Cheap Men

[ana mimi]

yuck.. TO to the max..

wala pang pera.. daming dahilan..

naku, nagde-date pa ba sila ng office mate mo??

[sugardrop]

Funny naman ng stories dito. I've dated a couple of guys like that na split the tab but I really didn't mind since I always would like to pay in half. After all, men aren't credit cards or ATMs and I won't go out on a date if I'm broke. I guess I just don't want to be dependent on any man. While some guys maybe offended by the gesture, there are those who are cool with it but politely decline the offer. Pero meron nakwento friend ko na guy she dated. They decided to check in to a private place and nung bayaran time na, the guy asked for her share. Hati daw sila. Haha!

[barbwire]

^^ as in super kadiri..
this incident happened few years ago na. hindi na din ako nakibalita kung they still meet up after that.

[ana mimi]

sugardrop : tama, wag gawing ATM ang mga lalaki pero wag naman silang gumwa ng mga alibi para magpalibre lang diba.. wag naman kasing kapal ng face nang naka-date ni barbwire.

[sugardrop]

^
Agree ako. Major turn off yung guy na yun. Pwede naman sabihin na lang yung totoo. Nagsinungaling pa. Lalong turn off. Or better yet, wag na lang sya makipag-date.

[ana mimi]

tama.. kung walang pera wag makipag-date.. jusko. TO yun ha,, nagyaya makipag-date tapos sya pa magpapalibre.. kapal muks..

[cherub.rock]

^ i agree. huwag makipag date kapag walang pera.

[ana mimi]

korek.. lakas magyaya diba? kung tayo yung nagyaya pwede pa.

[ylisza]

...ladies, have you ever dated a man who is cheap?

for me, men who are cheap usually are a big turn off.

like those who expect to split the bill, he pays for one date, you pay for the other...

have you ever dated one of these?  and when dating, should a man expect a lady to pay?

 

if he was a real gentleman, he wouldnt expect a lady to pay.

yeah.. i think i've dated one.. ako nagbabayad talaga ng buong bill each date namin.. i don't know if i should call him cheap or what.. wala lang talaga siyang money.. hayst.. pag may money sya, hanggang dyan lang kami sa "point-point".. you know! 

haha! ako yata yung cheap e.. errrr.. 

natawa naman ako sa sarili ko..

[ana mimi]

tama.. hehe.. parang yung mga girls na nagbayad yung nagmumukhang cheap.

nakakatawa nga kapag sasariwain ang mga ganitong experiences.. LOL. ayoko nang balikan.

[PINKAHOLIC]

Di naman about dating yung experience ko pero its about my ex-bf nung 4th year high school.
Graduation Party kc namin sa isang resort,
may mga snack naman na dala ng mga teachers pero kanya kanya ng lunch then ayun naglunch kami sa isang cantene,
sabi nya wala daw syang barya sa P100 ako raw muna magbayad ng kinain nya bayaran nalang nya sa bus..
P50 lang ang lunch per head,
di ba dapat nilibre nya nalang ako?
P100 din ang pera ko nun, super tipid ko pa. After naman nun, di na binayaran biglang nakalimot nalang.
Kahit pa ang dami nyang biniling kung ano 2x na stuff.
Bumili pa sha ng couple monkey, yung magkayakap. Binigay sakin yung isa pero hiningi yung half price nung takteng unggoy..
So turn-off diba.

Then monthsary namin, binigyan nya ako ng tobleron sabay sabing '' asan yung para sakin''? Asar no di man lang maghintay na ako magbigay.

Yung xmas gift nya sakin is teddy bear. Sad kc kinuha lang pala nya un sa divider na display sa bahay nila kaya pala maalikabok at mukhang luma na. Kung di pa sinabi ng kapatid nya.
Never nya akong nilibre,
puro online games ang alam..
Kahit kapag lunch times, pag ubos na ang ulam nya aalukin kong makishare sya sakin, parang kunwang alok lang at makikishare nga to think parehas kami ng ulam.
Ok, wala pa shang ipon mga bata pa kami at di pa financially stable but gosh, were both student!
Naghihirap na nga ako dahil sa snack nya e asar talaga..
Buti nalang EX na sha.

[lianneg]

^
You have to understand that students kayo sis. Usually, because of that, (for me) okay lang yung splitting and taking turns in paying for snacks and all. Pero sana naman yung teddy bear.. gosh. Haha.

I can't tell if my boyfriend is cheap.. kasi if he has money, he pays for everything naman. Sometimes nga, I feel bad kasi most of the time, I pay.

Ayoko din naman na siya nalang lagi yung nagbabayad, but I look for some chivalry.. yung statement na "No, I'll pay". Pero wala, okay lang din naman sa mokong.

I try to understand him.. yung Mom niya naman kasi di siya binibigyan ng pera.. I don't know if may sama ng loob sakin yung mother nun.

[pinkk]

mentioning the word cheap here, I overheard some guys in a public transport he said  "pare payag nako sa matrona or bakla basta katulad ng kay Hayden! practical na lang."

[ana mimi]

wahaha.. bahala sila kung gusto nila ng matrona no..

naku, yung iba namang students e galante. at kung wala naman talagang pera e sana man lang e magsabi.. hindi yung pakapalan pa ng face ever na gagawa pa ng istorya at simpleng kapal muks.

[jpsv72]

sis beautiful lady super pogi ba yung naka date mo at over confident na i date ka pero ikaw ang mag babayad, kahit na ba nasa tate pa kayo eh. once ikaw ang nag yaya, you should not have to cover or pay everything di ba, ano yun kain tayo pero ikaw bayad, parang let's have S*x then pay for the mot mot , grabe, tutal nag enjoy ka rin naman  bakit ikaw ang nagbayad eh dapat kahit sana half half di gaano masakit sa kalooban pero in full at TN sya pa ang nag oo for the bill, then nag CR ano expect nya. hayzzz. ewan ko , [textspeak!] if that happens to me (na dina mangyayari kc married nako, di na nya ako makakausap kahit kelan.

Buti nalang it never happened to me, kc c hubby kahit ganung rocky road ang relationship namin I still see him as a gentleman, kc buhat nung makilala ko sya hanggang sa ngayong 14 yrs. na kaming married never pa nya ko pinagbayad, away abutin ko pag nag insist ako. One in a million lokong to eh .

[JINJIN:*]

hindi ko naman masabing cheap..siguro kuripot lang..i dont know..

well...we went to this club, me entrance fee siya na 100dhs each..then he ordered one drink for me..and the whole night..yun lang ang ininom ko..parang haller wala na akong drinks? anung plano mo? Kakahiya namang mag sabi na "oist order pa tayo" diba. Hindi ko rin ginawa yun kase I dont want to pay..and I chose not to pay. Unang una..first date namen yun...so dapat naman mag pa impress siya. Kaya ayun, nag yaya kagad akong umuwi after one hour. In this case, since nag bayad siya ng entrance fee and one drink for me..I will call him kuripot and not cheap. Magkaiba naman yun diba.

[JINJIN:*]

pero etong isang guy ang masasabi kng cheap..

ibang lahi siya, he went to his country for a vacation.
when he came back..dahil nagsabi ako ng pasalubong...nagdala siya for me.

I was so excited, Im expecting sana mga sweets or handmade accesories or kahit [textspeak!] from his country hidni naman kelangang expensive. When I got the pasalubong..it was neither of what Im expecting, it was a fake silver bracelet. Well ok fine, nagsusuot naman ako ng fancy jewelry so kerry lang. Then one time I went to this store, yung parang One Dollar store, everything in cheap price...my gawd nakita ko dun yung bracelet!!!!!!!!!!!!! and the price was  like 60pesos!! and take note wala kami sa Pinas ha. Naloka ako. So mula nun hindi ko na siya dinate. So ganun lang pala ang tingin niya saken diba, yung tipong thats all I deserve to have?? Kaya ayun ang loko..dinispatsiya ko ng walang dalawang isip. Ang cheap niya...sayang lang oras ko sa kanya.

[jpsv72]

pero etong isang guy ang masasabi kng cheap..

ibang lahi siya, he went to his country for a vacation.
when he came back..dahil nagsabi ako ng pasalubong...nagdala siya for me.

I was so excited, Im expecting sana mga sweets or handmade accesories or kahit [textspeak!] from his country hidni naman kelangang expensive. When I got the pasalubong..it was neither of what Im expecting, it was a fake silver bracelet. Well ok fine, nagsusuot naman ako ng fancy jewelry so kerry lang. Then one time I went to this store, yung parang One Dollar store, everything in cheap price...my gawd nakita ko dun yung bracelet!!!!!!!!!!!!! and the price was  like 60pesos!! and take note wala kami sa Pinas ha. Naloka ako. So mula nun hindi ko na siya dinate. So ganun lang pala ang tingin niya saken diba, yung tipong thats all I deserve to have?? Kaya ayun ang loko..dinispatsiya ko ng walang dalawang isip. Ang cheap niya...sayang lang oras ko sa kanya.

  grbe ang pagka cheap nya....

[ana mimi]

JINJIN:* : tama lang yan sis.. naku ha, kapal ng face, bibili lang ng fancy jewelry e yung super mumurahin pa

[t_r_i_c_i_a]

nakakatuwa naman 'tong topic. i remember my boyfriend during our first out of town trip (hindi ko pa siya bf then) niyaya ko siya magtagaytay kasi birthday ko. tapos i ended up paying for the dinner, hotel, and breakfast. to top it all, nagmamadali pa siya umuwi kasi may basketball game siya the next day. woah! pero after that text pa ng text, tapos nagyaya magdinner, movie, coffee.. siya na naman nagbabayad. sabi ba naman sakin, test raw niya yun sa lahat ng naging gf niya. lol. we've been together for 10 months now. siguro sa 200 dates namin, 20 times pa lang ako nagbabayad. haha! weird ng boyfriend ko.