How to win your ex back?

[misunderstood]

Meron pa bang ibang way to win him back without using the NC rule?
I tried, but I really can't..

[mavhy]

Meron pa bang ibang way to win him back without using the NC rule?
I tried, but I really can't..

Sis try to focus on other stuff. Pagcommunicate kasi kayo ng communicate na walang katuturuan bumabalik at bumabalik ka lang sa step 1

[koalaa]

^Nah ganyan talaga. Its the "wallowing" phase, dapat talaga pagdaanan. Hmmn tip lang ako ang ginawa ko isinulat ko sa papel lahat ng nararamdaman ko, lahat ng gusto kong sabihin sa kanya tapos sinunog ko (walang pwedeng magjudge sayo kasi feelings mo yan). Nakakagaan ng loob para sa akin .

ganito ako. kapag gusto ko na tumigil kakaiyak. feeling ko kausap ko sya sa ganitong bagay

[misunderstood]

Buti pa kayo, nakakabilib talaga.. 

I tried, but I can't. I really can't.

I asked him once, wala na ba talagang pag asa..

Ang sabi niya, hindi ko alam. Ayokong magbigay ng pag asa pero hindi ko talaga alam ang sagot..

 

[mimiku]

Huwag nang pilitin ang ayaw. Masasaktan ka lang. 

[mavhy]

Huwag nang pilitin ang ayaw. Masasaktan ka lang. 

Correct!

[qt_ben17]

@iclever: sis, parang nanyari lahat ito sayo ah, and by the way you narrate these things eh parang crystal clear mo pang naalala in minute details ang mga painful breakups. aww.

sheesh, this whole thread shouldve appeared ages ago! nang may guide ako during the breakup. i exactly did the opposite. haha. well atleast now, i am confident to say that im a strong person.  been there, done that. time to turn the table, ako naman ang magpapaiyak. haha. choz lang.

[mimiku]

Yes, before, I was one of the girls here, who despite being used, dumped and betrayed by my ex, I was the one who chased him at the ends of the earth. Until I finally realized, it won't ever work out anymore. It's better to leave all the broken pieces scattered than wounding yourself trying to fix it back... second chances are overrated... things will never be the same as before kahit tumambling tumbling ka pa ng paulit ulit you are just giving the person free chances abuse you more. At kapag sinaktan ka niya ulit, naku po, baka mag somersault ka na sa sakit at depression.

Sa una lang yan masakit. Give yourself time to heal kasi. Huwag kasing ipilit. Magsoul searching ka. Huwag yung iisang kaluluwa lang ang hinahanap mo. Nakaya nga ng iba ikaw pa kaya.

Sabi nila tatawanan mo rin lahat ng kagahan ni ginawa mo in time. And here I am. Smiling like there is no tomorrow.

Give yourself a break. You are not born to this world to be slave by a destructive emotion. Isipin niyo, nakaya niyo noon na wala siya, bakit ngayon, aanga anga ka???

God is just letting you know you made the wrong move when you dated him and he is actually poking you again, saying,  "this time, sweetie, make the right decision." 

I reiterate, huwag nang pilitin ang ayaw. Masasaktan ka lang.

[auane]

read this poem over and over sis, laking tulong nito

After a while, you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning.
And company doesn't mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
With the grace of a women, not the grief of a child,
And learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for future plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in midflight,
And after a while you learn
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure...
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth
And you learn and learn...
With every goodbye, you learn.

[shopaholic18]

in my opinion you don't win your ex back. learn to accept its over and move on. mahirap masaktan.

[mavhy]

in my opinion you don't win your ex back. learn to accept its over and move on. mahirap masaktan.

I agree. IMO Its short for "get a life"

[iheartkulot]

Buti pa kayo, nakakabilib talaga.. 

I tried, but I can't. I really can't.

I asked him once, wala na ba talagang pag asa..

Ang sabi niya, hindi ko alam. Ayokong magbigay ng pag asa pero hindi ko talaga alam ang sagot..

 

hi sis.

newbie ka rin pala so tingin ko more or less, pareho tayong nasa moving on stage pero hindi naman nagmo-move on dahil patuloy tayong umaasa na babalikan nila tayo. Naku, naku, anino ba kita? Ganyan din ako. Ako pa nagtanong at ganyan din ang sagot niya.

Ilang buwan na ang lumipas, umiiyak pa rin ako, minsan kahit umaga or anong oras, basta umiiyak na lang ako. Namimiss ko siya. Sobra. Kahit may mga di maganda nangyari samin, mas nangingibabaw [textspeak!] mahal ko siya at namimiss ko siya.

Pero naku, mukhang ipriprint ko na [textspeak!] ilang sulat dito ng mga "experts" para lagi ko mabasa kahit asan ako.

Tayo na nga ang iniwan, tayo pa ba ang magiging miserable?

sa totoo lang, miserable ako ngayon, pero magdadasal talaga ako na maging okay n ako. Pagod na ako malungkot.

[mavhy]

Tayo na nga ang iniwan, tayo pa ba ang magiging miserable?

sa totoo lang, miserable ako ngayon, pero magdadasal talaga ako na maging okay n ako. Pagod na ako malungkot.

Tama yan sis! Pray hard, ikwento mo sa Kanya lahat ng sakit. Kayang kaya mo yan sus.

[shopaholic18]

^^don't worry sis, there's someone BETTER out there for you, you just have to pick up the pieces and move on. let it go. i know mahirap, kakagaling ko lang sa isang long term relationship but now na realize ko na lahat. i deserve someone better so its his loss.

[iCleverClogs]

nahihilo na ako kasi antok na antok na ako. buti naman kesa madepress.    yan, nakakangiti na rin.


anyways di ko na maconcentrate ang pagbaback read. pero in parin ako dito kasi may post na ako. 


kung gusto niyong makuha ang ex niyo better play with mind games.

[misunderstood]

nahihilo na ako kasi antok na antok na ako. buti naman kesa madepress.    yan, nakakangiti na rin.


anyways di ko na maconcentrate ang pagbaback read. pero in parin ako dito kasi may post na ako. 


kung gusto niyong makuha ang ex niyo better play with mind games.

napakahirap laruin ng mind games!!!

eto.. paunti unti.. di ko na siya tinitxt.. minsan nalang.. nangangamusta..
minsan naiisip ko, baka nasanay nalang ako nandyan siya palagi.. 8 years din kami magkasama araw araw since college days pa..

[nageinna]

^sis nagrereply ba si ex pag nagtetext ka?

[iCleverClogs]

napakahirap laruin ng mind games!!!

eto.. paunti unti.. di ko na siya tinitxt.. minsan nalang.. nangangamusta..
minsan naiisip ko, baka nasanay nalang ako nandyan siya palagi.. 8 years din kami magkasama araw araw since college days pa..

8 years???    patay na ata ako niyan pag magkabreak pa kami. ang sakit naman niyan.


mahirap talaga controlin ang mind games sis isang hakbang at pag mali ang steps mo sira na ang plan. but i believe sis na sa tagal ng relationship niyo, i doubt kung basta basta ka nalang malilimutan ng guy. sila pa? mas mahina ata ang coping mechanism nila. di magtatagal ang ganoong relasyon if di ka talaga mahal non. just don't fed his curiosity. stay out of his radar para maloka siya sa kakaisip sayo.

[misunderstood]

yup.. nagrereply siya.. ganun padin, he's texting bago siya umalis, pag nasa office na siya, or pag magttxt ako kung lunch na niya, magrereply siya na kumain na siya.. or pag nasa bahay na at nakauwe na..

Ang hirap sobra, since 2nd year college magkasama na kaming dalawa.. magkagroup sa lahat ng projects, magkasama sa lahat ng lakad..

Again, i asked him if he loves the other girl, ang sabi niya "hindi ko alam. basta. masaya".

I can see that he wants to prove to his self na kaya niyang wala ako. Hindi ko alam pero napakalaking issue sa kanya yung pagtulong ko.

Sabi niya, simula ng college, wala na daw siyang ibang ginawa kung humingi ng tulong sakin and he wants to prove na kaya niya..

Sabi nga niya diba, ayoko magbigay ng  pag asa pero hindi ko alam.. That's when i asked him if there's another chance pa..

May sarili na kaming bahay.. we were about to get married next year, 2012.. we have a lot of plans, and all ends up dahil sa isang elementary reunion.

 

[mavhy]

IMO. He's definitely a coward. He want to have both worlds my dear, don't be too naive

Either you or the other girl. Mahirap yan.