INTROVERTS - You're in!

[iCleverClogs]

Youngest daughter ako. Ako sana ang last, may humirit pa.


^ May anak ka na sis? Wow, buti ka pa. Single ako te. 


Ano ba 'yan dito lang ako madaldal. Pero yung mga tao dito sa bahay hindi ako iniimikan. Ayoko kasing maistorbo.


Pikon ako. Super pikon. Di ko alam kung ano ang joke sa hindi. I hate compliments. Nakakapikon kahit seryoso sila. Hiya ako at di comfy. Nakakailang 

[iCleverClogs]

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Para happy naman tayo mga introverts. If cowgirl kayo ha. 

[lilstar]

^^ Yes sis may family na ako.,

You know what is the irony? Si hubby naman e super friendly. Ayun if may bisita sa haus, videoke sila ako kulong sa room.. Sabi ko sa kanya IM NOT FRIENDLY at nakapost pa yan sa room in big letters.. hehe

[pomegranate]

Dati in denial ako, because in younger years, extroverts are seen as the fully adjusted individuals, and introverts are labeled schizoid. Relatively younger naman kasi ang field of psychology sa atin, and di pa rampant ang exchange of global info noon.

Pero my dimensions ang pagiging introvert as exemplified by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (introvert-extrovert, thinking-feeling, sensing-intuiting, judgment - perception), so other variables tend to influence ones intraversion. I, for one, tends to favor thinking over feeling kaya I have this objective stance that even if I have only a few friends, I don't take comfort on having my world revolve around them, or theirs to mine. Nakakarelate ako dun sa kapag parties, it seems that my energy was drained to the core; a common denominator among introverts. What is good about this theory is all qualities are viewed as qualities in itself, not as negative.

While it is true that introverts are more likely to have depression, suicidal and even psychotic tendencies, they are also self-sufficient in achieving their momentum because self-introspection comes naturally to them. Sa frame of mind and biological/genetic predisposition na lang nagkakatalo.

[FOURever]

^tama. Parang everything has its right place and time, di naman laging dapat mag isa lang or walang friends, it's just that sometimes sa mga experiences natin, we hardly trust anyone except ourselves. Hehe..ü I also make new friends. I see how they are as friends. If nag click kami, i'll treasure them as a family. If not, ok na yung hi hello pag nagkita or nagkasalubong.. At pag naman cinonsider ko as friend talaga, pag pinlastik or ginamit ako, at nasaktan ako, i don't think i can give him/her/them another chance. I forgive but i hardly forget kasi.

Sagutin ko yung tanong ni sis clever, sa bahay, mapagbiro ako.. Pero same with one sis, pag heart to heart, di masyado.. Pag ganun kasi naiiyak na ako. Bilang lang sa kamay yung heart to heart talks namin at lagi ako umiiyak. And my family, kahit mapagbiro ako sa bahay, they describe me as tahimik..

[iCleverClogs]

^ sometimes we have to act like we are not sad or just act to hide some feelings from ourselves which we don't want to show to our families. 


Then one time when you are out of control and you just vent out your feelings to their surprise, it's really shocking on their part.


An introvert could feel lonely and bored sometimes but it's really hard to trust someone. Kaya nga seclude ka sa sarili mo kasi you don't want the company of other people. Though there are times talaga when you to hang out with them but just a rare case. 

[norms]

ayoko rin nakikipagusap sa bisita hehe..

I always go upstairs and hide inside my room if we have visitors too.

[mayalogy]

Ask ko lang mga introverts. Ano ba kayo sa bahay niyo, I mean family?


Umpisahan ko. Ako ang pinakatahimik pero pinakadelikado. Nasa loob ang kulo. 

ako middle child ako and only girl ako, and when i was in younger i tought black sheep ako kase if i have a bf.. talagang i bend rules. then that time nafifigure ko na na im really an introvert person kase hindi ako nagsasabi ng problema ko. i just simply bend the rules and go for something i want

[mayalogy]

Then one time when you are out of control and you just vent out your feelings to their surprise, it's really shocking on their part.

- sis alamu alam ko yung ganitong feeling, actually hindi pa nga ako ang nagopen sa family ko ee. kinorner lang ako ng parents ko 1 time then super nagulat siya sa mga revelations ko.

and may nabasa ako about sa pagmomall-, ako din gusto ko din yung napapagisa. kapag  magkikita kami ng mga friends ko to shop, or maagcoffee.. im an hour ahead, para lang makapag"me" time ako.

[iCleverClogs]

^ i'm really that sis... all of us are not that close to our parents enough to open our concerns and secrets, parang ngayon lang lately but we're old enough to open ourselves and besides we can handle situations naman.


I just laugh kanina kasi my auntie read my palm, and she talks about my future, not so full but the way I want in a family in the future. She said mabait daw akong tao pero pag once na may manakit or magthreat sakin lahat daw sabog. hahahha... My mother laughs. Ganun naman talaga ako, nasa tabi lang, di nakisawsaw.


In our house, my family members describe me as blunt, no emotions , parang walang paki. Pag pinapagalitan mukha ko lang parang wala na sa timpla. Nagtitimpi ako. Pero pag ang pasensiya ko punong puno na delikado ako.


Sabi pa ng mama ko... Sobra pa sa may sungay ako kung magalit LOL. Aray ko po. Natatawa nalang ako. So far good girl naman ako ngayon di gaya noon. 

[showermist]

Oonga yung ibang friends ko sa FB dami nila group pictures tapos ako kadalasan solo pics Hindi din ako comfortable sa big crowd, at tahimik akong tao, para sakin kasi kung wala naman sense ang paguusapan, wag nalang tayo magusap. Yeah pansin ko nga mga introverts mahilig sa blogging/writing. siguro dun natin nailalabas talaga ang feelings natin

OMG, pare-pareho tayo pagdating sa fb. and i do maintain 3blogs!  hahhahha

[showermist]

Ask ko lang mga introverts. Ano ba kayo sa bahay niyo, I mean family?


Umpisahan ko. Ako ang pinakatahimik pero pinakadelikado. Nasa loob ang kulo. 

panganay ako.  pero di ako lumaki with my siblings.  pero ngayon--ako ang pinakatahimik pero pinakbossy

[FOURever]

^panganay din here..ü

Ask ko lang, ano naman paniniwala nyo about fate? Is it really a destiny or a consequence of your action?

Naguguluhan kasi ako. I don't know kung dahil sa pagiging introvert ko, pero now, ang paniniwala ko talaga, consequence lahat ng nangyayari satin. Like, kung ano mangyari sayo, kung nakakaawa, nakakaawa talaga. Pero i don't fully pity you kasi parang for me, it's fair lang kung may ginawa kang di maganda dati. Kung unfair naman nangyari sayo, all i can say to you is do your best and wait for the good karma after your misfortunes. Minsan, i feel bad kasi ganun pananaw ko. kung naghihirap ka ngayon, you deserve it. Pero kung nagsisipag ka naman, in the end, you'll be rich. Kung di man mangyari sa material na bagay, siguro sa ibang way you are rich. I hope naiintindihan nyo gusto ko paliwanag.ü medyo i don't know how to explain here how i feel.hehe

[showermist]

talented ang mga introverts?  siguro nga.  i always wonder kung ano talent ko--unlike you icleverclogs, i am not a techie/into computers--i only found out recently my inclination to arts.

i have a close friend whose minor is american arts--she always asked me stuff about her subject.   shows me paintings, pictures and asked  me how i see it--my thoughts on those paintings earns  her an 'a' everytime.  sya nagsabi sa akin na i 'excel in arts' daw talaga lols

[showermist]

^^ paniniwala about fate?  i think hindi na ito sakop ng pagiging introverted natin.  imo ha.  pero to answer your question--i believe tayo mismo gumagawa ng fate natin.  our choices.  and secretly, i believe in astrology LOLS.  i am fascinated how--kahit kontrahin ko--tama sinasabi ng stars ko hehe

generally, it's our choices that brought us where we are today and where we are heading in the future.

[FOURever]

^thanks sis.ü

And because im fond of reading, i find astrology interesting too..ü though yun nga, i believe in the consequences of our actions..ü

[showermist]

^ no problem sis. 

[showermist]

OT:


May new topic akong na-start for Cowboys ang cowgirls.


Baka gusto niyong magsubscribe din.
http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,236361.0.html


Para happy naman tayo mga introverts. If cowgirl kayo ha. 

i checked the link--i don't belong.  may pagkamaarte ako eh.  maarte ako sa tubig, sa pinggan at kubyertos na gagamitin, malinisin ako. at i find make-ups fun fun fun and de-stressing heheh

although i agree with one:  ayoko sa mga pasosyal na hindi naman afford. hahhaha  o mga feeling, 'di tayo magkalevel--sosyal ako ikaw hinde" 

[FOURever]

^hehe ako naman, in the middle. Di ako yung tumitili sa crowd pag may ipis or whatsoever, pero pag sa pag inom ng water, maselan ako.. Pero syempre, discreet lang.. Sa akin na lang yun. Hehe kasi nakakahiya if sasabihin ko na ayoko uminom ng tubig sa carinderia --pero nagcacarinderia kami pag may pasok..ü di ako totally cowgirl. Hehe

[lytblu]

wow sobrang nakakarelate talaga ako sa mga post dito ah.