INTROVERTS - You're in!

[iCleverClogs]

Na-late ako sa pagreply sa thread dito. Busy kasi sa bahay. 1 hour pa lang yung natapos ko na work.


Anyways, share ko lang yung about sa fate, if it's either destiny or a consequence of such actions...


I strongly believed that we choose our own fate or destiny. If we do something right, we will be blessed and if we do the other thing consequences ALWAYS follows. Maybe not this time but time comes, whatever wrong doing we have done will result into misfortune.


We are given rights to choose, we have freedom but we have to use it wisely. Sometimes kasi ang tao, they overuse or abuse our freedom to do things on our ways in which we think its the right way, but actually not. It's the reason also when we face such trials and challenges in our life then we ask God, "Why it's happening to me? I didn't do anything wrong? I don't deserve this kind of life". We didn't realize that beforehand, we actually did something wrong. There's always price to pay, good or bad but it will always follow and sometimes it will come less we expect it. We just realize it after we experience those consequences.


Now, there are also times when other people wronged us but it's another story. That is when the time when we are innocent and yet we suffered such afflictions. Everything has a reason.


And lastly, I don't think there is a relationship between introversion and fate because as I said we create our destiny. 

[mayalogy]

girls, can i ask.. what are the common things that you like or you usually do?

ako kase im a fond of watching US tv series.. as in yung friends, 1month ko lang tinapos [textspeak!] 10season. ang sabi ng friend ko, kaya daw ako ganun is deep inside im not a happy person and nirerelease ko daw [textspeak!] emotion ko sa pagtawa in watching comedy shows, and i admit i really do enjoy comedy, kahit wala masyado lesson of the story sa mga chic-flick, chic-lit, ayon talag yung prefer ko na mga type of shows, movies to watch and books to read.

and things i usually do? arrange things in orderly manner, i have a collection of candy, cosmopolitan and preview magazines. they are arrange in per title, and in alphabetical order (covergirls). thats wierd but these are the things i enjoy alone. and that makes me feel a certified introvert!

[iCleverClogs]

^ You're not just an introvert. You're obsessive-compulsive too.


Common things I like and usually do:
Internet - 12-16 hours per  day
Reading books if I'm in the mood
Blogging
Web Designing


These are the things that make my day complete or shall I say, waste? Not really. Ito lang kasi ang pinagkakaabalahan ko ngayon, aside from work which is also involves computer. 
I'm also into books and I love motivational quotes. Sentimental ako. Now ko lang maamin sa sarili ko na ganito ako. Kasi nuon puro suppression ako, I don't expose the vulnerable me, but now, I show it. Not to the people who knew me but to some. Anyways, dito ko lang ito nilalabas because no one knows me here.


I claimed I am an organized person, but not totally. Like now, my room is in chaos but I want my things in order. Almost in order. I'm an OC too, but not the other one which is OCD. Iba na yun. I don't do frequent handwashing eh or ritual behaviors to relieves my GAD. But the manner of organizing things. 


Yun lang. My life is boring. Seriously. 

[showermist]

girls, can i ask.. what are the common things that you like or you usually do?

ako kase im a fond of watching US tv series.. as in yung friends, 1month ko lang tinapos [textspeak!] 10season. ang sabi ng friend ko, kaya daw ako ganun is deep inside im not a happy person and nirerelease ko daw [textspeak!] emotion ko sa pagtawa in watching comedy shows, and i admit i really do enjoy comedy, kahit wala masyado lesson of the story sa mga chic-flick, chic-lit, ayon talag yung prefer ko na mga type of shows, movies to watch and books to read.

and things i usually do? arrange things in orderly manner, i have a collection of candy, cosmopolitan and preview magazines. they are arrange in per title, and in alphabetical order (covergirls). thats wierd but these are the things i enjoy alone. and that makes me feel a certified introvert!

i can so totally relate.  wala pa yatang 1month tapos ko na ang buong series ng friends.   i only watch chick flick.  my reason,  gusto kong maentertain ako.  at hindi ako maientertain pag mg asci-fi or mga thriller or suspense ang pinapanood ko.  ayokong mamroblema about sa pinapanood ko. i am guilty of being OC.  hindi ako mapakali pag tabingi ang painting sa ulunan ko. at  ayoko ng cluttered na place   ng cluttered na shelf. 

mali naman ang interpretation ng friend mo sa kagustuhan mong manood lang ng chickflick.  hmp.

[showermist]

hhahahhhha

natutuwa ako. dito lang ako nakahanap ng katulad ko

[michipoo]

Ay ako din, kapag galit ako as in matakot ka. Pero kapag wala naman akong pakialam sayo, kahit tumambling ka pa sa harap ko deadma lang talaga.

sarap ng feeling na madami pala akong katulad. Kasi sa crowd na nakakasalamuha ko, konti lang yung katulad ko, karamihan mga loud na tao yung parang madaldal, maharot etc. Irita ako sa ganun. Kaya ko din mag mall mag isa, yung iba kasi parang hindi nila kaya na magshop mag isa, ako, go lang! I trust my instincts too when it comes to fashion, di ako nag tatanong ng opinion ng iba, i know what will look good on me na kaagad.

[iCleverClogs]

^ iba pag silent type sis. Naku, mabait talaga pag good girl ang nakasalamuha, pero pag gagawing miserable ang buhay ko, naku ewan na lang. 


Feel ko ngayon maglakwatsa at magpahangin. Gusto ko pumunta ng beach tapos sisigaw lahat ng sama ng loob. Introvert na nga malungkot pa. 

[pinkberries]

nakakarelate ako sa mga stories ninyo sis.  nung bata pa ako, sinasabi ng lahat introvert daw ako.  mas masaya ako na magisa lang ako umaalis sa bahay, kumain sa foodchains, manood ng sine, magshopping, at kahit sa kwarto.  ayoko ng may kasama ako sa bed.  pagkatabi ko mom ko, nagagalit siya kasi di ako mahilig magyakap.  dry daw ako na anak, di malambing.    lagi ko iniisip na cold-hearted akong tao, kasi nung highschool pa ako, naiinis ako pag may bumibisita sa akin na mga classmates.  para sa akin, kasama ko na sila from mon-fri, 7am-4pm tas pati sat-sun mangugulo pa sila sa gimmik. 

Ang mom ko nun siya lang ang nagpapaliwanag sa mga bisita kasi naiirita talaga ako pag may bisita.  Sobrang choosy ako sa mga friends nun.  Wala ako debut party when i was 18 kasi ang friends ko hindi aabot ng 18...    tulad sa mga sinasabi ninyo, effort din sa akin ang makikipagsosyalan sa iba.   

Ayoko ng maarteng kaibigan, yong tipong wala ng ibang iniisip kundi yong mamahaling bagay lang at parties.   Yong mahilig manlait ng iba at ayaw madumihan or maputikan.  Ayoko ng maiingay na kaibigan na mahilig sa tsismis at backbiting na lang ang alam gawin.  At lalong lalo na ayoko sa mga mangagamit na kaibigan, malalaman ko kasi agad kung sincere o hindi eh.

Pero okay lang din sa akin kung maganda manamit, yong tipong alam niya kung anong mas babagay sa kanya.  hindi kailangan mahal ang gusto basta marunong sa buhay.  Gusto ko yong sincere na tao na marunong umunawa sa ibang tao at masayahin.   

Ngayon, natuto na akong magsocialize ng konti... pero hindi siya palagi.  Mas mahalaga sa akin ang pamilya.  So gusto ko maging masaya sa lahat.  Pagdating sa work ko dati, hindi ako masyado nagjojoin ng mga parties, lalo na pag hindi ko gusto ang mga makakasama. 

mga sis, do you think nasa nature din natin yon ang pagiging introvert? i mean sa zodiac sign?  kasi mahilig din ako sa astrology at sabi dun... "You love people but you hate large crowds".   Ganun kasi ako eh... masaya na ako pumupunta sa mall magisa at makita ang mga tao, not necessarily talk to them.

[pinkberries]

^ libra din ako sis...    marami ba libra din dito?

[iCleverClogs]

^^ Agree. I believed on zodiacs pero ako yata itong version na nahurt ang self-esteem kaya bumaliktad lahat ng characteristics ng isang Aries.


Anyways back to introversion, ganyan talaga ang mga introverts, HATE ang crowd and not sociable people. Kaya I don't think so ang isa tao pag maraming friends introverted. 


Share ko lang yung distinction between extroversion and introversion. Makakatulong ito mga sis to define yourself if you are really an introvert person.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extroversion_and_introversion

[ravena]

i guess i have some qualities of an introvert. i enjoy being alone and spending time alone when i'm tired or sad. but i'm not antisocial.

during parties i just want to talk and dance i don't want to get drunk. that's why sometimes i say 'NO' but i love the crowd. i think nawawala yung pagkamahiyain ko because i'm into sports. sabi ng coach ko "Paano ka magshoshoot kung mahiyain ka?" haha.

and i love this saying "You should be ashamed when you sin" in mom's view "Bakit ka mahihiya, may utang ka ba sa kanila?" i was introvert when i was in highschool and nabawasan ng konti nung college.

[ravena]

ay, hindi naman po yata siguro komot introvert eh mahiyain na and anti-social

i know not all introverts are shy and antisocial. paiba iba pa minsan depende sa mood.

so what is your definition about introvert po ba?

[health.gal]

...Anyways back to introversion, ganyan talaga ang mga introverts, HATE ang crowd and not sociable people. Kaya I don't think so ang isa tao pag maraming friends introverted....

I'm an introvert, but that doesn't mean that i HATE the crowd. I just prefer to spend my relaxing time alone. Preference (as well as likeness) is not the opposite of hatred.

[iCleverClogs]

Parami ng parami ang introverts dito...


No wonder why forums are the hubs of introverts people. 


Di naman masama maging introvert, di ba pipz? Mas comfortable lang tayo if fewer people lang yung makasalamuha natin becasue we find it more enjoyble. Anyways, kaya nga introvert kasi almost sa mga ginagawa natin comes from WITHIN. 

[blush_blush]

Niyayaya ako ng friend ko kanina pumupunta sa every month na reunion, hindi ako sumama matutulog nalang ako kesa magpuyat. Beauty rest para pagdating ng 2011, bongga ako. haha

[FOURever]

^wow! Every month reunion? Funny, i saw kanina a girl working sa convergys yata, ang laki kasi ng font size ng phone nya, super gm siya na may reunion sa house nya. Todo yaya sya at excited sya. Hehe baka eto yung friend mo sis. Syempre todo nabasa ko na rin yung mga ginugroup message nya. Even some details..ü waaa! *pakielamera mode*

[blush_blush]

^Haha... malamang siya nga! Haha... Monthly na kasi sila nagyayaya magmula nung nagkita kita na sa FB. 

[FOURever]

^ooh.. Taguig/pasig/makati ka ba sis? Haha!ü feeling ko super kapagod yung monthly reunion.. Tama ka sis, dahil introvert ka, gugustuhin mo na lang ipahinga yung gabi. Hehe!ü

[iCleverClogs]

stay nalang kayo sa bahay... kakapagod din makipagplastikan.. 

[trustingsoul]

count me in.

naka ilang personality test na rin ako sa office (during trainings, team building) at mas malaking percentage talaga na introvert ako. hehe
lalo na nung student pa lang ako. ang madalas na comment sakin ng profs/teachers ko, ok yung academics ko pero kulang lagi sa co-curricular activities, at dun daw ako 'nadadaig' ng mga kasama ko.

marami akong barkada and personally i like being surrounded by people. pero, i prefer na few lang kapag lalabas or may gathering. medyo naguguluhan na kasi ako pag sobrang dami. i like it more kapag medyo mas intimate yung setting.
actually na-work out ko na (sa tingin ko..hehe) yung pagiging introvert kahit pano. mas lumalabas na kasi ako kesa dati. pero when it comes to work, i prefer doing things alone muna.