to all civil married, may plan pa rin ba kayo ni hubby magpakasal sa church?

[nicegirl05]

hi! im newbie here, i dont know if may existing thread na dito about this topic.
7 years na civil married kami ni hubby. we have strong relationship naman, we have plan to get married at church kaya lang di priority kasi nagbabayad kami ng monthly dito sa house, tuition fee of our 2 kids and all that.
if ever na matuloy church wedding namin gusto namin kaming 4 [textspeak!]. pwede ba yun? at ganun din ba gusto nyo? tia

[baby michael]

^ kami din sis ganyan.. 7 years na kami civil married.. 2 din kids namin..

pwede ka magpa marriage blessing/marriage convalidation sa church.. yung marriage vows lang mismo yun gagawin.

we talked to our parish and pwede daw nga yun ganun (i'm here in the US sis).. we have our interview appt with the priest on dec. 15 for assessment kung kelangan pa namin attend ng preparation classes. so hopefully by first quarter of 2011 matuloy na.. ang plano namin immediate family lang kase sabi dun sa church 10-15 lang daw sana ang attend sa marriage ceremony.. sa maliit na chapel lang kase gagawin.. then magpapa dinner na lang kami.. we want to find a nice intimate place na lang for our "reception".. we will also have new wedding bands made..

[stormy_princess]

were married sa civil din. si hubby may plans magpakasal kami ulit sa church..ako wala ng balak. hehe..
for practical reason, mas gusto ko iinvest na lang sa future ng daughter namin yung gagastusin namin sa church. okay na ako sa civil wedding eh. besides, were both happy with what we have naman ngayon. were blessed naman so no problem with it:)

[baby michael]

^ ako din ayoko na ng engrandeng kasalan.. nanghihinayang ako sa pera.. mahirap na buhay ngayon eh..tutal kasal na din naman kame and may 2 anak na.. di na ko pa tweetums..hehe.. basta simple lang, basta ma-bless lang ng church yung pagsasama namin yun lang naman ang importante..

[nicegirl05]

@baby michael, thanks ha pwede pala yun, nandyan ka pala sa u.s goodluck sa wedding mo. happy ako sayo..
@ stormy_princess, correct ka sis nowadays kelangan tayo maging pratikal..
pero sa akin naman yung simple lang talaga. may napanood nga ako na koreanovela nasa 40 something na yung age ng couple at civil wed din sila, pagpunta sila sa i think studio ata yun, at nagpapicture sila na naka wedding gown at amerikano, the couple just want to have a wedding picture. parang ganun lang din yung gusto ko, a wedding picture. hehe para ma experience lang..

[laniegege]

si hubby nakalimutan na din un tungkol sa church wedding    gusto ko sana kaso malaking pera din kailangan dun

[ronalene]

kami we took our time nagpakasal kami sa civil may 2005 then nagchurch wedding kami after 2 years may 2007 medyo magastos talaga pero iba pa din feeling ng church wedding.

bukod sa may blessing kay God parang ang ganda ganda mong suot yung  wedding gown..it was one of the happiest days of ourlives

[jesrora]

gusto ko sana kaya lang di kaya ng budget. unahin na muna magkahouse kami.

[hayne22]

ako din gusto ko sana.kaso hindi kaya ng budget.my parents wants us to get married sa church, kase daw hindi pwedeng mag receive ng holy communion pag hindi kasal sa church..haay..sana may mag sponsor.heheh

[kurengkeng]

you need NOT spend naman ng malaki mga sis.

civilly married din kami for 10 years.,,

we celebrated our 10th year anniversary through a simple church wedding 3 months ago...i spent just 30k, all in, inclusive of damit, church, papers, reception, wedding singer, florist etc etc.. nagpatahi pa ako sa well known designer nyan ha.

15 pax lang kami. my 2 kids, my parents, his parents, 1 pair of ninong/ninang, my brother as cameraman, my hipag as coordinator kuno. mga anak ko ang reader (aged 7 and 9yrs old yan ha =), kaya bilib na bilib yung priest namin.

o diba, nakaraos din. ang importante blessing, hindi ko kailangang ng mga abay abay at kung anik anik. ni hindi invited ang sandamak mak na siblings ni hubby. as in parents lang nya.

 

[jesrora]

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gagawin ko yan kapag nag10 years kaming married, gusto ko talaga simple church wedding... kaya lang ngayon palang, ilang buwan palang parang feeling ko di ako makakasurvive! sana phase lang to. 

[^kaye^]

Meron kaming planong magpakasal sa church,pero hindi ko alam kung kailan. Hindi naman namin minamadali. Mas gusto ko pang bumili na lang ng bagong furniture at kagamitan sa bahay. Mas matutuwa pa ako pag nakabili ako ng magandang kama at sala set kaysa mag church wedding 

[nicegirl05]

@kurengkeng, i cant believe just 30k and all in na, nga pala san ang reception nyo? resto ba? anong gown mo?
happy to say, pero malapit lapit na rin ata kami. but problem eh yung date, gusto ko sana e isabay sa 7th birthday ng eldest namin by january 23, 2012 para tipid isang celebration na lang. e si hubby gusto sa anniversary namin na january 29,bahala na ang mahalaga e matuloy lang.

[kurengkeng]

^ sis nicegirl, honestly, 30k lang talaga. kung hindi pa ako nagpatahi ng "gown" pwede pang mabawasan yang 30k na yan.

church: archbishop's palace, small chapel
soloist + keyboardist : 2k (referred by a friend kasi)
florist: secret ;-) i got a very good deal. church, bouquets, bouttoniere na yan
husband's and son's barong tela : pina bought at divi, pinatahi sa Exclusively His
daughter's dress: yung white dress nya na pinang-communion nya pina alter ko sa para kasing kulay ng barong at dress ko
aras, veil: divisoria
cord: pinagawa ko sa carolina's sa divi. bait ni manang, free labor
lunch reception: Buffet at Cabalen
gown: by Niko Veluz. had a good price din ;-). below the knee ang length, off shoulders, simple pero ginawang elegante ni Niko

trimming down the number of guests will help you trim down the budget din. di mo kailangang imbitahin ang buong baranggay. immediate, small, intimate lang dapat.

[nicegirl05]

^^ sis, san ba place mo? dito kasi kami sa calamba. nagseminar pa ba kayo at "tawag sa kasal" ba un?

[iristacey]

may plan kaya lang not now.. inuna kasi namin yung dp sa lot and investment na din. sana pag mas makaluwag pa. practical din kasi akong tao eh but although gusto ko, hindi ko pa naman kailangan.

[simplykristine08]

may plan din kame ni hubby na magchurch wedding, pero not now. 7yrs kame magbf/gf, pero less than a year palang kameng kasal sa civil. ipon muna for church wedding, maybe after 7yrs or more.

[kurengkeng]

pag civil ka and you plan to do the church wedding, you also need to attend the Marriage Seminar, to do the Marrige Banns (tatawagin pangalan nyo sa parish church nyo na ikakasal na kayo) at canonical interview.

you just need to submit photocopy of marriage contract nyo instead na magsubmit kayo ng marriage license

[nicegirl05]

^ need pa rin pala sundin ang ganung step, akala ko basta blessing na lang.

[Msfi]

my lolo (my real grandma's brother) had their church wedding nung golden anniv na nila, lokohan namin nun 50 yrs silang live-in But they were fortunate that both of them were still alive that time, pati mga anak nila kaya complete ang family. Ang saya nila tingnan, lalo si lola kasi sobrang in-love talaga kay lolo, blooming sya nung day na yun.