reasons why men look for other women and how can we prevent them from doing so

[FOURever]

^sa tingin ko naman, dun sa girl, kung ayaw nya talaga, kahit pilitin sya nung guy, di pa rin magagawa ng guy yun. Unless rape ang kaso.. Or harrassment --in which forcely na ginagawa ng guy yung gusto nya.. opinion lang, i have nothing against the girl. Hehe syempre di ko naman sya kilala.ü

[neszreyes]

^i think so.. di naman hahabol ang guy pag ayaw talga ni girl.. opinyon lang

[honey_iya]

Agree,hindi naman natin talaga sila mape-prevent. kahit na gaano ka pa ka-ganda,ka-sexy at mabait eh kung gusto ng guy na magloko eh wala naman tayong magagawa.

^^Agree! nung nasa abroad asawa ko may nangungulit sa akin na may asawa na din,sa inis ko sabi ko kapag di niya ako tinigilan isusumbong ko siya sa wife niya. ayun tumigil din

[neszreyes]

^ korek! kung ayaw ng isa, di mapupursue ang isang relasyon..

[neszreyes]

^pero kung may asawa sumbong nia sa asawa! kasi yung iba sila pa matapang na "eh asawa mo naman humahabol sakin bakit di siya tanungin mo?" kaasar yung mga ganun.. haha!

[glamorosa_09]

yeah nasa tao na rin kung mageentertain ng thoughts and circumstances na maglilead sa tukso. Kaya mas maganda rin alam ni hubby yung alam mo... pareho kayo ng wavelength mag-isip. Tsaka takot na rin sa Diyos.

Heard from a talk, kung mas mahal ng hubby mo si God more than you, hindi magloloko yun.

[FOURever]

^wow! That's very inspirational..ü

Tama yung mga sisses natin, kung ayaw talaga ni girl na sumabit, pagsabihan nya si guy kahit gustong gusto sya ni guy. Kung ayaw tumigil, sabihin kay misis o gf!ü para naman di yung girl at misis o ni gf ang magkaaway at para alam nila na may respeto yung girl sa sarili nya..=) hello. Dami pang iba dyan mas magmamahal at rerespeto..ü do not be just an option..

[ebbah]

IMO, we can prevent them by just being "tayo" since day 1. minsan kasi sinisisi naten sa mga lalake na minsan hindi naten alam tayo rin palang mga bababe ang nagbago. sabi nga ng friend ko, act like a mistress. lol.  pra hindi maghanap. love them and show them na they cant live without you. do everything lalo na yung pagaasikaso we never know pinagmamalaki nya yun sa iba. plus factor yun..yung kahit ba pagod na pagod na tayo we can still do everything sa bahay. thats what i do since day 1 ayun, bait naman siya at loyal. hayaan mo lang sila bsta let them know their limits everything will be ok. chaka lagi dapat tayong maganda, sexy at extra sweet.

[FOURever]

^^you have a point sis. hehe! Pero paano ako? Wala sa personality ko yung pasexy at pasweet. Pero habang tinatype ko to, narealize ko, we have sexiness and sweetness on our own ways. So, dapat talaga yung couples ang mag effort para maiwasan to..ü hay. Sarap mainlove!=)

[mango]

aside from being a great wife dapat my prayers na kasama. kasi yung kabarkada ko halos lahat nasa kanya beauty, brains, mabait, masipag maasikaso sa asawat anak pero nangaliwa pa rin hubby nya kaya halos maloka ang kabarkada ko.

[super bratinella]

God centered relationship is always effective, my in laws are God fearing and they have good relationship.

As my hubby said if you are God fearing it will be likely you have less animal instinct, all of us has animal instinct however if you fear God, you are guilty of doing something not according to His commandments.

[ceejhei]

^ i grew up from a God centered family. Unfortunately, si hubby medyo malayo kay God. I don't know hwo to start, but if i asked him to go to church with us, ewan k kung sasama lang siya dahil magagalit ako pag hindi. or gusto niya talaga, mag kaaway kami ni hubby ngayon, and his FB status says something like, umiiyak din daw ang lalaki, tapos a person commented on his status, saying, pare may prob ka? kausapin mo lang siya makikinig yun, then he replied, sino? then the person said, si jesus, try mo lang, it will make you feel better, then he replied, hahahaha! goodluck. i felt bad, wala na siyang connection between God. I need him to be back in God's loving arms.

[super bratinella]

^That's so sad to hear sis, anyway be there for him, and respect what he wants to believe for the moment, kaysa magaway pa kayo dahil sa beliefs. Just continue praying for his faith na mas maging matibay. In my case, hubby bring me closer to God.

[bravo86]

God centered relationship is always effective...

i suuuuper agree!

we used to pray as a family together every night after dinner. natigil lang when my mother passed-away, at nagkaroon na rin ng kanya-kanyang family mga sibs ko.

when my father died years later, i was expecting na may makilamay na ibang babae (with their kids), atat pa naman ako magkaroon ng bagong kapatid  but sadly, walang dumating na gustong makihati sa "lupa sa paso" na iniwan ng father ko.  

[glamorosa_09]

^hindi po kasi physical aspect lang ang habol ng lalake kapag kumakaliwa... more of an emotional needs na naibibigay ng iba na hindi naibibigay ng asawa nila...

[ishko]

i just read a book.. ang reason daw kung bakit nangangaliwa si husband, dahil hindi talaga supportive ang wife.. ang support na yun ay hindi lang sa pag-encourage when he is down, but can be shown thru their intimate moments dahil dun daw nare-release ni hubby lahat ng stress nya at frustrations..

kaya ni lalaki na endure ang problema sa work, social life, etc. kung ok ang intimate relationship nila ng wife.. pero kung dun mismo ang problema nya, lahat na affected 

so, kung happy daw ang mga lalaki sa intimate relationships nila ni wife ay hindi na ito maghahanap pa ng iba

[neszreyes]

^ bakit ako uber supportive nga..

pero kakaiba naman talaga hubby ko diba sis glamorosa_09

btw, OT, panu ba magpalit username?

[honey_iya]

^Di pwede magpalit sis,pwede gawa ibang account shhh

Bakit ang mga girls hanap ng hanap ng ways para di maghanap yung husband/bf nila,eh sila kaya naghahanap din ng ways para di natin palitan?

[kutingpie]

^tamah!

sana ang next title ng thread na ito ay nasa we've got male board :

reasons why women look for other men and how can we prevent them from doing so

 

[aquacharly]

REASONS?  We surely have heard a lot of that; and expect to hear more.   There will always be some reason a man into monkey business will latch onto.   

PREVENT?  Well, one can wish and hope and pray that sh1t never hits the fan.  But then, what is the reality?  Almost all men commit an act of betrayal/infidelity at least once.  GOOD if the GF/wife/partner does not gain knowledge or an inkling thereof... good for her mental and emotional health.   
                             However, when sh1t does hit the fan;  do everything so the sh1t does not stick to the fan.  hehe  Unless, you decide to leave the sh1t behind -- then, que se hoda if the sh1t sticks to the fan forever and ever.