to all civil married, may plan pa rin ba kayo ni hubby magpakasal sa church?

[Paperless]

Kami wala na, but we're planning na sa first anniversary namin parang kasal namin ulit... same venue, same caterer, same guests, pero mas bongga  --

[simplybrilliant]

yes, we plan to have it next year na. we got married (civil) on 2003 and happily married eversince.  we already have 2 boys.  pero gustong gusto ko talaga na magkaroon ng basbas ng simbahan.  sabi ko nga kay husband kasama sa 7 sacraments ang kasal.  sabi ko nga kahit sumali nalang kami sa mass wedding sa simbahan.  pero ayaw nya, gusto daw nya kami lang at wala kaming kasabay pag kinasal. gusto ko simple wedding lang na family and super close friends lang pupunta.  gusto ko kasal namin sa eh yung 6:30 na mass sa umaga para super peaceful at solemn talaga.  pwede ko nang maging reader ang aking 9-year old son... then followed by coffee/breakfast lang sa nearby figaro sa amin (my function room naman sila).  then yung tipong may soloist lang na kakanta ng love songs...iiyak siguro talaga ako. bagay ba? may kakanta habang nagcocoffee coffee kami? hehe

[dunkintaba]

san po [textspeak!] place nyo sis kurengkeng.pano kung [textspeak!] husband ko eh nasa ibang bansa pa.eh di  mrami pang preparsyon.pano [textspeak!] seminar.

[lclanzaderas]

nung una, may plano.  5 years na kaming kasal at lately, hindi na namin napapag-usapan.

[jesrora]

hopefully i want a wedding rite... sa church or sa garden with a priest. intimate lang gusto ko. like immediate family and close friends like when we had our civil wedding.

gusto ko sana sonya's garden sa tagaytay tapos buffet lunch lang. or kung sa church i want sa padre pio chapel kaya lang hindi naman sila nagaallow ng sacraments dun kasi chapel lang daw sila.

[fegloria1954]

And, ninang at ninong kami ng husband ko, di ba, Jesrora?

;-)
Mommy Fe

[jesrora]

^yes mami fe!

hopefully, matupad to. I'm excited for July!

[kiz_me1109]

Hubby and I are civlly married for 3 years. On our 3rd anniversary we had our church wedding. Is it true na yung valid marriage certificate is yung sa civil wedding parin?

[hyder0926]

Hubby and I are civlly married for 3 years. On our 3rd anniversary we had our church wedding. Is it true na yung valid marriage certificate is yung sa civil wedding parin?

Yes sis, yun naunang civil wedding pa rin ang ilalagay mo sa date of marriage.. kasi narehistro na yun kasal nyo . hinde naman pwede yun double entry.

[kiz_me1109]

^^ So, If ever, saan namin pwede magamit yung marriage contract na binigay ng church? Parang magiging void narin ba yun? Sabi kasi parang for blessing nalang daw yung church wedding namin and in case daw kapag nag aral na yung anak namin sa Catholic school, baka daw hingan kami ng marriage certificate na kinasala kami sa catholic church.

[LLLA]

yes... need pa mag-ipon.. 

[kuliglig^^]

Sabi ni hubby, pag nanalo raw siya sa lotto. 

But seriously, he wants to get married again if may budget na. And we're pulling all stops na this time. Hopefully that includes a honeymoon trip abroad.

[lala2120]

oo nga ako di n po gusto ko snang magpakasal s church pero hirap din ang life at isa akong wedding coordinator pero d pa namin kaya s church ng hubby ko hehe pero ok din sana pero civil [textspeak!] kmi...

[ayami]

Gusto ko rin sana magchurch wedding kasi di hubby parang di type lalo na yung mother ko mismo. My parents got married civil wedding din and never had the chance to have a church wedding. I was always wondering nung bata ako if they really were married kasi walang pics si mama in a wedding gown and all. As a girl nangarap din naman ako ikasal sa church kaso yun nga bata pa kasi ako nag asawa so civil alng ginawa ng parents namin madalian at less budget kasi

[stormy_princess]

ako gusto makasal ulit kami sa church pero yung husband ko mukhang ayaw na. kainis and kalungkot lang..

[FayeP]

may plan pero parang cya un least priority =(

may baby na kasi tapos nagloan pa kami house sa pagibig huhuhu sana within the next two years matupad ko na to...

[iluvmysoldier]

hay... eto ang lagi naming pinagaawayan at pinagkakatampuhan ng hubby ko 

[babypinkelle]

hopefully if God will permits. 

[vangie88]

Hi sisters, i hope this is the right thread to vent out my feelings and ask for your help narin, me & my longtime bf's planning to have a baby na soon coz of our age narin, so we didn't wanna waste our time, due to different circumstances in our lives, we didn't get the chance to get married, but now since we're sort of in a rush na nga to have a baby, sabi ni bf civil wedding nalang daw, of course i understand kasi nga i think mas kailangan iprioritize ang baby. But the thing is, getting married in church, knowing that i have God's blessing, is very, very, important to me. I asked bf kung after ba magbaby, may plan pa siya na mag church weddng kami, sabi niya kung may extra money daw, taya daw kami sa lotto, it's like saying na malabo na yun, now my dilemma is parang i'm scared na kung ano ang future namin, i don't know kung mababaw ba ako or selfish, but parang i can't live a peaceful life kung hind ako married sa church. Now i'm having second thoughts na about our future together....

[sexy_07]

 vangie88 - every woman talaga pangarap ikasal sa church. in your case, you have to understand yung financial status ni bf, kaya ba? Hindi rin kasi biro ang gastos kahit sabihin mong simple lang. If so, insist hehe if not, priority niyo muna yung baby, ang important naman kasi magkasama kayo and nagmamahalan di ba?!


kiz_me1109 - legal point of view ang valid date talaga ng marriage niyo kung ano talaga yung unang naregister sa NSO. yung sa church is a blessing Sa catholic school hindi naman hihingin kung church o civil ML kasi mas valid pa din yung civil ML niyo