pag wala ba suitor ang isang girl, ibig sabihin pangit siya?

[lunaria]

hindi sa pangit eh..madami namang di blessed sa looks pero nagkaka boylet pa din..i'm assuming guys are attracted to girls na ok talaga yung personality - someone interesting. ill take my gfs as examples na lang. hihi...si girl no 1,kaya di ligawin,super shy sa mga boys..as in kakausapin pa lang sya,natetense na..at age 25,di pa din sanay makipag usap sa boys since all-girl school nung hs, at nung college naman,never naki interact with the boys. si girl no 2,super pretty,mestiza pa nga eh..kaso yun lang,her personality can be a bit of a turn off for some men...she can be too frank & too expressive..we went out on a group date dati,di nya type yung boylet,so kitang kita mo sa muka nya & body language na busangot talaga and cross arms madalas..wala pareho sa kanila yung openness & willingness to interact (and the courage to flirt haha)..aside from that,mashado silang mapili sa boys.makakita lang ng isang quality na ayaw,turn off na turn off na kagad. disney fairytales yata ang gusto with the perfect prince charming. ok lang siguro maging mapili,basta naka ayon with how you look + your personality.

[diwata]

I'll back read. I'll learn from this a lot.

[tomatostellar]

pwede =p haha, or baka sadyang madami syang friends na mas maganda sa kanya kaya yung iba yung pinili, or hindi sya approachable,  or wala syang exposure, pwede nga tulad ng sinabi ng karamihan na-intimidate yung guys sa kanya, - or natakot (kasi pangit nga) tsarlot =p

[imyourangel]

So there may be a few reasons why a woman does not have suitors:
1. Underexposed -- masyadong homebody, hindi socially active. minsan introvert lang sila but they tend to be perceived as aloof or suplada.

Maybe this is me. Lol. Very aloof ako sa mga tao. Someone even said to me na parang ang hirap ko daw "pasukin" (my life I mean) kasi ang suplada ko daw. Sabi ko nga, iba ang suplada sa pagiging mahiyain.
Konti lang din ang friends ko. Kung sino lang sila, sila lang ang sasamahan ko. Kaya siguro wala din ako nami-meet na someone new. In my MA classes syempre iba ibang tao andun. Usually after class alis na din ako agad, I don't bother socializing with others na. Hayy.

[@JLO]

@sisJLO

if the guy looks kind and nice and well, not hard on the eyes, i smile.

sometimes you need to smile, i mean if lagi ka nakasimangot talagang walang lalapit sayo.

tulad ng sis ko, she rarely smiles, tapos we're at a bar then nagsmile siya about something, sabi ng friends niya "ui smile ka nga ulit, alam mo daming nagtatanong about you pero di mo kasi pinapansin or ini-is-smile-an kaya ayan nagmomove on na lang".

then nanotice ko nga parang nakasimangot ang default ng sis ko. she's very pretty though and nagkakaboyfriend naman. hahaha.

haha... i hope i could stretch this lips a little for a guy stranger

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^sis piliin mo rin naman yung guy na you'll smile to. wag naman yung scary looking. hahaha. and smile like you mean it, like masaya ka. wag yung awkward scary smile.
i think sa mga chinito strangers ako usually nagsmile kasi they look kind and harmless. lol.

[brandi]

^i don't smile back pag maniac looking yung guy or yung feeling ko iba intentions nito and he's not just being kind. iba kasi yung friendly smile sa sabi nga ng iba ngiting aso.

On topic: pangit agad? hindi ba pwedeng hindi lang niya type yung mga suitors mismo?

[JakeTheDog]

^i don't smile back pag maniac looking yung guy or yung feeling ko iba intentions nito and he's not just being kind. iba kasi yung friendly smile sa sabi nga ng iba ngiting aso.

On topic: pangit agad? hindi ba pwedeng hindi lang niya type yung mga suitors mismo?

Hindi nya type lahat ng suitors nya her whole life? hahaha 

[brandi]

^malay mo naman, wala pa siya nagustuhan sa mga suitors, pwede naman yun hehe.

ako nga pag may mga guy friends ako o kaya yung mga guys na nakikipag kaibigan pero iba feeling ko, dumidistansya na ko eh. pag friends tayo, ok na makuntento ka na doon.haha ewan ko. nagiging aloof talaga ko pag nakakaramdam na ko ng special treatment. weird di ba? 

[shshshsh]

^parehas tayo jan sis!haha

[brandi]

^akala ko ako lang ganoon hahaha! 

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^i don't smile back pag maniac looking yung guy or yung feeling ko iba intentions nito and he's not just being kind. iba kasi yung friendly smile sa sabi nga ng iba ngiting aso.

On topic: pangit agad? hindi ba pwedeng hindi lang niya type yung mga suitors mismo?

siyempre naman sis. baka iba pa maging interpretation sa smile mo. scary!

[kjshoot2ill]

hehe

di naman natin tawaging pangit if maganda talaga kahit walang suitor
pero if pangit, tsaka walang suitor, aba ibang usapan na yan..

[hermione28]

hindi naman siguro. kung hindi ka naman bulag at sure kang maganda ka, (I mean yung totoong maganda hindi yung maganda ka dahil sa confidence at appreciation sa sarili mo, yung tingin mo sa ibang tao kung maganda sila o pangit, tapos you consider yourself as pag nakita ng iba maganda talaga) tapos walang nanliligaw sayo, hindi ka pa din pangit. pwedeng wala ka lang social life, limited ang friends yung ganun.

Ako black beauty kasi, so kapag tinapat mo ko sa hindi naman kagandahan pero maputi, sila talaga ang mapapansin. parang ganun lang siguro yun. hindi naman kapag walang nanliligaw pangit na.

[shshshsh]

^akala ko ako lang ganoon hahaha! 

ako din eh. kasi sa mga friend ko ako lang ganon.hahaha:))

[chinablue]

pwede ding intimidating si girl. nung college ako, may isa akong barkadang lalaki na tinutukso ko sa classmate namin. The classmate is maganda, maputi, sexy, mabait, at matalino, almost perfect na. Ayaw ng barkada ko, dapat daw may kotse na siya at stable na work bago siya magkakalakas ng loob na manligaw kay classmate. Bottom line is, in my opinion, may mga babae na hindi ligawin hindi dahil pangit sila kundi nahihiya ang mga guys na iapproach sila because they seem so independent and perfect.

[chichi143]

pangit agad? hindi ba pwedeng choosy muna? hahaha.

[chichi143]

Hehe hindi naman siguro. I know beautiful, brilliant, talented, kind-hearted women who rarely have suitors. Why? They're perceived as high-maintenance women with no vulnerabilities. Lesser men feel emasculated or can't keep up or feel they have to be constantly on their toes, na-stress ang mga lolo. Minsang may naglalakas loob, pero obviously kapal muks at gold digger ang peg lol, one just can't take these guys seriously. Bihira ang tunay na katapat nila.

So there may be a few reasons why a woman does not have suitors:
1. Underexposed -- masyadong homebody, hindi socially active. minsan introvert lang sila but they tend to be perceived as aloof or suplada.
2. Picky -- unrealistic ang hinahanap. they see themselves as almost perfect beings deserving almost perfect demigod-like men. That's almost impossible to find. Good luck to them.
3. Boring personality -- maganda nga, pero clueless/no sense of humor/no originality. A boring personality often also translates to a generic/boring appearance.
4. Prudes -- maganda at may sense kausap pero manang. they badly need a 21st century makeover.
5. Masama ang ugali
6. Too much alpha female-ness -- They don't know when to turn the alpha switch off and just enjoy being a carefree happy woman who's a delight to be with.
7. Ugly -- not necessarily a limitation. There are lots of ugly girls who lead great lovelives. It will have to be combined with the other factors above.

ako number 1 and 6.
Haha salamat sa advice na to

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^sis try socializing more! masaya. haha! and padelicate ka ng konti. pero wag naman na to the point na dependent on everything. dapat may mga bagay-bagay lang na delicate ka, meron na you can do on your own.

[tomatostellar]

hehe

di naman natin tawaging pangit if maganda talaga kahit walang suitor
pero if pangit, tsaka walang suitor, aba ibang usapan na yan..

LOL!