to all civil married, may plan pa rin ba kayo ni hubby magpakasal sa church?

[kiz_me1109]

We were married din sa civil 2 years ago. Then, he proposes again this May. Buti na nga lang hindi na niya pinatagal e. hehe Plan ko kasi talaga na ayusin na yung Church wedding before pa mag start mag school yung anak namin. He just turned 2. So I guess we still have enough time para makapag ipon for our son future. :-)

[Periwinkle25]

not me, but my cuz and her hubby are gonna have their church wedding next month..ganito original plan namin ni h2b kaso circumstances didn't go our way..nagkachickenpox ako nung last vacation ko..like na niya kasi patali agad..lol..finally, in less than a month we'll be having our church wedding=)

[scheena]

mukhang wala na, kahit in my dreams nga hindi ko na maimagine.. iba na kasi gusto nya pakasalan..

[Periwinkle25]

^ Sis scheena, am sorry for that.. hope maayos niyo pa yan if willing naman both sides... if not, i hope ud be fine..

[kiz_me1109]

mukhang wala na, kahit in my dreams nga hindi ko na maimagine.. iba na kasi gusto nya pakasalan..

Nagulat naman ako sa post mo sis. Ok lang yan. Baka hindi lang talaga siya yung para sayo. Sana maging ok ka na. 

[snowflakes]

civil married din kami. nandito na kami sa US pero wala na yata kaming chance magpakasal sa church. nakakahiya nga nung nag file ako sa binyag ng anak ko sabi sakin ng pari kung kasal daw kami sa church sabi ko hinde, sinermunan ako ng sobra. huh! well, i felt so really bad and i told my hubby about that. he doesnt say anything at all. it means he doesnt care. right?
lam nyo yung civil wedding namin ako lahat nag ayos. tapos alam nyo ba na kaming 2 lang wala yung parents namin and relatives. kase ayaw nya. worse is sa karinderia kami kumain after the wedding.  at pumunta ng talyer para ipaayos ang kotse nya. ang sakit grabeh. pero wala naman ako magawa.

[geekchiq]

am not yet married but soon to be, mga next month. nagaayos na lang ng papers. at first, we planned to have a simple church wedding next year. we already chose the church and possible reception, but then i got pregnant. we have few savings for the wedding that we'll use na lang for the civil wedding while the rest will be spent for baby.

we intend to get married once our baby will be big enough to be a flower girl or ring bearer, mga 5 years from now. ever since, yun naman ang dream ko talaga eh. si hubby to be, even though, hindi religious wants us to get married pa rin sa church kasi pangarap niya raw makita na naka-white na wedding dress ako, pero it would be the most simple and intimate church wedding ever, walang arte. ang gusto ko kasi is mabless pa rin kami ng church eh.

[kelly96_ann]

Plan to have church wedding din but not yet feasible this year. Maybe in a year or two pa. 1 year na kaming civil married ni hubby.

[krizzyme]

Hi mga sis,!! im a newbie here,.weve been married in civil for almost 3 yrs, this nov. will be our 4th yr anniv..we have two kids already.. i'm still hoping and praying na maikasal kami sa church, although may plan naman kya lang mukhang malabo pa sa ngayon., i really wanted to experience walking down the aisle, and that is my ultimate dream para sa sarili ko..i envy [textspeak!] mga girls na naexperience nila [textspeak!] ganun tpos may mga pre nuptial pictures and album and all of those things , i got carried away and i've been emotional kpag may hehe, if i could only turn back time, hindi muna pla dapat ako pumayag na mg civil muna kami dapat pla sa church na agad hehe,. .i really love my husband pero parang i feel like may kulang sa amin kc iba kpg may blessing ni God. I'm looking forward na mangyari rin ang inaasam ko na dream wedding of corz the same person parin, sa aking loving husband..

[lulay17]

Sa totoo lang, I do wish to be married sa church kahit na married na kami. I want to solidify our vows in front of the altar. Pero though iniisip ko it would be partly impractical naman kasi gastos but hidden wish ko talaga na makasal parin sa church.. Sana in the future maisip niya na mag propose talaga. I did not get a proposal kasi eh. It was just because maybe he got pressured sakin, sa family ko and sa magiging baby namin at that time. Feeling ko kasi he truly loves me if we get married the second time around and all the works.. Sino ba naman ang hindi gusto matupad yun dream wedding nila diba?

[nicegirl05]

oo sis lahat tayo yan ang wish. kami sa 10th year anniv amin, kahit wedding rites lang masaya ko nun.

[babymine08]

plan namin talaga ang church wedding after our civil wed this year. although, sabi nga ng lahat it is very impractical to have another wedding, super dream ko talga ito and as per my hubby, tutuparin daw nya ito. hopefully pagdating nya matupad bago kami magkababy para may budget pa din hehe

[jacq09]

Plan namin before after our civil wed,(dec.'10) church wed will be sept.09,'11 or Oct. 09,kasi dats our monthsary.we want it memorable..But then,[textspeak!] khit anong preparations..Nahihiya nq magtanong sa asawa ko kasi pag ngtatanong [textspeak!] lgi sagot dami pa raw dapat gawin, wag sumabay sa gastos..Haayyy,hirap naman kasi inaalala at inaasikaso parents nya. Laki [textspeak!] gastos s ospital at sa gamot baka may masabi mga kapatid nya. Pag tinatanong [textspeak!] ng parents q bout that matter, [textspeak!] [textspeak!] maisagot kasi di nman nmin npaguusapan kung may plan pa ba. Pati mga malalapit naming relatives ngtatanong kung kelan na ang church wed kasi nasabi namin before and also [textspeak!] na namanhikan nun na after our civil wed, mgchuchurch dn kmi..Yun din ang sabi ko s mga frens and officem8s thats  why di kami nag invite nun...So sad lang,kasi bilang babae, pangarap din nating maikasal s church,magsuot ng gowns,may mga abay..may flower arrangement,may singers & band etc..ds [textspeak!] ang future plan ng husband ko is to work then kumuha ng bahay na hulugan.Dont know kung matuloy pa [textspeak!] promise nyang kasal para sakin If ever man matuloy, [textspeak!] na pinakahappy s araw na yun kasi kasama din namin [textspeak!] baby boy namin..to be our ring bearer

[nicegirl05]

sis ok lang yun, set your priorities first. kami initial plan namin is civil wed din muna then saved after 1 year church wedding naman, kaya lang i got pregnant na bukod sa hirap ibalik yung dati kong weight may priority na kami yung baby namin. so naiba na yung plan instead na gamitin namin yung pera para sa church wedding namin pinan-down na lang namin sa house. ngayon 2 na kids namin at mag 8 years na kami. in our 10th anniv. plan namin magpakasal na sa church, simple lang but intimate. hoping this time matuloy na.

[bebepink]

hello mga gt sis

ako gusto ko pero hubby ko clueless ako ..kasi pag tinanong ko sya ang sabi nya wala pa tayong funds kahit sabihin ko na kahit simple church wedding lang.   civil married ako for 13 years na.

[lisse]

Yes, 1 year na kaming married, civil rites. Si hubby so-so ang feelings sa church wedding, ako syempre super gusto ko. Yun nga lang kasi, we have a lot of things going on for us so medyo push muna namin sa back burner yung church wedding. We're undergoing medical treatments kasi for fertility, just one example. kaya ayon.

[nicolle]

may plan kami mag renewal of vows next year pero yoko ng bongga,,,gusto ko yun simple lang 

[in2umuch]

after 5 years of civil married atlast mag papakasal na rin kami sa simbahan this January 2012

[nicegirl05]

congrats sis!

[kuliglig^^]

We don't know yet. We want to, but that's if we could save up enough money for a church wedding.