeks now .. reading some of the stuff while @ work... no time to access this site @ home all i do is sleep .. anyway i manage to read everything before creating this account so @ TS you are the reason why i am here

I hope you dont take this wrong but by your definition of good guy to me sounds like the ideal guy because your brother in law hasnt cheated as you said that alone = good guy . He may cuss in front of their kids and not able to provide enough for his family but that doesnt mean he is bad.

I believe that theres alot of good men out there sometimes we just ask for more than what our partners could give.... when the truth is you get more love by giving it away unconditionally it doesnt make you a martyr if you would help your partner become a better person a better friend, husband and partner. we cant always rely for our partner to be there for us love doesnt work that way. its give and take.

Love is a risk its also giving it a chance .. if you dont open your heart to someone then you will always see whats wrong.

I wish you the best TS.

[Chinito]

first of i was just a lurker here for about 2 weeks now .. reading some of the stuff while @ work... no time to access this site @ home all i do is sleep .. anyway i manage to read everything before creating this account so @ TS you are the reason why i am here

I hope you dont take this wrong but by your definition of good guy to me sounds like the ideal guy because your brother in law hasnt cheated as you said that alone = good guy . He may cuss in front of their kids and not able to provide enough for his family but that doesnt mean he is bad.

I believe that theres alot of good men out there sometimes we just ask for more than what our partners could give.... when the truth is you get more love by giving it away unconditionally it doesnt make you a martyr if you would help your partner become a better person a better friend, husband and partner. we cant always rely for our partner to be there for us love doesnt work that way. its give and take.

Love is a risk its also giving it a chance .. if you dont open your heart to someone then you will always see whats wrong.

I wish you the best TS.

Woooahh, ILAVET!!   nice 

[piatos]

come to me mr. nice guy hahaha!

[straykatski]

first of i was just a lurker here for about 2 weeks now .. reading some of the stuff while @ work... no time to access this site @ home all i do is sleep .. anyway i manage to read everything before creating this account so @ TS you are the reason why i am here

I hope you dont take this wrong but by your definition of good guy to me sounds like the ideal guy because your brother in law hasnt cheated as you said that alone = good guy . He may cuss in front of their kids and not able to provide enough for his family but that doesnt mean he is bad.

I believe that theres alot of good men out there sometimes we just ask for more than what our partners could give.... when the truth is you get more love by giving it away unconditionally it doesnt make you a martyr if you would help your partner become a better person a better friend, husband and partner. we cant always rely for our partner to be there for us love doesnt work that way. its give and take.

Love is a risk its also giving it a chance .. if you dont open your heart to someone then you will always see whats wrong.

I wish you the best TS.

What can I say? Ikaw na kuya.hehe Well said.

[purrple]

Where can we find them? Or how can they find us?

[whitebishop]

^be a good girl in a good place. ^_^

[argento]

marami pa good men. but if you're standards are high, idealistic you wont find them.

[momentum]

May mga nice guys, ang problema type ba sila ng ibang girls?  Conjecture ko lang naman ito, but some (or most) Filipinas do not find nice guys physically attractive.  'Pag tinanong mo kung anong type nila, ang sagot, "kalbo, matangkad, bad-boy looking"; and what do they get? A d0uchebag. Let's say the a typical nice guy here looks (looks lang ha) like Howard from Big Bang Theory, will you find him attractive? :p

Two of my husband's friends are poster boys for nice guys.  One has a good career; one comes from a really wealthy family.  They don't smoke, don't drink, don't party, and are really smart. Rare breed sa mga nakilala kong lalaki kasi mababait talaga.  Both of them don't have gfs (yung isa nga NGSB). Bakit? Well, let's say sila ang Filipino versions ng mga characters from Big Bang Theory. 
 

hahaha pa-reto naman ng mga yan hehe