to all civil married, may plan pa rin ba kayo ni hubby magpakasal sa church?

[vangie88]

hi sis sexy_07, thanks for your reply. i am very much aware how much a church wedding will cost and i am considering all factors, especially when it comes to finances. i am not planning to have an absurdly expensive wedding that would leave us bankrupt, i will make sure we still have our savings. my point is, if it's a priority, things can be done, there will always be a way. church wedding kasi for me is not just a ceremony, it's very important to me, it's one of the 7 sacraments, it's a blessing from God, but my prob is my bf seems to think otherwise, i'm not sure if men are really like that or he's just being too practical na okay lang for him kung walang church wedding 

[miss ira]

We just got married on January this year and  no plans pa actually of having a church wedding. Ngalang, my grandfather want us to have a church wedding next year as original plan (auntie ko kasi nagopen nung last time na nagbakasyon since we were not opening about getting married, she spoke to my dad about wedding-- pumayag naman dad ko.) I guess we were okay with being together ni ex-bf now hubby kaya pati ang kasal we didnt say anything. Besides we need kasi magipon for it di ba? So ayun we dont have a budget to have a grand wedding  still my grandfather said " kahit hindi grande, just make your bridesmaid wear a dress daw"..yung super tipid talaga. We are planning now kung saan okay ang reception. I looked online and others dont focus much on the dress instead sa food and drinks pinabongga! So we might as well do that  para talagang sulit ang pagdalo din ng mga bisita na manggaling sa malalyo...       Pero ask ko nalang din po, how much do you think yung talagang magagastos  on strict budget? Ty.

[ladyAsh]

no need  buy house instead

[simplybrilliant]

mga sis, nag post din ako dito dati na may balak din kami magpakasal sa church.  I'm so happy, just yesterday, we booked na at caleruega.  Our wedding will be next year....10th year na namin yun as civilly wed couple.  Saya pala. Mas exited nga si hubby kesa sa akin.  Ngayon pa lang di na makatulog..hehe

[annie19]

yes we have plans on having a church wedding, if makahabol sa pag-iipon hopefully next year. we opted for a civil wedding this year kasi am giving birth also. we got married on our 8th year anniv this month lang

[Margaritabythebeach]

Yes we do, on our 15th year, next year. But I really want a private and super close family and friends lang. Yoko gawin for a show. Gusto ko, at least 50-70 family members and friends  lang. :-)

[rgbp14]

Meron kaming planong magpakasal sa church,pero hindi ko alam kung kailan. Hindi naman namin minamadali. Mas gusto ko pang bumili na lang ng bagong furniture at kagamitan sa bahay. Mas matutuwa pa ako pag nakabili ako ng magandang kama at sala set kaysa mag church wedding 

Pareho po tayo. Plan din namin na magpakasal sa church, syempre dream ko din mkapagsuot ng mahabang wedding gown at maglakad sa red carpet. Bagong kasal lang ako November 11, 2011 at as of now mas priority namin ni hubby makaipon ng gamit habang wala pa baby. :-)

[cedric23]

We had our church wedding after a year of our civil wedding. Plan pa nga is on the same day pero di natuloy. Orig plan is to have a church wedding but due to pamahiin "sukob" w/ my brother, civil na lang. We have a strong belief in God's blessing when it comes to marriage so we really pursue it even though dami namin expenses that time since kaka-CS ko lang (6mos old baby nun). Some said that we should have used it for the house construction instead since we already have a lot. But mas at peace ako that our marriage have been guided and blessed by God.

[panda_princess]

YES!...sana...kahit hindi pa muna ngaun... 

[hotminty]

hopefully very soon, hirap lang ng documents needed kasi malayo ang pagkukunang mga parishes (a plane-ride away huhuhu), not only the blessing kahit happy na us parang may kulang, and then plus the fact na pag namatay ka, you're not allowed to be blessed sa loob ng simbahan kung di ka married by canonical law..

[FayeP]

may plano pa din pero di alam kun kelan matutupad, kasi dami kelangan unahin, since nakasal na naman sa civil, un church wedding eh it took a back seat talaga...

hoping ako na sa 5th year anniv namin sana makapag church wedding kami kahit simpleng simple lang

[mslcgrey]

yes! we just got civilly married last may and we plan to have our Christian garden wedding next year December. House muna kasi priority namin so inuna muna namin iyon. So with the basics sa house tapos na this year, we can already save up for our wedding next year. Though we are just planning an intimate wedding so hindi pa rin super laki ang gastos.

[ayami]

dati nagpost ako dito na trip ko ang church wedding. pero ngayon nang naisip ko ang magiging gastos namin sa pag-aaral ng anak namin and all that, ayoko na. aba e kamag-anak pa lang ni hubby, mga 100 katao na. what more kung yung extended kamag-anak ko sasama (since wala akong kapatid)? yung barkada namin aka set ng ninong at ninang ni baby, mga 50 lahat pag pinagsama. nako. bankarote ata kami nyan.

[crazycoolchic19]

Yup kahit simple lang, wait lang ako ng mga free church wedding  sponsored by marriage encounter group. Sayang kase ., im being practical , hinde biro magpaaral mga kidos ngayon.

[Prunella]

It's been a year and I'd still say no. Our wedding, as simple as it was, was perfect. I don't wanna change a thing.

[mameejhy]

Yup, 8yrs kaming civilly married sa March 2013 and we'll have our church wedding on Dec 2012. Flowergirls namin ang 2 daughters namin at ringbearer si son

[mamichula]

^ we had plans of having one but now parang its not at the top of our list of priorities right now. Im
Not religious , not from a religious family din. We were supposed to have one but i told my husband we might as well use the money to buy a place. And we did. Praktikal
ako eh. Was telling my hubby, ano we'll spend 500-700 k to feed 150 people and then the next day san na ang money? Minsan nga may nsasabi pang pintas ang guests after the wedding, or after mo magspend wala naman tutulong ni isa sa invited guests nyo sa financial probs nyo after the wedding z_x

Or naubos na sa wedding ang money tapos d alam
san titira after.

[mameejhy]

^We actually thought of having a church wedding as 'giving back' to God all the blessings he has given us. Nope, we are not religious also. Naisip lang namin na parang yun wedding na lang ang kulang sa buhay namin

[mamichula]

^ ay sorry it wasnt supposed to be a direct reply to you but to the TS nakaugalian ko na kasi maglagay ng "^ " before replies.

To each his own id prolly include my kid din and my dog pareho silang
 ring bearers pg magpush through pa kame


If we decide to push through with it just if ever baka super onti [textspeak!] the guests. Friends have been suggesting we do it abroad para we'll
Pay for the fare and hotel of the immediaye family lang. The rest if they really want to attend theyd save up for their fares and hotel kung seryoso tlg gusto nila to be with us then.

[kookieandcookies]

no plans. i dreamt of it, but gave up after i became a maid of honor to my cousin. i saw the stress and all, and i did not want them for myself hehe~